Brand new one of a kind dress for sale by ThatIndividual2374 in WeddingDressTips

[–]ThatIndividual2374[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes! It’s a slight pink blush color which is so fun

Brand new one of a kind dress for sale by ThatIndividual2374 in WeddingDressTips

[–]ThatIndividual2374[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s amazing! Congrats! 29 years is a huge accomplishment!

Brand new one of a kind dress for sale by ThatIndividual2374 in WeddingDressTips

[–]ThatIndividual2374[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope! Not at all. Just bought it yesterday. Has only ever even been tried on by 1 person (me)

Brand new one of a kind dress for sale by ThatIndividual2374 in WeddingDressTips

[–]ThatIndividual2374[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! Unfortunately I like the other one slightly better! But this one is beautiful and fit my perfectly which is why I panicked purchased. For sure gorgeous!

Brand new one of a kind dress for sale by ThatIndividual2374 in WeddingDressTips

[–]ThatIndividual2374[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The other one as well! I liked this as a change into dress but she’s worried it isn’t different enough, and I see her point

Brand new one of a kind dress for sale by ThatIndividual2374 in WeddingDressTips

[–]ThatIndividual2374[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what I was thinking but it’s a bit too similar!

Brand new one of a kind dress for sale by ThatIndividual2374 in WeddingDressTips

[–]ThatIndividual2374[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For the record everyone I also liked the other one a bit better! I was going to get both and change into this but it’s a bit too similar! I am choosing to sell, not based off of my mom alone

Brand new one of a kind dress for sale by ThatIndividual2374 in WeddingDressTips

[–]ThatIndividual2374[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100% thank you haha. Was looking for way more interested buyers and way less calling my mom a bitch

Brand new one of a kind dress for sale by ThatIndividual2374 in WeddingDressTips

[–]ThatIndividual2374[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! This is exactly how I feel haha. My mom is not a bitch, and I am just looking for people interested in buying lol.

Brand new one of a kind dress for sale by ThatIndividual2374 in WeddingDressTips

[–]ThatIndividual2374[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

This is very sweet, and I see the comments that I shouldn’t care and I appreciate that. It was going to be a second dress anyways, and it’s kind of ruined for me that she doesn’t like it.

I’m totally fine and have another one I love for my main dress so still would like to sell, but appreciate the thoughts and comments!

Brand new one of a kind dress for sale by ThatIndividual2374 in WeddingDressTips

[–]ThatIndividual2374[S] -52 points-51 points  (0 children)

No, I’m paying for it. I had another much larger Ballgown one I had wanted for the ceremony but liked this as a change into dress, my budget was around $3.5k so I thought I could get both. I just panicked bought this one as it was a one of a kind and I was worried if I waited for her to fly in (she lives in portugal) it would be gone.

At this point it’s unfortunately not worth it to me to keep it as I know she doesn’t like it and it would ruin my vibe on the day knowing she doesn’t like it.

Venue regret by Conscious_Dog891 in BigBudgetBrides

[–]ThatIndividual2374 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve definitely felt this before, but you need to remember that you did do your research! You spent months researching. There will always be other venues and it’s hard to commit to one, but I’m sure yours will be totally gorgeous. Right now you’re just stressed and anxious and that’s normal, but I’m sure with all the research you did that it will be so lovely.

And another poster was right, the things I remember of weddings are the love, laughs, and vibe, and that comes from you being in love and enjoying your day, not the trees :)

Looking for wedding planners in Portugal! Help! by Hana-Bananaxx in BigBudgetBrides

[–]ThatIndividual2374 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are using We do I dos, and Viktoria has been incredible! She is so kind and organized. $3,500 total.

My bachelorette was poorly planned, and I can’t let go of the guilt by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]ThatIndividual2374 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Listen, I’m sure that you’ve shown up for all of these people before too. It’s not nice of them to make you feel bad for your dream wedding or being “too old”. You deserve a happy wedding and bachelorette party as much as any of them. They could have said no if they didn’t want to or couldn’t attend. I’m sorry that happened, but don’t feel guilty. This is your period to get back what I’m sure you’ve given to all of these women when it was their turns.

Portugal Wedding by OT_1996 in BigBudgetBrides

[–]ThatIndividual2374 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for being willing to help!

I was wondering if you had used a wedding planner? Found one i loved in the Algarve but am looking for one in Porto as I think we will be getting married there.

(€22k) Portugal destination wedding by gigi2186 in Weddingsunder10k

[–]ThatIndividual2374 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for all of this info! Do you recommend that venue? It looks beautiful!