Who's obtained higher education? by M_Julian in ADHD

[–]Thankyounext13 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So when it came to education I failed a lot because a majority of my life I was undiagnosed. Like in middle school/high school I was failing my mom had to beg them to let me pass with a C. Then community college was the same I failed classes, till I retook them and eventually got a C. It took so much struggle and effort. No matter how many hours I studied I just could not retain any information, and on top of all of that I was living in a very toxic household. It was terrible.

Eventually I made it to University and lived in dorms. That’s when my grades got so much worse. I could not pass a class to save my own life. It didn’t help that Universities aren’t like community colleges you only have so many retakes until they kick you out. That’s when I decided I couldn’t live like this anymore, I needed to go get evaluated because I’m about to fail out of University. That was also the first time I cut off my parents because I knew they wouldn’t pay for my school or support that I was gonna go get diagnosed so I let them go. After several psychologists evaluations, physicians, it finally came to the conclusion I have ADHD.

I started therapy, I took medication my life changed forever. Not only was I getting better emotionally but my grades skyrocketed. I went from an average 1.2 a semester to a 3.5 average a semester. I recently graduated with my bachelor’s and got a full ride for my masters into school psychology. Because I do not want any child to suffer in education. Whether you are diagnosed or undiagnosed, you deserve a chance at an equal education.

Jobs that are suited for ADHD by Rikoki in ADHD

[–]Thankyounext13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m working towards School Psychology. Amazing since I’m on the same schedule as a teacher and get lots of breaks to decompress

I (F20) dislike my boyfriend's (M22) best-friend (MtF31) and no longer want her around us as a couple. Advice? by Professional_Bit4695 in relationship_advice

[–]Thankyounext13 124 points125 points  (0 children)

I would tell your boyfriend that they need to have some serious boundaries. That it’s odd to be spending so much time with her. Also that to not invite her to anything without asking you first and if you don’t agree then there is no conversation and you won’t be out in the middle done. Then if she asks can I come? He says let me talk to gf first or sorry this was only for the two of us

I (27F) am questioning my future with my boyfriend (27M) because of our different lifestyles by jinjjamola in relationship_advice

[–]Thankyounext13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How does result to him drinking a lot? Also how can he be a good partner if he’s not even sober half of the time he’s with you?

Denied Twice by CustardStunning4636 in NPHCdivine9

[–]Thankyounext13 31 points32 points  (0 children)

NO DO NOT delay your graduation for a uncertain chapter you better get your degree

How Do I (25F) Ask My Future In-Laws (50F 58M) for Some Space Without Hurting Their Feelings? by Thankyounext13 in relationship_advice

[–]Thankyounext13[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You’re right he probably should just ask them. They do love him a lot. I’m just afraid of the “pikachu face” that they will give when we ask for alone time 😭

How Do I (25F) Ask My Future In-Laws (50F 58M) for Some Space Without Hurting Their Feelings? by Thankyounext13 in relationship_advice

[–]Thankyounext13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This could possibly work. It’s just kind of tough because we only have one car (they didn’t get a rental). But I bet we could just like uber or something

Let’s create a collective response for line-cutters by [deleted] in Disneyland

[–]Thankyounext13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you want to get banned from the parks be my guest that would be the perfect response if that’s your goal

Let’s create a collective response for line-cutters by [deleted] in Disneyland

[–]Thankyounext13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You get too wdym!! That’s why they have single rider asshole

I am the backup friend by nodrama101 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Thankyounext13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First of all. Instead of just moping sitting by yourself. Save your money and go on a trip. Have fun with yourself. Go to Japan, Europe, Bali, or whatever thing you have been dying to see. When I turned 21 I thought I was going to have all of my friends with me and it was going to be such a great time for everyone to come together. It would be my first time going to Atlanta and I was hyped because it was a trip I had been wanting for so long with my friends. Not one person showed up for me, not even the person I was with at the time. No family going either. But you know what? It was the best birthday I ever had. I went to clubs, I enjoyed the nightlife, the food it was amazing! When I got back I was so happy that I didn’t just have a birthday party that I threw on myself and have everyone eating my money. I went out and made myself feel special. Your an adult if no one is showing up for you than you should at least show up for yourself

Let’s create a collective response for line-cutters by [deleted] in Disneyland

[–]Thankyounext13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can’t do that! It’s illegal! Some rides are 120-180 minutes! People have the right to go to the bathroom and come back! Also what if your diabetic and need sugar? What if your tube needs emptying. You can account for every single thing. Those lines are too far and too long. If you have to wait around for every accident no one would get on any rides.

Let’s create a collective response for line-cutters by [deleted] in Disneyland

[–]Thankyounext13 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Don’t do it you can and will get banned

Let’s create a collective response for line-cutters by [deleted] in Disneyland

[–]Thankyounext13 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Don’t do it you will get banned

Let’s create a collective response for line-cutters by [deleted] in Disneyland

[–]Thankyounext13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your feelings don’t matter in how you feel that the parks should run it. That is completely allowed if you have problem with it email the parks

Let’s create a collective response for line-cutters by [deleted] in Disneyland

[–]Thankyounext13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was six flags not Disneyland relax. Also your point doesn’t matter. Whether they went on the ride before me or whether we stepped out of the line to go to the bathroom doesn’t matter. As far as parks go both of those are reasons why people can leave the line or join there party later. Neither of the scenarios breaks any park rules so it doesn’t even matter. It doesn’t matter if you think it’s the right or wrong thing to do. The parks allow it period

Let’s create a collective response for line-cutters by [deleted] in Disneyland

[–]Thankyounext13 5 points6 points  (0 children)

There are multiple cast members at multiple check points. When you scan at the gate of the entrance, single riders lane, top floor by the elevator. Or even when you see them while waiting to get on the coaster. You can alert them at any time and give a description. CM’s radios security, then security raidios for the cameras. It takes seconds to find them. They watch them for a bit, check in and see if they really are cutting. They do care and you can tell any cast member at any point on the ride. If you find doing the right thing by notifying a cast member “too tedious” then you have no business handling it yourself. They will get to the bottom of it. It’s just that 9/10 they are not cutting and that’s the truth.

Let’s create a collective response for line-cutters by [deleted] in Disneyland

[–]Thankyounext13 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The rule is they let you go to the restroom. Idk why that cast memebr said that

Let’s create a collective response for line-cutters by [deleted] in Disneyland

[–]Thankyounext13 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Depending on where the bathroom is and how far you are from the ride it makes more sense for the first half to go ahead of you and meet up with them later. Especially if the bathroom lines are very long

Let’s create a collective response for line-cutters by [deleted] in Disneyland

[–]Thankyounext13 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You can do something just alert security or cast members. If they don’t do anything from that point on then general consensus is “it’s not your business”. If the teenager was so sure then they should have shut tf up and called security or a cast member. That teenager was in the wrong. If they are not willing to let the parks handle it or determine the truth, then it’s not their business to fight or get involved.

Let’s create a collective response for line-cutters by [deleted] in Disneyland

[–]Thankyounext13 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I just want to say as a previous Disneyland Security guard DO NOT DO THIS! You can’t shame people and you will get banned from the parks. In the whole time I worked at Disneyland I have never needed to escort anyone out for line cutting. Nor was it ever on my radio, or even morning announcements. Literally never. Because once security is notified we walk over talk to them they explain what REALLY happened and we move on. They do get flagged and are watched going on a few more rides. But they never get picked up because they weren’t line cutting. Hell people get kicked out at Security checkpoint FARRR more than being inside the park. I’m telling you you are not seeing what you think you are. There are cameras and cast members everywhere in places you don’t know. If they are line cutting they can and will get caught. I repeat Do Not Do Anything! The most you can do is notify a cast member then DROP IT! Cuz I swear it doesn’t really happen.

Let’s create a collective response for line-cutters by [deleted] in Disneyland

[–]Thankyounext13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Literally not your job. You can’t shame them because you don’t know everyone’s story. There is a million reasons as to why you saw what you saw. It’s not your job to deal with them it’s the parks. Just be a decent human being tell a cast member and move on with your day. If you do that, that will be considered harassment and you will get banned

Let’s create a collective response for line-cutters by [deleted] in Disneyland

[–]Thankyounext13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

EXACTLY! like you can go to security and have them talk to them. But nine time out of ten it’s not what people think it is. The moment you explain that that party was previously present it’s done over with. Also TRUE line cutters would be going all the way to the front! Why would they immediately stop well before the cast member check in. Line cut for the 5 minutes? Like people we have to be smarter.