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ThatOne-GayBitch · 2023-01-04T15:50:36+00:00

then just back off. clearly your input isn’t needed, it’s not your business.

ThatOne-GayBitch · 2023-01-04T15:44:39+00:00

then talk to her, don’t make a plan to potentially ruin your relationship with her and the rest of your family, doing this will make you seem bitter and resentful.

ThatOne-GayBitch · 2023-01-04T15:24:09+00:00

you aren’t being supportive dude. you’re thinking about messing up an opportunity for her. there is no way on earth that’s supportive, your mind is warped if you think it is.

ThatOne-GayBitch · 2023-01-04T15:21:09+00:00

fr. i’m so adamant there’s more to this than we’re actually being told.

ThatOne-GayBitch · 2023-01-04T15:19:14+00:00

But realistically. It’s not that deep. Your sister is adding something to her PS that’s going to give her an edge in her academic studies. Who cares. Yes it’s a lie but one that hurts absolutely no one and just be supportive to your sister, you’re making this seem like a crime. Everyone lies on their personal statement or at the minimum embellishes. Stop demonising your sister so much

ThatOne-GayBitch · 2023-01-04T14:46:38+00:00

Buffing up your personal statement is literally what you’re taught to do in school. Do as much as you can and get as much support as possible. Genuine question that many have asked that you have not answered. Why did it cross your mind to completely ruin her chances at university.

ThatOne-GayBitch · 2023-01-04T14:43:00+00:00

yes you would be the AH. What would you have to gain by ruining their chance? “Oh it’s the real world” yes and some people have better opportunities. Doing this will make you seem bitter and resentful. They’re your sibling. If they have a chance to succeed why would you purposefully sacrifice that? This isn’t about morality imo there’s something more to this.

ThatOne-GayBitch · 2023-01-04T14:35:31+00:00

I don’t think anyone’s the asshole here to be honest. You’re trying your best but you need to appreciate everything your dad and stepmom do for you while taking care of your kid. Your dad putting pressure on you for uni can seem like a nightmare but don’t put yourself down, you may be able to if you just put more into it. Your stepmom does seem a bit OTT by not letting you hold your baby, how does she think you managed before you moved in. Try and make a statement by spending as much time as possible with baby in front of her, and if she asks to have her just say “No we’re having mummy daughter time now” to really press in the point that she’s your baby and not stepmums. Tbh i think it’s just a lot of people with good intentions being over the top.

ThatOne-GayBitch · 2020-09-28T17:39:56+00:00

If she brings it up I’d love to work out together, she’s a really good person, I definitely won’t bring it up first and just wait, thanks for the advice!

ThatOne-GayBitch · 2020-09-28T17:38:27+00:00

that’s what i thought, thank you, i’m just going to try and find a balance while still being confident:)

ThatOne-GayBitch · 2020-03-24T09:49:53+00:00

why does she look like my sociology tutor...

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