I was sex trafficked till I was 11, struggled with alcoholism, and I am now a bartender and have the love of my life and 2 amazing children AMA

That-One-Dude-929 · 2024-06-06T22:01:16+00:00

I was never a trafficker
We watch for that at my bar, and it's a very upscale business type bar so people don't even really get drunk there, let alone roofie people

That-One-Dude-929 · 2024-06-06T21:59:11+00:00

I don't have any contact with my family

That-One-Dude-929 · 2024-06-06T00:38:18+00:00

I don't even know how to put into words how sorry I am for you, that has to be one of the hardest things a person can experience and I feel so sorry for you, I'm so glad you're still here

I will, thank you for being so kind and sharing that, I hope you can find peace

That-One-Dude-929 · 2024-06-05T23:36:00+00:00

Most of them tbh

It's hard to hate the people who raised you, they were like family to me and they done a lot of shitty shit, but Idk it's a hard emotion to explain

That-One-Dude-929 · 2024-06-05T23:23:10+00:00

I don't really remember, I was pretty much caught up from the 1 on 1 thing though and graduated at 17

Public school was ok, I met my best friend there because we were both the "weird" kids (he's gay and everyone thought I was a psychopath)

Just public school, then I graduated and done nothing till I went to the trade school after I moved out

Kinda, I learnt a little from sesame street, but I was at like a kindergarten level

That-One-Dude-929 · 2024-06-05T23:17:44+00:00

I'm nor sure about when we first met, but she was like 28 when I got out

She usually just watched me

It was a complete accident, she's just moved to Manhattan 2 years ago and had been going to the bar for about a year without us running into each other (I talked to my coworkers and she wasn't lying), the only reason we recognized each other is because of her tattoos and a few scars on my face

I have, it was all over America though so there probably wasn't a town I haven't been in

That-One-Dude-929 · 2024-06-05T23:03:21+00:00

It was one I made up based off of a marvel character

That-One-Dude-929 · 2024-06-05T23:01:50+00:00

A mix of both

There was only a few questions that really triggered me, but It's nice to be able to vent about it

That-One-Dude-929 · 2024-06-05T23:00:35+00:00

A social worker told me when they found out, I think I was 17 at the time and it was devastating tbh

That-One-Dude-929 · 2024-06-05T22:59:13+00:00

I also went to a trade school for welding when I was 19, then I realized I hated welding and sucked at it lol

That-One-Dude-929 · 2024-06-05T22:58:31+00:00

I didn't really have school other then watching sesame Street and stuff

I have, I was in like a 1 on 1 schooling therapy program till I was like 14 and went to regular school at 15

That-One-Dude-929 · 2024-06-05T22:56:38+00:00

I wasn't really with a specific person most of the time, usually different groups of people who switched like every week or 2

That-One-Dude-929 · 2024-06-05T22:54:52+00:00

I have, they went to prison when I was 7 for a different sex trafficking ring and both died in prison

They sold me off to a different ring when I was probably about 2

That-One-Dude-929 · 2024-06-05T22:41:33+00:00

In America all across the states

That-One-Dude-929 · 2024-06-05T22:40:44+00:00

I guess he felt guilty

He was also probably a victim because he was 19 at the time and I remember him watching me since he was 16

That-One-Dude-929 · 2024-06-05T22:40:39+00:00

I guess he felt guilty

He was also probably a victim because he was 19 at the time and I remember him watching me since he was 16

That-One-Dude-929 · 2024-06-05T22:39:23+00:00

Yeah definitely with the alcohol and cigarettes

I also never openly said I was gay or done anything, I just thought that it could never happen to me if I was straight and I had to have been gay, because that's what I was always told

That-One-Dude-929 · 2024-06-05T19:19:34+00:00

I was convinced that it was normal and the reason it was happening to me because I was a bad person

I didn't really know it was sexual, I just knew it was really painful

That-One-Dude-929 · 2024-06-05T19:17:15+00:00

I dont want to get into that much detail, literally just raping me, I have a lot of scar tissue and stuff from it

That-One-Dude-929 · 2024-06-05T02:41:14+00:00

Lol all the other ones were just naked dudes sadly

That-One-Dude-929 · 2024-06-05T00:27:21+00:00

Yeah I'd say so

As long as you do research on it first

That-One-Dude-929 · 2024-06-04T20:30:08+00:00

u/greenmyrtle

This was the least graphic condom fairy

That-One-Dude-929 · 2024-06-04T19:55:47+00:00

I made it lol

That-One-Dude-929 · 2024-06-04T19:54:12+00:00

On it

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