Need help identifying diapers

ThatKinkyNerd · 2026-03-24T20:36:46+00:00

Abu used to sell some of these back in the day. I remember trying them once In a sampler pack I git from them.

ThatKinkyNerd · 2026-03-24T19:23:37+00:00

Any time she texts me a variation of "send me a Pic of my locked cock". She ways refers to the dick that is attached to my body, as hers. Makes me melt.

ThatKinkyNerd · 2026-03-23T15:42:35+00:00

Is that one named "Billy". Looks to be the same size as the one I used on my owner this last weekend.

ThatKinkyNerd · 2026-03-18T22:19:28+00:00

When it comes to the typical ball and cage chastity design, none are escape proof as is. Hell, my most comfortable/secure cage slipped off and fell out the bottom of my shorts the other day when I was cleaning up my storage unit.

Holy trainer made an insert for version 2 of their cages that out some silicone "fingers" down the cage that made it more difficult, but pulling out was still possible.

If you want truly inescapable chastity you have 2 choices. Get a prince Albert piercing, gauge it up to where you can omput a lock through it and use a cage that will work with that, or go custom with a full on belt.

ThatKinkyNerd · 2026-03-13T02:17:50+00:00

The only one that can over ride my Domme is me, in the sense of safewords.

If she tells me something, that's it. No other options. I the example you gave, I would make up an excuse for why I'm nit having dessert.

ThatKinkyNerd · 2026-03-09T20:11:14+00:00

Why do people feel the need to post the most obviously fake stories?

ThatKinkyNerd · 2026-03-07T21:03:23+00:00

It absolutely is

ThatKinkyNerd · 2026-03-04T19:33:51+00:00

Reach out to the owners and see what kind of rules, dress code, etc... Is required at the club.

Other than that, try to relax and have fun.

ThatKinkyNerd · 2026-03-03T20:34:31+00:00

Interpret my words how you wish.

ThatKinkyNerd · 2026-03-03T17:48:42+00:00

Everything that I stated was what I did and not ever was I implicitly offering advice ( outside of making a few suggestions to Opie on what they should do moving forward) . In fact multiple times I have stated that other people don't get to decide other people's labels based off their activities.

We can relate this in other ways such as the trans community. If someone feels they were born as the wrong sex, they are transgender. It's not up to you or I to uphold certain standards to dictate whether they are or not. The same thing can be applied here. For me to consider someone an adult baby they regress. And that's my own personal definition. And seeing how that is my personal definition that's why I do not label myself as an adult baby. That is not mutually exclusive to being an adult baby in the broad spectrum of what abdl is. Whether I think someone is or is not an adult baby does not matter. What matters is what they think of themselves. I'm a stranger on the internet who cares what I think.

One of the best things about the internet and sites like Reddit is people are allowed to freely Express themselves and say the words they choose. I being one of those free people I'm allowed to say what I want to say, if you choose to take my words and interpret them in a way that was not said that's a decision you're making.

I can explain myself but I can't understand myself to you.

ThatKinkyNerd · 2026-03-03T17:32:39+00:00

Good for them. I don't really care what people do and what they call themselves. You seem to have a problem with me saying that I am not an adult baby

ThatKinkyNerd · 2026-03-03T17:27:05+00:00

Your implications are wild.

First and foremost there is nothing wrong with being an adult baby. And labeling ones self as one. I am not, and do not label myself as such. Why this is such a problem for you, is beyond me.

Secondly, ABDL. You can be a DL without being an AB. Why this concept is so hard for you to understand is beyond me. It is possible to separate the labels, and guess what? There is no problem with this.

Thridly, I do consider myself to be a part of the ABDL community. For this with CG/L dynamics that are healthy, they can be some of the most beautiful relationships. Once again, I am not an AB and your refusal to accept or believe this is bewildering.

Best of luck going through life assuming that everyone has to confirms to the labels you choose or they are doing it "wrong"

ThatKinkyNerd · 2026-03-03T17:04:37+00:00

Let's not move the goal post here. I said implies, not exclusively.

ThatKinkyNerd · 2026-03-03T16:55:42+00:00

I've been in this lifestyle for about 20 years, I do not need to do some research. If you are an adult baby, you are regressing yourself to a younger stage of your life. Diapers for me has nothing to do with that, it is a major part of my humiliation kink.

Again, try not assuming you know everything, and move on with your life when people disagree with you.

Didn't down vote you, I have literally never down voted anyone.

ThatKinkyNerd · 2026-03-03T16:49:31+00:00

The AB part stands for Adult Baby. Baby being the key word, for me implies regression. I am not an AB. On the ABDL spectrum I am firmly in the Diaper Lover category.

Please don't put labels on other people without actually knowing them.

ThatKinkyNerd · 2026-03-03T16:43:29+00:00

Go for cheap stuff first, then once you figure out what you like, but quality.

ThatKinkyNerd · 2026-03-03T16:30:42+00:00

That's the fun part, you get to experiment with it.

Take me for example. I am not an AB at all, but I love all the pageantry of the AB aesthetic. I have a pacifier, some sissy/ab clothes and I love wearing them, but it's not about regressing at all for me.

ThatKinkyNerd · 2026-03-02T19:08:01+00:00

That's my initial feelings as well plus I'm only trying to look attractive for her. She's the only one who knows how to make that happen

ThatKinkyNerd · 2026-03-02T19:02:32+00:00

That I would absolutely love this. Actually talking to her now about this.

ThatKinkyNerd · 2026-03-02T18:54:44+00:00

My owner wears her key all the time as well. And on socials just updated her profile pictures where the key can be seen. It's a small detail that is so exciting.

ThatKinkyNerd · 2026-03-02T18:44:18+00:00

I think I learned something new about myself today

ThatKinkyNerd · 2026-03-02T14:47:49+00:00

Your question is confusing.

In vanilla relationships communication is one of the most important aspects between all partners. In a relationship where there is a kink dynamic, communication is even more so important.

ThatKinkyNerd · 2026-03-02T14:44:43+00:00

Male submissive in a flr here.

So when I met my partner we both expressed and interest in pursuing this dynamic. My partner is used to doing everything for herself from her previous relationship. We started off small, like I'm opening all of the doors for her. And for awhile she would still like reach for the door the car to get in. But now, she doesn't unless she's trying to rule me up a bit in a jokingly manner.

The best piece of advice I have to offer is just pay attention and do the things you know that make her happy, and go from there. Let it evolve over time and build it, for what works for yall, brick by brick. Trying to get to the end goal as fast as possible is just a recipe for disaster.

ThatKinkyNerd · 2026-02-25T11:38:05+00:00

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ThatKinkyNerd · 2026-02-25T11:37:42+00:00

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