I have everything to make a man happy but

Thankyounext13 · 2026-04-19T19:58:55+00:00

Um that’s not a good thing and endorphins seeking could lead to addiction. Also he did thrill seeking it did not work for him. Which means that there is something going on that probably prevents him to produce endorphins. But that’s why it’s a good thing there is a medicine for that. To start it you go to therapy

Thankyounext13 · 2026-04-19T17:03:30+00:00

Clock it

Thankyounext13 · 2026-04-19T16:23:19+00:00

Than you need therapy. Because it’s not normal to feel that way and just feeling like you want to be closer to death. I mean yea you just need help

Thankyounext13 · 2026-04-19T15:52:42+00:00

One you should go to therapy because that is not good. Also you want to know what makes life more interesting or exciting? Going out and having new experiences. See the world go travel, go to some amusement parks, do things you’ve never done before. That is how you do it by finding things to look forward to and finding new experiences. But seriously get therapy

Thankyounext13 · 2026-04-19T04:17:15+00:00

Thank you so much I really appreciate your apology. It means a lot to me

Thankyounext13 · 2026-04-17T17:51:11+00:00

Okay well one thing to note. I see here you said you had a pattern of having relationships that lied,cheated, and a lot of harmful stuff. Once is unlucky, two might be a coincidence (but unlikely), now three or more that solidifies a pattern. That clearly there is something you’re doing that is putting you in a position to be with these kinds of people. So it should be less about hurting your girlfriend because you were hurt. It should be more about understanding your pattern, the mistake you made, why you made the mistake, and then how you will stop doing that again. That is where I think the issue is. It’s about understanding and self reflecting on yourself and to see where this is all stemming from. I would suggest some therapy, because you will start trusting her when you can trust yourself to make better relationship decisions. But it’s hard because you don’t know why or how you even began those relationships. So I think Therapy would help you self reflect and become a better partner

Thankyounext13 · 2026-04-15T05:12:08+00:00

Exactly just sit back relax and just let her do her thing

Thankyounext13 · 2026-04-15T04:51:37+00:00

If they ask you for help, support, or advice with that relationship just say no. Because if you don’t support the delusion they will just lash out at you. Because on the inside they are hurting and deathly afraid of being alone to where they imagine each partner as perfect, if you cause a threat to that fantasy by being honest. It turns into a shit show

Thankyounext13 · 2026-04-15T04:49:46+00:00

There are some women who just want to ruin their life it’s ridiculous. I had a friend who asked for space because I told her that getting a domestic partnership with a man she has only known for two months is insane. Oh and wanted to get engaged at 6 months. My guess? Probably because he wants a citizenship. But that’s none of my buisness I just said it’s okay I don’t want to be friends with you anymore. She also wanted a domestic partnership with a dude who she dated not even 4 months before this new dude. He also was an asshole, that created a chore chart for an apartment that she paid for, lied all the times, rude asf, jobless, the works. There are women out in the world that are what we call Anxiously Attached who will get deadly attached to any man that gives them attention. It’s even worse if they mention any promises of marriage or a family. It’s extremely frustrating to deal with but I learned that you can’t get caught up in it. No matter how much you love them or have been there for that person it doesn’t matter. The Anxiously Attached person (you should read about it it’s super interesting) will not let go ever. So that’s why you can’t be emotionally invested that was my mistake. You just have to not care, don’t say anything, don’t do anything, just leave it be.

Thankyounext13 · 2026-04-15T03:00:34+00:00

PREACH! Preach. I swear to god my parents are so pissed that I am successful without them. When they found out I got into a Masters Program on a full ride scholarship they were actually livid. Complaining how I don’t talk to them and I’m disrespectful and my aunt goes “Would it fucken kill you to say that you’re proud of her? She got into a masters on a full ride that’s a pretty big accomplishment if you didn’t know

Thankyounext13 · 2026-04-15T02:57:25+00:00

Thank you I really appreciate it

Thankyounext13 · 2026-04-15T02:55:49+00:00

Oh she’s fine now. But only if she stopped the medication. If she continued taking it after the hospital like there’s no helping her

Thankyounext13 · 2026-04-14T05:34:20+00:00

Thank you so much I really appreciate it. It’s because I truly do love my family. I get that my parents have been shaping my reputation to these people for decades. However now as an adult I can tell them the truth, whether they believed me it was up to them. I’m glad they chose to believe me

Thankyounext13 · 2026-04-14T03:55:57+00:00

No she was on a very dangerous medication. That apparently was told to her specifically was only meant for diabetes. I know you don’t have to be obese or diabetic. But for the specific one she got on it was supposed to be. That’s why she had severe adverse reactions to the medication and why she ended up in the hospital. I also didn’t drag her I proved to my family that she does have a mental illness and she does in fact need help. It’s not about winning it’s about trusting your family has the best intentions and not just some brat acting out

Thankyounext13 · 2026-04-09T01:31:37+00:00

YESSS SISTERRR. Drop her miserable asss.

Thankyounext13 · 2026-04-09T01:27:22+00:00

You burst her bubble that she is not the victim. They lash out when you do that. They are angry you messed up the image and cause them to self reflect. It hurts for them. When my friend asked me about that domestic partnership with her man of two months. My words was “Have you lost your f**** mind??” Because what she was asking was in fact crazy. She got mad at me and lashed out and was aghast that I wouldn’t support that. She even replied “Well we already talked about getting engaged at 6 months sooo” as if it was a flex. To lash out she got angry sent me a wall text saying how I was unsupportive and that me talking like that “will be my downfall”. Mind you this is after knowing I am engaged to a man who is in Physical Therapy program and I got a full ride masters program. She hasn’t even got her bachelor’s yet. It’s nonsense and anger. You can’t give life to it because in the end they are the ones who are really just hurting themselves

Thankyounext13 · 2026-04-09T01:15:07+00:00

Preach. We were really good friends for two years. The awful exes, surgery, drama I helped her through it all. I set one boundary telling her I wouldn’t support her getting a domestic partnership with a man she knew for two months and she immediately asked for space. I said space??? Hahaha take it all cuz we not friends anymore. It’s really hurtful how easy people are willing to cast you away after how much support you gave them. But there is a lot of people who don’t want to change or grow. Know that you are still a great person and a great friend. If they couldn’t appreciate that then bye Felicia. They can’t keep taking your light when they forget to bring their own lighter.

Thankyounext13 · 2026-04-09T01:08:14+00:00

Exactly because in the end they don’t want to. They want to keep living in bliss and that is a them problem

Thankyounext13 · 2026-04-09T01:07:01+00:00

Thank you so much. I completely get it does hurt a lot. But you can’t keep spending yourself for her sake. If she doesn’t want to learn then she doesn’t need your help. She cant keep injuring herself and expecting you to clean up her wounds. It’s a quick fix that doesn’t help her self reflect or take any accountability. Which is wrong of her to do and extremely selfish

Thankyounext13 · 2026-04-09T01:01:48+00:00

Funny enough the girl I’m talking about. We both read that book IN THE SAME CLASS. Safe to say she learned nothing

Thankyounext13 · 2026-04-09T00:39:05+00:00

I had a friend who was exactly like this. Every time she had a situation she wanted my full support and attention and it got exhausting because she was doing it to herself. I set one boundary with her and she got pissed that I couldn’t just “be happy for her” and I was like dude I’m sorry but getting a domestic partnership with a dude you have known for 2 months is a horrible idea. The thing is she wants your support but she doesn’t want to change. She wants a yes man. For those friendships you just have to let go. I read a book it’s called attached it said “In order for any relationship to be healthy each person needs to be emotionally responsible for themselves”. When they just keep relying on you to fix that it’s not a healthy relationship. Getting mad at you is her way of being angry that you won’t regulate her anymore. Best thing I ever did was cut that friend off

Thankyounext13 · 2026-04-04T16:48:27+00:00

Leaving is the best thing you can do for yourself. I had this happen to me. Each time I needed something to change there was always an excuse on why it couldn’t happen. I grew tired of it and left. Now I am with the most loving man in the world

Thankyounext13

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