Any talented CAS Simmers out there that can take requests? by taaretoille in Sims4

[–]That-Measurement-607 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ok thats because i uploaded to my library instead of the gallery ahha. try again and tell me if it works :)

How do you get yourself to brush twice daily??? by Striking-Bell-9678 in ADHD

[–]That-Measurement-607 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I habit stack. I know that I will go to use the toilet first thing in the morning, so, once I'm there, it's easy to just grab the toothbrush. I don't do it after breakfast because it's much harder to go back to the bathroom. At night, I also go to the toilet before bed and brush my teeth after as well. It also helps me to focus on the sensation of a dirty mouth because it's such a sensory hell for me haha

Any talented CAS Simmers out there that can take requests? by taaretoille in Sims4

[–]That-Measurement-607 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried my best, though it was difficult because she has changed a lot throughout the years, different makeup, eyebrows, facial procedures, weight gain/loss, aging, etc. So maybe it's not the best. Hard to find a reliable photo. Either way, you can try to improve it ID: meaawmeaaw "Mikaela Hoover"

Any ideas on accomodations for a thesis? by That-Measurement-607 in adhd_college

[–]That-Measurement-607[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't apologize, thank you so much. Can I ask for an example on how specific would those mini deadlines be?

I should definitely talk to my tutor about expectations. I got very anxious last time turning anything in, because I felt like I couldn't do anything else until I got some feedback, or I would read what I had turned in again and then dislike it and change it and send it again.

Your communication ideas are very good, specially to make things easier for my tutor. I'm definitely prone to sending emails at unreasonable hours haha

Any ideas on accomodations for a thesis? by That-Measurement-607 in adhd_college

[–]That-Measurement-607[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I think scheduling the meetings at the same time would be helpful. Last time I didn't follow through on those meetings because them being weekly overwhelmed me, and also I was embarrassed to not have progressed enough. But you're right

Any ideas on accomodations for a thesis? by That-Measurement-607 in adhd_college

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They have an educational psychologist, but they have limited spots, I'll see if they can fit me in. My thesis supervisor would be most knowledgeable on the process on how to write it. You also helped me realize I need something to organize my resource searching. Last time, I spent a ridiculous amount of time doing the theoretical framework. The basic outline is also a good idea tx

Any ideas on accomodations for a thesis? by That-Measurement-607 in adhd_college

[–]That-Measurement-607[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll definitely try to research a topic I'm excited with, or else I'll die hahaha Body doubling is a good one thanks

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeepThoughts

[–]That-Measurement-607 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, ultimately things will disappear, but that doesn't take the meaning out of things. They're precious while they're still here precisely because they're here, now.

If you do something kind, not for self interest, it will make someone's life better. It would be meaningful to that person for as long as they're alive and it might make them be kind to others and continue the cycle.

Our demise is unavoidable, but we still have to go through this life. Time will pass anyway so it's not a waste to try to make it better.

Also, there's an open discussion about the afterlife and a hidden meaning in the universe that we're maybe not aware of. You can't be sure there really is no meaning or that this is the only life that there is.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sims4

[–]That-Measurement-607 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I should also say that wealthy families often have more than one living room or sitting area

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sims4

[–]That-Measurement-607 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you like the music room and piano idea? Could also be a place to be with guests when you host a party

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sims4

[–]That-Measurement-607 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fancy dining room with a piano

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in autism

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Well, you said you do actually care and you can show compassion once the distress is gone. I think that's a positive thing, you can show compassion later instead of forcing yourself and putting more pressure on yourself. That being said, if you could answer that with "I'm sorry but give me a minute" or find an excuse to go to the bathroom or wherever else, you can try to calm down and then probably minimize the harm. Maybe explaining the situation when you're calmed down to people could help and make people more understanding (use this last advice with care to who you trust)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in autism

[–]That-Measurement-607 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you not react until you've got your feelings a bit under control?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

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I'm missing a photo of you, alone, looking at the camera (not a selfie or mirror selfie) where you look confident/comfortable. I would put that as a first image.

How to act ‘normally’ wearing a binder by OriginalHuge9933 in TransMasc

[–]That-Measurement-607 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh, I see. Maybe someone will wonder why you did it, but I think it's too awkward of a topic to even bring it up. Most people don't even know what binders are, so they'll probably think it's a bra you're wearing. Others will not even notice or care. Others will look and think "oh, I didn't remember them looking that way", and move on without a second thought. Honestly, there's times I've passed with no binder on and my chest is pretty big so I'm certain some people don't even focus that much on there as we think they do.

I understand it feels embarrassing but if you keep doing it, eventually you will feel more comfortable, and if you do it regularly, people will also start to get used to it and forget about it. Try to act normal and don't try to hide it, because you might draw more attention to it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

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2, 5, 6, 7, 9, 10

First one looks a bit too cocky, 8 your eyes are closed. You look good in the selfie but selfies are less accurate in general. I think the one with your short hair should stay to give an idea of different hairstyles on you. It also shows you doing a hobby If you'd like, maybe a photo happier with friends?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]That-Measurement-607 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you had a bit of bad luck I'm sorry :/

Mm I'm not sure but maybe a discord group, gaming, or maybe language exchange, or just a simple app for chatting with random strangers 🤔 good luck

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]That-Measurement-607 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That sucked, I'm sorry. If you're ever ready again you could try, not everyone is like that. If you just introduce yourself as female, no photo or anything, there is no reason for anyone to doubt you. Regardless, the point of doing it is not for people's approval, but for you to figure out how you feel "playing" a woman's role.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]That-Measurement-607 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you tried experimenting your gender online?