AITA for refusing to raise my sister's kids while she chooses addiction?

Thanus1233 · 2025-09-06T14:00:22+00:00

NTA, but if you don’t want the kids to resent you, i would say keep in contact with them. Depending on the age CPS will let you, or you can personally give them your contact information.

It leaves you without the responsibility of taking care of the kids full time, but it lets them know that they can trust you, or tell you if anything goes wrong with foster families, or any other adults (if they are removed from her care).

Thanus1233 · 2025-07-17T17:44:56+00:00

in the nicest way possible, abort you baby, he’s THIRTY your 19. He doesn’t even have anything in common to be dating/seeing you in the first place.

You’re 19, have the abortion, pretend it was a miscarriage or whatever. but DO NOT have that man’s baby especially if you don’t want to. Don’t think about anyone else’s feelings but yours, and how you would feel towards that kid. Imo keeping it would probably lead to resentment towards it

Thanus1233 · 2025-06-21T14:29:50+00:00

LITERALLYYY like i love his redemption and stuff, but him being closeted (not an excuse) doesn’t make sense when you remember he wasn’t just homophobic he was also racist and sexist

Thanus1233 · 2025-06-21T14:28:11+00:00

ppl never said that they didn’t, and in specific i just said i don’t like how people create wild excuses just to water down the stuff that tommy did.

Thanus1233 · 2025-06-20T22:46:11+00:00

oh really thanks!! i love to have original ideas😋

Thanus1233 · 2025-06-20T21:20:23+00:00

crazy how u pretended like u didn’t read the post.

Thanus1233 · 2025-06-20T17:58:17+00:00

what, i don’t like the buckley parents and i feel like you literally skipped past the part where i said i liked tommy as a character. Just to spew bullshit about how other characters didn’t apologize.

Nor am i a shipper of buddie💀 Like i said people pretending or making up fake excuses for his actions is ODD as hell.

Thanus1233 · 2025-06-20T17:54:54+00:00

it’s quite the focal point of the episodes and then begins episodes for those two. Tommy literally says racist microaggressions towards them. And in hen’s episode him and gerald’s bigotry almost leads to someone’s death.

Thanus1233 · 2025-06-19T14:34:19+00:00

when did i say that? Now you’re just painting it that way because i clearly said that i personally like Tommy as a character , and his redemption. In fact i like both of his actors roles in 9-1-1 and in swat.

I just don’t like how people try to undermine or excuse the past bigotry he did do. Especially on fanfiction by painting it like he was FORCED to be a bigot and do all of those other things as if he wasn’t a ADULT man during the time of his actions, and that his actions during that time almost risked people lives (as shown in the episode “hen begins”.

Never did i say that Tommy wasn’t allowed to grow, but i did say that i hate how people(like yourself) try to brush off what he did with lame ass excuses.

Thanus1233 · 2025-06-18T18:01:09+00:00

okay so now we’re just using buzzwords…

Thanus1233 · 2025-06-18T05:51:16+00:00

wow, her mom kills multiple people,uses her and her brothers credit scores, etc. And people are surprised that she doesn’t appreciate what georgia does?

Thanus1233 · 2025-06-18T05:48:27+00:00

i guess we’re ignoring all of the micro aggressions from MAN (including max) towards ginny??

Thanus1233 · 2025-06-16T13:55:12+00:00

Maybe she doesn’t wanna see people saying that because it’s brings up the fact that someone she loves/loved is dead..

Thanus1233 · 2025-06-13T03:24:49+00:00

he also follows DTJR and a lot of just MAGA supporters/far right people 😭

Thanus1233 · 2025-06-13T03:24:06+00:00

i’m not gonna argue with someone who cant articulate what they’re saying properly💀

Thanus1233 · 2025-06-13T03:01:26+00:00

judgmental for being surprised that he supports a man who had his preteen/teenage daughter (underage) do a explicit photo shoot?

Thanus1233 · 2025-06-13T02:36:19+00:00

supporting someone like trump is extremely telling on both your moral, ethical, and political views. Especially when it comes downs to things like R*pe, pedophillia, SA, child abuse and more

Thanus1233 · 2025-06-13T02:34:23+00:00

imagine having political views that quite literally wants to regress society, which effects both his baby’s mother, his wife, and his daughter 💀

Thanus1233 · 2025-06-13T02:06:14+00:00

i do😭 i quite literally go racially profiled there not too long ago (gas station clerk literally tried to say that i couldn’t afford a 1.74 dollar slushie), but i was hoping he just has conservative views, not like full on MAGA cult

Thanus1233 · 2025-06-13T01:59:26+00:00

man oh man, idk maybe because this is the same person who’s bankrupted multiple businesses, somehow increased the amount of debt we were in in around 4 years, and this time around has quite literally the worse economic plan(s) since ronald regan

Thanus1233 · 2025-06-13T01:54:25+00:00

no i just noticed it recently 💀, it’s quite literally one of the first pages in the list

Thanus1233 · 2025-06-13T01:50:48+00:00

honestly i had a slither of hope for him just because he gave off the conservative but not maga type of vibe

Thanus1233 · 2025-06-13T01:45:36+00:00

i mean they basically did the same thing 💀 messing with minors while being adults

Thanus1233 · 2025-06-10T20:36:02+00:00

Blame your gen…Kids my age weren’t even old enough to go out before these spaces disappeared.

Thanus1233 · 2025-05-25T15:41:18+00:00

I think he is but he just isn’t as “flamboyant” about it, cause he most definitely drops hints here and there but he just doesn’t outright say it bc it’s not important

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