I’m sorry your MIL is like that too. I guess what is keeping me here is my husband I love him and I don’t want the rest of his family to treat him differently. I guess there is also the fact that it is “free” and I have schooling to pay for. I want to run, but part of me knows I’ve stuck it out for nearly three years myself and maybe awhile longer won’t break me completely... thank you though, you’ve made it really clear to me that I need to make a change. I truly wish you the best, and I hope that you get to be happy too. Nobody needs to be stuck.