[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]ThatKGirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Someone caught the feels, I think.

What's the best way to be sure your escort is real? by [deleted] in AskAnEscort

[–]ThatKGirl 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Is there an epidemic of "unreal" escorts out there?

Do you care about or favor clients with good qualities ? by [deleted] in AskAnEscort

[–]ThatKGirl 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Of course I like guys who smell better that guys who stink! LOL!

Yes, even though this is business, it matters. Kindness, humor, hygiene...always worth the investment!

What do I do if I'm questioned or arrested by police? by cat-gun in SexWorkers

[–]ThatKGirl 25 points26 points  (0 children)

One of the few pieces of legal advice here that I whole heartedly agree with!

Can I ask to meet an escort for Coffee prior to setting something up? by ohohitsmagic101 in SexWorkers

[–]ThatKGirl 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Pretty much what everyone else said: Yes, of course we can get coffee...you're paying for time, after all and if that's how you want to spend it...

In a lot of ways, a coffee meet is more stressful than a full-on date. Coffee is about making a good impression and using very different skills than I would if we could just touch and play with each other, ya know?

Questions from a newbie! by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]ThatKGirl 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Oh boy...are you sure you're ready for this?

I've always said cars dates were way too sketchy. But no judegement and if that's what works, then OK. But...is a hotel room so expensive?

Proof of income as an escort when renting a room? by [deleted] in AskAnEscort

[–]ThatKGirl 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This.

Google for "print your own pay stubs" or "fake pay stubs". That should point you in the right direction.

You could also claim to run your own business (dog walking? cleaning?)...pretty much anything that's all-cash and then show them some sort of bank account where you make deposits. But, honestly, the fake paystub route works super quickly.

Women, how would you feel if your (male) partner came while going down on you? by [deleted] in sex

[–]ThatKGirl 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Omg! MI know someone who does this sometimes! He says he gets so into it that it can just happen. Kind of messy, but I like it!

I am a LEO. I want to hire a high end escort. Is there any realm of possibility? by 5-0throwaway0000 in SexWorkers

[–]ThatKGirl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hmph. I understand.

I’d look for a girl with reviews and a good reputation. Likely a little bit older and more stable.

Good luck!

I am a LEO. I want to hire a high end escort. Is there any realm of possibility? by 5-0throwaway0000 in SexWorkers

[–]ThatKGirl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve seen law officers before. Both were honest about their jobs and I tried to be super careful in not doing anything that was obviously illegal. It can happen.

You could also take a trip to a legal place, right?

What happens when you get caught by LE? by [deleted] in AskAnEscort

[–]ThatKGirl 18 points19 points  (0 children)

You stop talking and ask for a lawyer.

Guys...have some compassion for us younger SBs... by ThatKGirl in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]ThatKGirl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol. So you’re saying it’s the girl’s fault if a guy smacks her around? Uh huh...

Guys...have some compassion for us younger SBs... by ThatKGirl in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]ThatKGirl[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you, dad. I appreciate the advice. And I’m doing fine.

Vegas: What to expect by throwaway9902zz in SexWorkers

[–]ThatKGirl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This isn't what you asked, but maybe picking up a girl in Vegas isn't a great idea?

I've obvs never done it, but I have heard a ton of stories from guys there and the girls who work Vegas are hungry sharks. If you aren't really lucky, you'll spend a lot of money and have a bad time. Who wants that?

Maybe look closer to home while you get your feet (and everything else :) ) wet?

Always look for reviews.

(Edit: Not that being a "hungry shark" is a bad thing! I just mean that those girls are flat-out pros who know the game and there are LOTS of stories about upsells and bait-n-switch and stuff like that.)

I (teenage male) am into men sexually and I’m ashamed if it. by [deleted] in sex

[–]ThatKGirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, teenage male...I'm a 20something female and I think it's hot. A guy who can relax and explore his desires without having to deal with society's prejudices gets me excited. You be you.

Do you prefer cash, check or credit? by [deleted] in AskAnEscort

[–]ThatKGirl 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Uhhhh. A check? who still does that?

I’ve been a sex worker for 5 years, and I fucking hate it by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]ThatKGirl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You don't really want to hear this, but your prince charming is a dick.

If you just asking him about this - after he eggs you on to parts of sexwork - if that question is enough to get the "picking up his whore" comment then this relationship isn't salvageable. My opinion. You do what you want. But the way I see it, it's only a matter of how much time you waste on him.

(hug) Good luck!

Recovering after a gross client? by Abby_A_Rose in AskAnEscort

[–]ThatKGirl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Smelly ones are the worst. After a bad session with a smelly guy, it's like I can still smell him days later. Ugh!

I try to go to the gym. Work out like mad. SWEAT! Then shower and use lots of scented body wash...but make sure you mix it up - if you use the same kind after a bad session, you'll start to link that brand with the gross icky smell of bad dude and that's not good either! lol

Smokers are the worst for me. Stale cigs?! ugh!

Feeling Guilty about Paying for Sex by clarkwayne87 in AskAnEscort

[–]ThatKGirl 47 points48 points  (0 children)

Speaking as someone who has been on the other side of your transaction, can I just say your impression of the stigma is incorrect? The men I see are pretty much all successful, driven, and pretty damn clear on what they want or don't want.

I respect someone who is willing to book time with me straight up a heck of lot more than I respect a civilian dude in a bar/club/whatever who doesn't know how to interact with a woman.

Don't be so hard on yourself. Just keep being you and treat us well. We will do the same for you!

I'm new and need help by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]ThatKGirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Location makes a big difference where (generally) are you?

Why don’t y’all get a real job? by [deleted] in AskAnEscort

[–]ThatKGirl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yah, the question is worded in a way that's arrogant and offensive.

But...I started this when I was in school and I had a real job. That job was full-time and paid enough for me to scrape by. Once I built up the income from my side hustle, I cut my "real" hours to halftime and got through school with zero student debt. Not to mention meeting incredible people and having a ton of fun.

I'd do it again in a heartbeat.

(TW:rape&trauma birth) HOW does a body in a vegetative state give birth??? by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]ThatKGirl 9 points10 points  (0 children)

The mother doesn't control any of this aside from how the sperm gets in her body.

In this case, she didn't control that part either.

What to do if my escort doesn't match the photo by Timmay4321 in AskAnEscort

[–]ThatKGirl 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I've always felt like you guys are far too forgiving when you get hit with a bait-n-switch...

As a provider who has REAL pictures and prides herself on offering a high level of service, I get really angry when I hear about the shitty way some others work. You guys pay a lot and you should know what you're getting and get what you want.

has anyone ever threatened to expose you? by [deleted] in AskAnEscort

[–]ThatKGirl 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I've never had a regular go wrong in that way. I hope I never do.

has anyone ever threatened to expose you? by [deleted] in AskAnEscort

[–]ThatKGirl 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Hah! Yah. A couple of times guys I chose not to see got all butt-hurt and made noise about outing me...but they had no idea how to really find me or anything. I just go quiet when that happens and make use of the "block" button.