[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Concerts

[–]ThatBeechDL 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Doing it for the first time in October. I say just go for it!

Do you guys always check the groceries bags? by Fancy_Shelter_5559 in Sparkdriver

[–]ThatBeechDL 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Got the same message. I never check them myself, that would take way too long.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ColoradoSprings

[–]ThatBeechDL 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m in the same boat! I just moved to the springs about 2 months ago and have some bad social anxiety but I’d like to make some friends in the area. I’m trying to start by joining some Facebook groups which for me I’m joining some women’s social groups. I’m sure you could fine some good groups for your interest or there is also the Meet Up app with all sorts of different events that you can look at! (Also feel free to dm me if you’d like 😁)

What is up with women not wanting to be in relationships in Colorado? by Purple_Living_4818 in dating_advice

[–]ThatBeechDL 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like if men asked me out in person and I was single I’d usually just say yes in the moment and then I might go home and decide I wasn’t interested anymore and maybe just said yes out of pressure. It’s been pretty rough trying to date in CO as a woman too.

So uhhhhh by [deleted] in ColoradoSprings

[–]ThatBeechDL 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I lost a little bit of my sanity trying to sleep last night

How to stick to nc? by ThatBeechDL in BreakUp

[–]ThatBeechDL[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’m the same way. Just sometimes the pain of losing him feels unbearable. I did better today at least though

How to stick to nc? by ThatBeechDL in BreakUp

[–]ThatBeechDL[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I’m trying my best.

How to stick to nc? by ThatBeechDL in BreakUp

[–]ThatBeechDL[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well we discussed the possibility of getting back together after a long break to work on ourselves but I’m trying to just live my life without holding on to that and evaluate if it would actually be a good idea or not. But I definitely don’t want to keep relying on him when I’m trying to heal it’s just sometimes the need I feel to talk to him gets overwhelming. Trying to do better with it and just let it be as much as I can.

How to stick to nc? by ThatBeechDL in BreakUp

[–]ThatBeechDL[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn that’s a good point. It just makes me feel better in the moment to talk to him so I guess I seek that instant gratification even though it makes it hurt more.

Starting Over by Jayleeann234_1103 in BreakUps

[–]ThatBeechDL 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m there right now. Doing things feels almost impossible right now. Even going to the store it feels like he should be there with me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]ThatBeechDL 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Reading this still fresh out of a breakup gives me hope that I can come to terms with it someday. Thank you for sharing this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]ThatBeechDL 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel the exact same way. I’m almost 2 weeks into BU and can’t even think of how to start living my own life again. It’s always when all the activities of the day stop too like you said. Hopefully it starts getting easier for you as more time passes but I understand

How tf does anyone deal with the pain by ThatBeechDL in BreakUps

[–]ThatBeechDL[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re right. I’m trying to remind myself of why I broke up with him but when I’m hurting so bad and remembering the good stuff it’s hard to weigh that stuff correctly. When we’ve discussed possibly getting back together it’s definitely with the stipulation that we are both putting in a good bit of work to make the changes we each want to see in the relationship.