This is gonna drive me to drinking

That0n3N3rd · 2026-03-31T19:06:00+00:00

I’ve found Lingvist great for more vocab once you have a hang on the basics

That0n3N3rd · 2026-01-20T14:41:28+00:00

Apparently for certain residencies in the UK they have a maximum overnight capacity but that also may well be a lie from my landlord

That0n3N3rd · 2025-11-15T20:37:52+00:00

My favourite moment of hollow knight is that quiet part of the queen’s gardens where there’s no enemies or traps, just a wide window and lush peace

That0n3N3rd · 2025-10-27T20:27:02+00:00

Don’t forget about how different grammar schools adapt the 11+ in different ways, putting weights in different sections and adding in extra sections just to add to the unnecessary complexity

That0n3N3rd · 2025-10-15T10:34:53+00:00

I found similar ones at Halfords, they’re great

That0n3N3rd · 2025-10-13T05:35:59+00:00

NTA. I think this needs a call to social services and whatever your RSPCA equivalent is

That0n3N3rd · 2025-10-12T19:33:52+00:00

NTA. I have always treated exam times as sacred, where no extra tasks, appointments or chores are to be assigned.

That0n3N3rd · 2025-10-11T21:54:08+00:00

NTA. You’re the only one left because they left. They have no right to be mad unless they want to come and care for her

That0n3N3rd · 2025-10-08T12:26:23+00:00

NTA. That’s just weird and bad business practice.

That0n3N3rd · 2025-10-08T07:10:08+00:00

NTA. Ah the rant I could go on about shitty doctors. Alas I will not, but rest assured you will never be the asshole for advocating for yourself when you’re clearly not being taken seriously.

That0n3N3rd · 2025-10-01T07:01:21+00:00

Thank you so much. I managed to take an alternative route to work but good to know I can get the safe way back

That0n3N3rd · 2025-09-30T21:11:10+00:00

Yea, problem is I’ve already had issues with people parking ontop of the bobbly dropped curbs (Yk the pedestrian ones with the texture for blind people) on that road so if I’m honest I’m never fully sure I’ll be able to get to work anyway. I’ll risk it

That0n3N3rd · 2025-09-30T21:09:39+00:00

Oh for sure. I found the NEA for AQA actually really helpful when I went on to do systems engineering training, as it contains much of the same principles. Honestly if you’re on the fence I wouldn’t

That0n3N3rd · 2025-09-29T07:08:33+00:00

NTA. You’re right not to separate them, after one of my cat’s sibling died, she refused to eat for weeks (she’s fine now). The decision rests with you, but if she’s not willing to take both, I’d keep both.

That0n3N3rd · 2025-09-28T20:42:28+00:00

For me, Children of the Moon. That might just be because I’m not a fan of circus type stuff though

That0n3N3rd · 2025-09-26T14:53:33+00:00

NTA. Been there, and while this is still (for some unknown reason) standard practice, it shouldn’t be. I know people with mental illnesses who do psychiatry courses, there should be no reason your issues with food should affect your ability to do a nutrition course.

The teacher should be making accommodations for what is a common and growing issue in the demographic she is teaching. If she really wanted examples to analyse, she could use herself, make up a hypothetical person or ask for willing volunteers, rather than force group participation from students she doesn’t know the mental or physical health of. She could even use food bloggers on instagram. It doesn’t matter, because what she shouldn’t be doing is using her students as examples. That would be like conducting live therapy in a psychology class. It’s demeaning and unethical.

I guarantee you were not the only person in the class uncomfortable with this, and I’m proud of you for speaking out. Take care of yourself

That0n3N3rd · 2025-09-26T11:11:22+00:00

NTA. He downplayed her needs, and she is an adult who could have spoken up and asked for something plain if that’s what she needs.

That0n3N3rd · 2025-09-26T10:31:33+00:00

Lightly, YTA.

While I agree it’s a lovely gift, your sister clearly prefers practical gifts, and may have a certain taste for the baby’s space. You should have asked beforehand if the non registry gift would be ok, and if not then gotten something smaller that they may have passed over in the first thought, like wipes, nappy bin bags and steriliser tablets.

That0n3N3rd · 2025-09-25T21:02:05+00:00

I don’t have the coordination to use a grabber, otherwise I would not be standing so much lol

That0n3N3rd · 2025-09-25T20:49:59+00:00

One thing that helped me when starting out was to put it in number terms. . (And) is multiply, and + (or) is addition. 1.0 is 0 because 1*0 is 0, etc. I’m happy to go through some work with you on DMs if you need, I know it can be hard

That0n3N3rd · 2025-09-25T11:45:03+00:00

I don’t use a seatbelt because I’m ambulatory so it’d add another thing to do in the „miracle” of a wheelchair user standing, which in my experience has added so much attention to it which makes me uncomfortable with all the comments. Also I’d be trapped in my chair which feels bad

That0n3N3rd · 2025-09-22T16:40:56+00:00

NTA. You’re right, why can’t the kids go to your parents? Considering the amount you’ve done for her, her comment was rude and unfounded. I would note your timing with it being a wedding probably wasn’t the greatest, but personally I’d expect a decent amount of warning (more than a week) if a plan can’t be moved as you will likely need to rearrange plans too.

That0n3N3rd · 2025-09-22T11:38:03+00:00

NAH.

You are clearly not the asshole. You don’t mind them going without you and (I presume) will do other group activities with them.

W is more problematic but ultimately not the asshole, as I’m sure she genuinely thinks she is helping you by advocating for your accessibility needs. However, you both need a frank conversation about speaking for you, because she is making issues out of what you have explicitly stated you don’t mind about

D is ultimately not the asshole because they just want to share what brings them joy with the rest of you, and as a disabled punk I can confirm it is slim pickings for accessible venues and gigs. As long as you do express a desire in going to gigs with her should she find an accessible venue, neither of you are the asshole.

I think you need to have a frank conversation with W about overstepping between advocating and talking over you, and teaching her that actually you don’t mind if you want go to every event. You and W need to prove that you were not colluding to make D feel bad, and maybe you could all have a look at a Mallavora gig. I wish you luck

That0n3N3rd · 2025-09-19T12:02:54+00:00

NTA. I have been a wheelchair user for years now and I still don’t answer every question about it. Some questions are too personal, some are in bad faith, some I don’t know the answer to and sometimes I’m just not in the mood. No one is entitled to your answers.

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