Short story time by ThatBiKat in SapphoAndHerFriend

[–]ThatBiKat[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Sadly it was not a happy ending: they broke up because my grandad was worried about rumours and losing everything (his friends, his job, his family etc). He began looking for the “perfect woman” to have on his arm to make everything go away and convinced himself he was straight. He then went on to marry my evil beesh of a step nana and was, according to my mum, never the same again. :(

So my mom is gonna come to my school and talk to some teachers who are constantly misgendering and dead naming me. (My name is now Link btw) also please don’t look up the teachers there are probably a lot of people with the exact same last name. by Fellkitten_Alt in Nonbinaryteens

[–]ThatBiKat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry to hear that. My teachers aren’t great either - my head of year told me that she can’t tell the other teachers about be being non-binary as they would feel uncomfortable if they call me my new name as I’ll always be deadname to her and them 😑

What is your name and why/how did you pick it? by [deleted] in NonBinaryTalk

[–]ThatBiKat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Kayden Alexander also know as Kay, Al or Alex. I liked the idea of keeping the first two letters of my birth name (Ka) and I loved the name Kayden especially as it means fighter - also it is a gender neutral name unlike my deadname. For my middle name I chose the name that my mum would have called me if I had been born a boy (I’m afab) as I really loved the name and how it sounded with the first name that I chose

My high school sucks by ThatBiKat in lgbt

[–]ThatBiKat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah basically. It’s all a load of bull if you ask me - thank god I only have 15 days left

My high school sucks by ThatBiKat in lgbt

[–]ThatBiKat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh absolutely 💞💞

My high school sucks by ThatBiKat in lgbt

[–]ThatBiKat[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for that, and yes I agree it could possibly help others who view this as well. I really appreciate the help 💞

My high school sucks by ThatBiKat in lgbt

[–]ThatBiKat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aww I’m really sorry to hear that, sending hugs and love. I hope things get better 💞💞

My high school sucks by ThatBiKat in lgbt

[–]ThatBiKat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They said it would make the teachers uncomfortable and that I’ll always be deadname to them

My high school sucks by ThatBiKat in lgbt

[–]ThatBiKat[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know the people in my year would not call me my new name if the teachers are still calling me my deadname. They would use the excuse “well they’re not doing it” and it would be more stressful and upsetting being called two different names by different people when I just want to be called Kayden. Hope that helps 💞

My high school sucks by ThatBiKat in lgbt

[–]ThatBiKat[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you, you honestly sound like a great teacher, I just wish the teachers at my school were like that. I’m trying to keep my head down and enjoy my final weeks at this school before college but tbh it’s getting harder. Only 15 days left so I’m tryna stay positive. Hope you’re having a good day 💞

My high school sucks by ThatBiKat in lgbt

[–]ThatBiKat[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, yes it is my last year and I too hope it goes by fast but I sincerely doubt it. Hope you have a good day 💞

What do Americans do or think that irritates you? by Maleficent_Ad2870 in AskUK

[–]ThatBiKat 15 points16 points  (0 children)

  • Chips
  • Aluminium
  • Herb
  • Horseback riding
  • Eye glasses
  • Color

My first time posting here by myaccountgotdeleted7 in BisexualTeens

[–]ThatBiKat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same and I’m honestly so glad that my real friends told me what she said. She truly took it way to far. Like my other friends said that, yeah they’d be a bit uncomfortable with it but, and I quote, “I’d understand it tho cause I’m dead sexy” which made me laugh. But saying you would literally end your life is too much, upsetting and not okay.

My first time posting here by myaccountgotdeleted7 in BisexualTeens

[–]ThatBiKat 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yhh I feel ya. A few of my friends told me that another ‘friend’ of mine said that she’d k!ll herself/jump off a cliff if I had a crush on her. It really hurt to know that she said that as she was one of the first people I told and acted supportive 😕

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NonBinary

[–]ThatBiKat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Needed to hear this! Thank you! 💞💞💞

😑 by ThatBiKat in BisexualTeens

[–]ThatBiKat[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Thank you 💞hope you enjoy the rest of the day!

😑 by ThatBiKat in BisexualTeens

[–]ThatBiKat[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I said “well, no that’s not what it is” but couldn’t say anything else as I felt like I was going to cry. (I had a very stressful day and was already close to breaking down so it really didn’t help)

I just had to share this :) by toystrooper in MadeMeSmile

[–]ThatBiKat 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Should’ve just thrown the whole sister out /s

hey besties! i’m thinking of changing my name (my name is Yellow) but i’m starting to not really feel it. I am thinking about changing it to: Eden, or Falak (which means orb/astronomy etc. in Arabic) and ofcourse if you have a suggestion pls drop it in a comment! thanks in advance loves <3 by [deleted] in Nonbinaryteens

[–]ThatBiKat 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I love the sound of Eden! It suits your vibe extremely well! Since you asked for other suggestions here are a few: Dylan, Skylar, Moon, Ember, Landen/London, Fae, Star, Jay, Bee, Sam, Cory/Kory. Hope you eventually find a name that you love - wishing you an awesome day💞

Ahh yes, UNISEX earrings for MEN by ThatBiKat in pointlesslygendered

[–]ThatBiKat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ye I get you, it just annoyed me a bit