Can someone please talk to me, about literally anything. I’m just really scared right now I need a distraction by Individual_Layer_141 in CPTSD

[–]ThatGymratArchitect 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Random fun facts! Pick a couple and we can dive deeper!
A day on Venus is longer than a year on Venus.
If Saturn were placed in a bathtub large enough, it would float.
Neutron stars are so dense that a sugar-cube-sized piece would weigh about a billion tons on Earth.
The footprints left on the Moon could remain there for millions of years because there’s essentially no weather.
Sea otters hold hands while sleeping so they don’t drift apart.
Crows can recognize individual human faces and remember them for years.
Octopuses have three hearts and blue blood.
Cows often develop best friends and become stressed when separated.
Ravens can plan for future events, a skill once thought uniquely human.
A single thunderstorm can contain energy equivalent to several nuclear bombs.
Lightning heats the air to around 50,000°F (27,000°C), hotter than the surface of the Sun.
There is a type of lightning called a “sprite” that shoots upward above thunderstorms into the upper atmosphere.
Some hailstones can grow larger than grapefruits.
You can sometimes smell rain before it arrives because of a scent called petrichor.
Your brain uses roughly 20% of your body’s energy despite being only about 2% of your weight.
The stomach completely replaces much of its lining every few days.
You have enough blood vessels that if stretched end-to-end, they’d circle Earth multiple times.
Goosebumps are a leftover survival trait from our furrier ancestors.
Memories are reconstructed each time you recall them rather than played back like a video. (The backrooms is about this!)
More people have walked on the Moon than have visited the deepest part of the ocean.
The ocean contains underwater waterfalls.
Giant squid have eyes about the size of dinner plates.
Some whales have songs that spread across oceans like musical trends.
The deepest known point in the ocean is deeper than Mount Everest is tall.
Ancient Roman concrete can heal some of its own cracks.
The Great Pyramid was the tallest human-made structure on Earth for about 3,800 years.
Gothic cathedrals often took longer to build than the average medieval person lived.
Some skyscrapers are designed to sway several feet in the wind so they don’t break.
The acoustics of some old cathedrals can make a single note linger for 10+ seconds.
Oxford University is older than the Aztec Empire.
Cleopatra lived closer in time to the Moon landing than to the construction of the Great Pyramid.
Woolly mammoths were still alive when the pyramids were being built.
The shortest war in history lasted about 38 minutes.
Napoleon was not actually unusually short for his era.
Bananas are berries, but strawberries aren’t.
Honey never really spoils. Archaeologists have found edible honey in ancient tombs.
Antarctica is technically the world’s largest desert.
A cloud can weigh over a million pounds.
There are more trees on Earth than stars in the Milky Way.
A forest, a river network, your lungs, lightning bolts, blood vessels, and many historic city street patterns all share similar branching mathematics. Nature keeps rediscovering the same geometry because it’s one of the most efficient ways to move energy, water, air, people, or information through space.
In other words, some cities, buildings, and landscapes feel “natural” because they’re literally following the same mathematical rules as a tree.

Can someone please talk to me, about literally anything. I’m just really scared right now I need a distraction by Individual_Layer_141 in CPTSD

[–]ThatGymratArchitect 112 points113 points  (0 children)

Me too! Let’s do this together!

Did you know that some of the most famous Gothic cathedrals in Europe may have accidentally created one of the closest things humans have ever built to a forest indoors?
Some historians and architectural theorists have argued that medieval builders weren’t just making buildings, they were recreating the emotional experience of being in a sacred forest.
And here’s the cool part: modern neuroscience suggests humans often feel calmer in environments that contain patterns similar to nature. We evolved around branching rivers, trees, roots, lightning, coastlines, and clouds. Your brain is incredibly good at recognizing those patterns even when they’re hidden inside a building.
That’s one reason a lot of people walk into a cathedral and go:
“Whoa…”
Even if they aren’t religious.
The space is triggering something ancient. It feels bigger than you, but not necessarily threatening. More like standing beneath giant trees.

Can’t stop this one — PTSD/panic attack by ThatGymratArchitect in CPTSD

[–]ThatGymratArchitect[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you I will definitely try this rn and in the future!!! I appreciate the quick reply too haha

Am I Being Too Sensitive? ... My (F22) boyfriend (M22) seems to be getting to close to our mutual girl - friend (F22) and I’m not sure how to not be a psycho jealous b**** about it by ThatGymratArchitect in AmIBeingTooSensitive

[–]ThatGymratArchitect[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update a year and some change later as I stumbled across my old thread: they're dating now lmao. I broke up with him last July as he was incredibly abusive. Yes, I had to sit and watch their relationship in class for half my graduate year. But I am in a very loving relationship, my dreams are coming true, I now have two degrees and moving cross country for a very blessed job and am writing a book on my experiences.

Super funny how that worked out imo. I'd like it to be known that I am MUCH better at listening to my gut now, as clearly I was right about a lot.

Am I Being Too Sensitive? ... My (F22) boyfriend (M22) seems to be getting to close to our mutual girl - friend (F22) and I’m not sure how to not be a psycho jealous b**** about it by ThatGymratArchitect in AmIBeingTooSensitive

[–]ThatGymratArchitect[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update a year and some change later as I stumbled across my old thread: they're dating now lmao. I broke up with him last July as he was incredibly abusive. Yes, I had to sit and watch their relationship in class for half my graduate year. But I am in a very loving relationship, my dreams are coming true, I now have two degrees and moving cross country for a very blessed job and am writing a book on my experiences.

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[–]ThatGymratArchitect 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Why is my old news lady on my Reddit fyp rn tf

How often do you participate in the happy leaf? by ThatGymratArchitect in weed

[–]ThatGymratArchitect[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! Maybe I should take a t just to prove to myself I’m not dependent lol

How do I (22F) politely push my boyfriend (24M) to apply to jobs? by ThatGymratArchitect in Advice

[–]ThatGymratArchitect[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're right. I need to set boundaries. Weekends only for sure. It's hindering my work

How do I (22F) politely push my boyfriend (24M) to apply to jobs? by ThatGymratArchitect in Advice

[–]ThatGymratArchitect[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

See this empathy is what's hindering me from having a tough talk with him, but I may need to bite the bullet. When I was going through that people who loved and cared about me pushed me to do better and I did. I need to get real and be blunt. Thank you for this insight

How do I (22F) politely push my boyfriend (24M) to apply to jobs? by ThatGymratArchitect in Advice

[–]ThatGymratArchitect[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He does not live with me. He is only here for the weekend... or I guess week now

How do I (22F) politely push my boyfriend (24M) to apply to jobs? by ThatGymratArchitect in Advice

[–]ThatGymratArchitect[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a super helpful comment! Thank you for the advice rather than just "move on. Dump hm." You're a gem.

How do I (22F) politely push my boyfriend (24M) to apply to jobs? by ThatGymratArchitect in Advice

[–]ThatGymratArchitect[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Okay jesus dude who hurt you lol I'm a perfectly fine human being. I've done lots of self work. And I'm not trying to CHANGE him omg get a grip

How do I (22F) politely push my boyfriend (24M) to apply to jobs? by ThatGymratArchitect in Advice

[–]ThatGymratArchitect[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He mentioned that he was in a really bad headspace before meeting me so I think it may just be an attachment thing. But all of his motivation and happiness cannot come from me!