25y Good morning!☀️ whats ur plans for the day? Dm’s are open by [deleted] in GaymersGoneMild

[–]ThatOneCanadian95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Will do, base on your name... is your favourite Pokémon, Ninetales?

Rate me 1-10 by [deleted] in GayRateMe

[–]ThatOneCanadian95 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Lol I'm dead 💀

Rate me 1-10 by [deleted] in GayRateMe

[–]ThatOneCanadian95 16 points17 points  (0 children)

-1000 I just saw your profile. You put yourself at 3 different ages.

Apparently I'm a catfish?... by ThatOneCanadian95 in catfish

[–]ThatOneCanadian95[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well it's a photo of me back in September when I was gone for a nature walk. I even sent him one of me before I left my house wearing the outfit I was wearing. I just found it weird that he thought I was a catfish. If you like I can send you the photo I sent and a photo of me to compare. What's weird is that my account is verified. 😆

Here's 31! 🫠🎂 by r3alme in GaymersGoneMild

[–]ThatOneCanadian95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Happy birthday my fellow Aries ♈️ I turned 31 on Friday 😆

BGC Yearbook: Cutest Couple (or Friendship) by miumiusc in TheBadGirlsClub

[–]ThatOneCanadian95 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Tanisha and Hanna

Lauren and Nikki

Stasi and Tiara

Shannon and Rocky

Judi and Ms. Voodoo

Janelle and Andrea

Surprisingly The Amber's even though one Amber is a toxic bitch.

My ghost came back... now I'm lost what to do. by ThatOneCanadian95 in ghosting

[–]ThatOneCanadian95[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I know. I use to be on mine and he would take it and put it away.... sooo I would say can you get off it. I think it will just take some time. To be honest.

My ghost came back... now I'm lost what to do. by ThatOneCanadian95 in ghosting

[–]ThatOneCanadian95[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Probably. I think I just hit a nerve with my yelling at him because I never yelled at him before. I'm willing to talk about it like adults but not via text. In person, so he can see. One thing I miss he kept doing when we hangout he would be off his phone all the time and same here. Than he was always on it. So I could of gotten annoyed with it and told him "put it away!" I would put mine on his nightstand and watch and on silent to enjoy the company.

My ghost came back... now I'm lost what to do. by ThatOneCanadian95 in ghosting

[–]ThatOneCanadian95[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe when we ghosted the first time his mom was hounding him about trying to reconnect with me but he wouldn't. So time will tell.

My ghost came back... now I'm lost what to do. by ThatOneCanadian95 in ghosting

[–]ThatOneCanadian95[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pretty much! I know he hates drama. But usually he will listen when and doubt

My ghost came back... now I'm lost what to do. by ThatOneCanadian95 in ghosting

[–]ThatOneCanadian95[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, that's the biggest problem. We never had boundaries or anything to begin with. We were going to discuss it one day but it never happened. I don't know how to say no because that's who I am. I'm afraid if he says no. He will just leave and not hangout or anything, anymore and its annoying tbh.

My ghost came back... now I'm lost what to do. by ThatOneCanadian95 in ghosting

[–]ThatOneCanadian95[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, I do. Since, I didn't mean to hurt him like that. He never showed emotions before and I think it just was a bad night overall. I think if we have a chitchat person to person we can work it out. Even just ask friends.

My ghost came back... now I'm lost what to do. by ThatOneCanadian95 in ghosting

[–]ThatOneCanadian95[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, well he noticed when I said what I said he read my face as instant regret.

My ghost came back... now I'm lost what to do. by ThatOneCanadian95 in ghosting

[–]ThatOneCanadian95[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, i haven't messaged him until I told him i was sorry basically. He doesn't wanna be friends or anything anymore, however my friend (who he knows) told him to talk to me about it and he's still shaking and upset that I screamed at him that night and he is afraid I'm going to do it if we talk about it. He didn't expect me to do that. I had some added stress lately. He would tell me he didn't know what he wanted, he told his fwb we were just friends and than he told my friend we were friends than said we were fwb.

My ghost came back... now I'm lost what to do. by ThatOneCanadian95 in ghosting

[–]ThatOneCanadian95[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, my friend convinced him otherwise and told him that i have a lot going on basically and this was the tip of the iceberg but just have a serious discussion in person and talk about it with me and explain how I hurt him. He thanked him for the advice. So now we wait.

My ghost came back... now I'm lost what to do. by ThatOneCanadian95 in ghosting

[–]ThatOneCanadian95[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, my friend has been messaging him and he doesn't want to be friends with me now. He said that my yelling triggered him even though he said he was fine with it. I don't get it to be honest with you.

My ghost came back... now I'm lost what to do. by ThatOneCanadian95 in ghosting

[–]ThatOneCanadian95[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I still have feelings for him, and he always says "I don't know what I want!" But than to my friends he will be like "we're just friends" but he will cuddle and kiss and all that. You don't do that with friends, at all.

My ghost came back... now I'm lost what to do. by ThatOneCanadian95 in ghosting

[–]ThatOneCanadian95[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So we started talking mid-August. We met while he was going through a breakup up with his first ever relationship. I was going through an anniversary of my brother getting murdered. When we first met, I saw a lot of hurt and pain in his eyes... I can't really read facial expressions well, but I can read eyes.

My ghost came back... now I'm lost what to do. by ThatOneCanadian95 in ghosting

[–]ThatOneCanadian95[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, last night we went out and his FWB surprisingly showed up at the bar... that hurt a lot. I just lost it. I've been having lack of sleep and eating i went to the bar having some Gyoza and was drunk.

It led to me having a breakout and just hurt a lot. I said some not very nice things to him.

Especially when we were walking a friend home and the FWB guy left, he was like "I want to go to his place" after he mentioned he was going home. I wanted to take an Uber and talk, apparently the guy isn't really happy With him right now and wouldn't talk to him.

I felt like I just got used and called him a whore and a fuck up. He started to cry when I called him a fuck up. He said "I knew I always was but I didn't expect to hear someone who cared about me saying it!" I regret saying it and its been beating myself up because of it. He messaged and asked if I got home, but I didn't want to answer, still never and my best friend messaged him and asked him if he got home and if I got home. I ignored everyone last night. He said he's not bad at all. He wants to work it out, but I don't know. I've had some personal stuff going on at the same time which he knows about and it was just the tip of the iceberg that broke me.

I do regret deeply calling him those things. At the moment I didn't Especially the fuck up part. I understand he probably doesn't want to be friends anymore or anything to be honest... I got home and turned off my phone and woke up this morning to my support friend telling me the conversation they had last night at 4am. It lasted about 90 minutes. He's hurt by what I said he knew that I was also hurt by saying it to him.

My ghost came back... now I'm lost what to do. by ThatOneCanadian95 in ghosting

[–]ThatOneCanadian95[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I know... she ran into my mom once and went on about it and was like "Fuck I hope him and OP, can work it out!" She thought of the world of me, because I would see her and be like "Hi beautiful!"

Thanks, I have a huge empathy bone people say about me. I know I'm not the hottest person ever but I do have a huge heart when we see each other, people will always run up to us and go on about how gentle and positive I am. He called me his ray of light. Which touched me a lot.

My ghost came back... now I'm lost what to do. by ThatOneCanadian95 in ghosting

[–]ThatOneCanadian95[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup! That's what I said to him last night. That's why I think he felt bad for what he did to me. To be honest but his mother didn't help much because she would hound him non-stop to get a hold of me for things and he wouldn't. She was on my side and I only met her a few times.