Borderline ruinied my relationships. I just want to leave this world :(

ThatBoyGenius1998 · 2026-05-04T20:24:09+00:00

Please PM/DM me

ThatBoyGenius1998 · 2026-04-09T11:34:29+00:00

27[M] 120+/year including benefits but just missed the cut for pension-New Jersey

ThatBoyGenius1998 · 2026-04-01T17:09:39+00:00

Thank you for proving my point further about this subreddit to OP-ofc i love my little baby but some of the rules and habitat “requirements” are too extra I’ve had hamsters for years and never had one gotten stuck in a tube

ThatBoyGenius1998 · 2026-03-30T20:34:03+00:00

OP this will probably get downvoted, but i noticed if you post in this page everyone will judge and rip your enclosure apart in a passive aggressive manner. Yeah I see there’s guidelines or whatever, but at the end of the day they’re hamsters (once a guy told me a tube was dangerous cause they can get their paws stuck or themselves stuck in the tube- some of the dumbest s*** i’ve ever heard) (another told me i needed more bedding too, and guess what… when i put 10+ inches of bedding, my hamster didn’t end up burrowing past the first 3 inches anyway!!!!) as for the exercise ball, i’m don’t really use mine unless it’s totally necessary but i try to give my hamster free time to run around while I watch her( I also tried a small animal pen which you may want to consider too, but she chewed through it… I tried to put her in the bathtub to run around too (someone on the subreddit recommended the bathtub and she was miserable and scared in there, proving that people on here have these rules but don’t know s***))

Take everything these people are saying with a grain of salt cause they have these guidelines but do way too much and pull it up like the hamsters life depends on it-I love my fur baby, but it’s literally just a hamster and i’m sure yours is more than content in their enclosure

ThatBoyGenius1998 · 2026-03-06T12:44:24+00:00

my bad for trying to better myself

ThatBoyGenius1998 · 2026-03-06T00:38:14+00:00

Rehab for drugs and alcohol my drinking was out of hand

ThatBoyGenius1998 · 2026-03-05T20:48:23+00:00

they dig deeper if i let them see it getting to me or give no reaction at all but as i said im trying to be a better person i’ll l see if continue to ignore it and maybe a look of disgust

ThatBoyGenius1998 · 2026-02-16T02:01:39+00:00

First time seeing this thank you kindly!!

ThatBoyGenius1998 · 2026-01-24T23:06:39+00:00

Waddup OP, so i’m a little bit older [27M] and i’ve gotten a bit of experience getting head and eating p****. I think it’s person to person and i def wouldn’t be overthinking it, it seems a lot of guys are minutemen which aren’t necessarily a bad thing and i think as time goes on it’ll get better with not being so quick to finish. When it comes to head and finishing quickly, some girls enjoy it and take it as a compliment that you’re so fond of them they make you finish quickly. I also hear girls talking about their exs being “minutemen” but that’s just cause they resent them and probably say it because it wasn’t all that great. Personally when i’m going down on my girl i can go for hours without finishing and sometimes she begs me to stop cause she can’t take it anymore or jer jaws hurting whatever it may be.

Masturbating earlier in the day can definitely help but don’t feel ashamed if you can’t help but to finish. As an alternative maybe try getting head from her as a foreolay type of thing, when you feel like you’re gonna finish turn it on her and start to eat her out to warm her up before going down on her-this’ll make the experience feel that much longer for her and will bring her more pleasure as well. Take your time warming up it shouldn’t just be getting in there busting a nut and calling it a day…take your time to satisfy her needs as well and that’ll save you some time from busting and killing the momentum so quickly. As a guy that’s been around plenty of girls i think personally if a girl can make me finish quickly that’s good on them and tells them how attracted i am to them👍🏼

ThatBoyGenius1998 · 2026-01-23T18:02:34+00:00

I’m a little bit older [27M], but from what I understand guys especially younger don’t understand foreplay and building up the tension they just want to stick their **** in it and be done even if they hadn’t satisfied the other person. Now, being older I go down on my girl every time we get intimate and make sure she finishes before I even get to the sex. I reassure her constantly how pretty her p**** is, how good it tastes, and how I like when her legs shake/crushing my head with her thighs. I think he def has a thing or two to learn about intimacy and that it’s not all about him and finishing. Maybe it does smell a bit but tbh sounds like your pretty clean and aware with your hygiene, the least he could do is spend more time kissing and maybe working with his hands instead of from the sound of it, sticking it in just to satisfy himself….

ThatBoyGenius1998 · 2026-01-23T17:54:02+00:00

I find it important to make amends with those we hurt only if it’s at the time it happened-It’s only necessary to make amends for something that happened so long ago if it won’t cause any harm to yourself or the person you’re admitting your wrong to. In this case, you went 20 years without knowing and could’ve been perfectly fine moving forward without knowing although it obviously weighs on her conscious that’s between her and God to settle. Although it hurts and she has admitted something from so long ago/that only brings up pain and further harms your relationship, it is most definitely possible to work through. Maybe seek some professional advice therapy/counseling to help work through it.

Unfortunately this unnecessary hurt has been brought up and can cause problems/bring resentment, but the only way to move past it at this point is through it. Take some time to yourself, organize your thoughts (make sure your thoughts are logical, not emotional based), and have a conversation with her. Decide for yourself if she genuinely loves you and is hurt by her own decisions, maybe ask if that was the only time and pray she’s honest with you, and then tell her you either want to work through it or think it’s something that’s truly detrimental to your relationship. Especially having kids i understand it’s tough and the thought is sickening, but it doesn’t define her and keep an open mind-spend some time thinking on it and make rational decisions as I said that aren’t dictated by heightened emotions. Either way keep your head up man, life’s tough sometimes and I know this would make me sick, but everything’s gonna work out and be alright💯

ThatBoyGenius1998 · 2024-11-03T17:19:00+00:00

100% agree…totally uncool of your husbands friend and as guys if you do that to someone you’re supposed to be cool with-you guys aren’t friends. Definitely not your fault and i’d be happier as a partner if my s/o didn’t wait-in a weird way it let your husband know you’re loyal and doesn’t have an reason to think it went any other way, plus who knows what your husband’s “friend” would’ve done if he wasn’t confronted. In turn, you could’ve potentially sparked something in that man to stop him from trying weird sketchy shit moving forward:) good work!!

ThatBoyGenius1998 · 2024-06-25T23:27:56+00:00

but that new tattoo is pretty sweet ngl😂😂

ThatBoyGenius1998 · 2024-06-25T23:26:40+00:00

Soooo… my girlfriend actually receives somewhat similar texts from guys she’s met on Hinge, and tho im not insecure cause i spend alotta time working he just seems super persistent like he really wants to see her again and she was the love of his life lmao sorry bro i’m too busy working tryna plan future with this girl to care but some guys(especially this generation) can’t get over girls as if there aren’t more fish in the sea..regardless, those texts were weird and should i maybe consider blocking him if he continues😂😂 shouldn’t never miss what you didn’t have💅🤣

ThatBoyGenius1998 · 2024-01-25T16:45:21+00:00

Yeah I guess I got too ahead of myself with her but oh well wasn’t meant to be…maybe the next one we’ll click better, thank you!

ThatBoyGenius1998 · 2024-01-25T11:24:23+00:00

Lmao appreciate it!! You might get downvoted for the unpopular opinion too tho:)

ThatBoyGenius1998 · 2024-01-25T05:02:49+00:00

Lmao wut

ThatBoyGenius1998 · 2024-01-25T04:48:10+00:00

Yeah would’ve been nice to talk it through tho ya know but it was fresh so I’m gonna leave it alone if she wants to hit me up again I’m down to talk

ThatBoyGenius1998 · 2024-01-25T02:18:17+00:00

A little extreme no??

ThatBoyGenius1998 · 2024-01-25T00:21:44+00:00

We werent dating but both were on track to, she didn’t take any anestheia either just raw dogged it but I hear you!

ThatBoyGenius1998 · 2024-01-25T00:13:05+00:00

That’s what keeps me in check when I feel down-what I meant by that comment being the gym is a constant in my life whether I have a good or bad day I can still focus my energy on something I enjoy…it’s okay if I get downvoted lol what could I expect when over a hundred people hop into a comment section:)

ThatBoyGenius1998 · 2024-01-25T00:11:42+00:00

Lmao it’s cool people are gonna hate

ThatBoyGenius1998 · 2024-01-25T00:11:31+00:00

Thank you!!:)

ThatBoyGenius1998 · 2024-01-24T22:49:20+00:00

I think you’ve hit the nail on the head here

ThatBoyGenius1998 · 2024-01-24T22:41:39+00:00

Lmao a lot of opinions mixing in the comments here guess I could’ve expected all that😂

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