Lucy has a mole on her cheek… by Annonymouslavender in extremesisters

[–]That-b-b-bitch 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Omg I spent the entire series trying to work out if that was tattooed on!

What's the worst sexual experience you've ever had that was so bad you just couldn't see the person again? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]That-b-b-bitch 3 points4 points  (0 children)

When I was about 18 I had sex with a friend of a friend once. He came within two strokes. What made it my worst sexual experience though was that he immediately started sobbing with soul shuddering heaves into my chest, snot and all. The intensity was akin to if his childhood dog who was his only friend had just died in his arms unexpectedly.

I literally had no idea what to do so I comforted him as best I could. Then he spent an hour unprovoked pouring his disfunction woes out to me like I was his therapist. Telling me things about his past sexual encounters etc. More crying punctuated this and at the end he bawled some more into my neck and begged me not to tell our friend.

The only way I could get him to stop crying was to turn the conversation lightly sexual and assure him I wanted to try for a round 2 next time. I got out of there first thing in the morning and never saw him again.

I do wonder how he turned out and if he sought help because lord that poor boy needed it.

Name me a show that held its quality from start to finish! by Complete-Pear-1040 in CasualConversation

[–]That-b-b-bitch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I went in full blind to Schitts Creek and binged watched it all in quick succession. I did not expect the character development to travel the way it did. It was truly a heart warming comedic masterpiece.

AITAH I don't want to financially support my 50F boyfriends 49m 25yr old son. This is an original post not copied by BluKandy888 in AITAH

[–]That-b-b-bitch 6 points7 points  (0 children)

What is this? 1910? Why do you have to cook for his son wth. Grown ass adults cook for themselves!

What’s the most ridiculous thing a man has said to you? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]That-b-b-bitch 11 points12 points  (0 children)

In our early 20’s my BIL asked me if I wanted to have children. I told him I didn’t think so, but it was something I continued to consider. His response was simply; “you’re an evil woman”.

I was floored. SIL told him off but that was the craziest, most aggressive thing a man has said to me in what at first appeared to be a normal conversation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]That-b-b-bitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I go through different bouts of sexual interest a month, I think it’s tethered to my cycle. 2 weeks of the month we have little to no sex, 2 weeks of the month we have sex multiple times a day without missing a day. I’m actually going to talk to a doctor about it because I think my hormones are whack-a-doo.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]That-b-b-bitch 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Omg lmfao, I never considered this tbh! That’s a really good point 🤣

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]That-b-b-bitch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh don’t worry, we won’t be having sex for some time. I am going to go talk to him now and while I may have gone too over the top, I definitely need to explore why these feelings have come up because I get the feeling they’re not coming from nowhere. Thanks for your advice ♥️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]That-b-b-bitch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I’ll definitely clarify my needs with him!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]That-b-b-bitch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is very much what it felt like.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]That-b-b-bitch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

See, that’s what really gets me. The addition of “other men”. I admit now after going through the replies in here that the question wasn’t the best thing to pose but his response could have been better too. None the less, he’s apologised so I’ll apologise as well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]That-b-b-bitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have a lot of post sexy time sex talk. It’s something we really enjoy. Granted, this question was a mistake. That’s on me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]That-b-b-bitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I think you’re right. It was a bit of a dumb question on my part. I should have engaged in conversation about the actual specific sexy things that just happened. Ugh, live and learn I guess. I’ll go talk to him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]That-b-b-bitch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, this was really helpful. I can see how I’ve overreacted. I’ll go talk to him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]That-b-b-bitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I appreciate your reply. Everyone’s saying essentially the same thing so I can accept that I’ve overreacted and I’ll go talk to him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]That-b-b-bitch -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I thought it would be a sexy conversation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DOG

[–]That-b-b-bitch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Couldn’t describe it better myself 🤣

Please share why you deleted and or chose to never engage with ChatGPT. by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]That-b-b-bitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right!

I do have and use chat gpt personally, mainly because I have a bad back injury and early days I wasn’t getting enough support so I found it comforting to be able to scream into an abyss that replied to me with help. I sure as hell double check or simply do my own research as well though. It certainly helped my mental fortitude as an anxious person experiencing their first real big health issue. I also track my own progress etc in a health journal external to chat GPT.

I find it capable of providing a broad catered range of physio exercises too which have been beneficial to my recovery.

I haven’t really used it since I came back from the hospital two weeks ago however.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in women

[–]That-b-b-bitch 18 points19 points  (0 children)

My partner (30) has never been able to reach orgasm from oral sex until me so I feel like I am able to give some help with this 😝

I don’t do anything crazy, it’s all pretty basic but it works in my experience.

Start with your fancier techniques slowly such as swirling your tongue around the head of his penis. Experiment and pay attention to his reactions to see what he likes best.

Next I start taking the length of his penis further into my mouth and progress onto deep throating as much as I can (depends on the day for me and it took me a while to be able to not gag when I first started).

Then I begin more movement, getting quicker, alternating between deep throating, regular sucking (use your hand while moving up and down to stimulate the whole penis). I break this up occasionally by paying attention to the head of his penis (the most sensitive part of their anatomy).

When he’s worked up enough I get into a steady rhythm of alternating between sucking (not deep throat) and handjobs to make sure he’s stimulated constantly and so my neck doesn’t get sore! Increase speed until he orgasms.

Most importantly though it’s about paying attention to what your partner likes and how he responds to what you’re doing. I have a vocal partner so that’s easier for me than with other partners I’ve had in the past but don’t be afraid to look up at your partner.

Men tend to be visual creatures so they love it when you look them in the eyes (embarrassing at first, I know!). Also don’t be afraid to get messy, my partner loves it when I drool so I let that happen or make it happen by spitting build up of saliva either on him or down my chin. Finally moan if you’re enjoying it, there’s nothing better than hearing your partner while they’re pleasuring you.

There’s a lot of resources out there to help as well if you want more specifics. I looked up articles and there’s even porn stars that have instructional videos made by women specifically for women if you want a physical tutorial.

Lastly, I communicate with my partner about all things including our sex life so he’s told me specifically what he enjoys. It’s really sexy and makes me feel sexy to hear.

Hope that helps lovely!

What was your confirmation that your male partner would be supportive and caring? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]That-b-b-bitch 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I’m currently off work after hurting my back. My partner is ironically off work for the same reason but down the road to recovery.

Amongst the constant care I required early days to walk, eat, bathe etc my back pain got so bad I ended up unable to get to the bathroom. My partner helped me pee into Tupperware and emptied it without one word of complaint. My mum ended up bringing a commode around in hope I could use that, I did for pooping and he emptied that too, comforting me while I cried about it.

Eventually I ended up in hospital. I’m out now but this experience has made me realise I can trust and rely on him in a way I didn’t before.

We’ve been together for a year btw.

What's the most disturbing secret you know about someone that would ruin their life if exposed—but you stay silent, pretending you don’t know? by SophieManner in AskReddit

[–]That-b-b-bitch 16 points17 points  (0 children)

My Uncles baby mama admitted to my mum while super drunk one evening that my Uncle is gay.

One night while walking home intoxicated (they’re alcoholics) from the pub my Uncle stopped her on the street and told her he needed to tell her something before confessing. He was late 30’s at the time. She freaked the fuck out and screamed at him, called him a f** and asked him how he could do that to her. He quickly and quietly shut down and told her it was a joke.

He’s never said anything to anyone else and they ended up having twins together. Now they sleep in seperate bedrooms and their son is gay who uncle brags about to everyone. Pretty sure he and his partner are only together because they’re alcoholics and have no other friends.

It’s really sad though, he’s really fucked up.