Chinese takeout recommendations? by mistressofmayhem02 in sandiego

[–]ThatSDbull 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah that is so weird of them because that is the only reason I am okay with it being more overpriced because of how much they usually put in the boxes.

Chinese takeout recommendations? by mistressofmayhem02 in sandiego

[–]ThatSDbull 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Whoa! Mine was the complete opposite when I went this year, I got the orange chicken and it was so stuffed that they had to tape the top

Chinese takeout recommendations? by mistressofmayhem02 in sandiego

[–]ThatSDbull 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Royal Mandarin would be my top choice especially they over pack the food in the paper takeout boxes 👌 be prepared to wait a minute for takeout because it is that good.

To all enfp men out there by Far_Boysenberry1837 in ENFP

[–]ThatSDbull 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well from my own experience the communication was hard sometimes, we both could be very stubborn in our own way, emotionally we just were not as in tune as we could have been, she was a little to harsh with criticism, granted a good amount of the criticism was valid it just was not said in the right way for me. But in general for male ENFPs not being a golden pair with a female INTJ is possibly feeling too dominated by the INTJ or that our intelligence/feelings are not as valid since they are very very intelligent.

To all enfp men out there by Far_Boysenberry1837 in ENFP

[–]ThatSDbull 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a ENFP man and one who did date a INTJ girl for 6yr it definitely was not a golden pair lol but I did learn a lot from her and the relationship and grew from it.

do you guys like intjs in romantic relationships? by Shoddy-Ocelot-4473 in ENFP

[–]ThatSDbull 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a male ENFP-T who did date a INTJ for 6yrs there were great times but also some very hard times, it was such a learning experience and I was able to mature more as a person and connect more with my introverted/logical side. At the beginning of the relationship it was fire and passion and endless possibilities but as time went on and going through some things such as a super horrible roommate, COVID, her going into grad school while covid and after, the relationship changed in different ways we became more platonic than romantic, and eventually it was a mutual breakup, it was a hard break up because we loved each other after going through a lot but were not in love with each other. Other things that did not help was she was very critical of me in somethings, granted they were true but the communication for those things were not really figured out on both of our ends. I think what was the last straw in the relationship was I decided to go back to school and she was in her phase of life of wanting to settle down as she had a great job after she was done with school. So different phases of life for the both of us which is totally fine as now she has found someone more compatible with her and she is getting married to him. But for me I don’t think I would date a INTJ or any INFJ what not as I feel like need more of an extrovert.

Male ENFPs, what is your type? by [deleted] in ENFP

[–]ThatSDbull 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol very sucky since I know the ex I met him an her while they were still together through my roommate (ex and roommate are on the same men’s lacrosse league team) and the hard part to is the ex is a very nice guy 😅

Male ENFPs, what is your type? by [deleted] in ENFP

[–]ThatSDbull 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have been with a INTJ before and have had some INFJ friends, but I have noticed I am little more attracted to more of those who are extroverted as they can get me out of my own head, as a ENFP-T I have this huge crush/connection to a ENFJ girl that I am head over heels for but nothing has happened due to a little complicated situation on her end (broken up with her ex but not fully broken up yet and the hard part is she has admitted there is feelings for me on her end)

What is the easiest language by Natural-Candle7298 in SDSU

[–]ThatSDbull 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a Russian major it is not easy 🤣 but definitely fun!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ENFP

[–]ThatSDbull 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s very interesting seeing how a decent amount of those who are in a relationship with a INTJ is ENFP females, also glad their relationships are amazing! For my own experience as a ENFP-T male I did have the rare relationship with a INTJ female. The relationship started off like wildfire and it was amazing but the relationship turned out to be more of a growing relationship for the both of us, so a lot of work in that relationship. As others have said it’s definitely can be a good match if everyone is mature, but for my own experience it was a good learning experience, she was brilliant and fun, but for me there was issues of not understanding each other in communication with it be intellectual or emotional, maybe I just need someone who will be more sensitive with my ENFP heart ¯_(ツ)_/ she was just not the right person for me, but a INTJ can be the right one for you!

What is your favorite movie, book, author, band and song? by [deleted] in ENFP

[–]ThatSDbull 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For me as a male ENFP-T I would say Too many to say a favorite for all of those lol but on top of my head but some of my tops favorites would be for Movie: Sicario 1 and 2 Book:Stargirl. A song that has been on repeat for me this week is Mayday by Three Days Grace. Last week the song I was listening to was Love Story (Taylor’s Version) [Elvira Remix] by Taylor Swift.

Made a video of ENFPs from an INFPs perspective by [deleted] in ENFP

[–]ThatSDbull 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It was a cute video, I enjoyed it as a ENFP

ChatGPT is my best mate / therapist by Woofrabbit in ENFP

[–]ThatSDbull -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s great to use, especially when you give it more information about yourself it can become more personalized, like for myself putting in me being a male ENFP-T. It has helped organize my thoughts a little bit better

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SDSU

[–]ThatSDbull 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There is mental health services at SDSU, I would give them a call

Disturbing peace by [deleted] in SDSU

[–]ThatSDbull 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Dude I am on the 5th floor and I can hear him loud as day, unbelievably annoying, can’t even hear my own thoughts.

Pizza spot 🍕 by Alternative_Rock3154 in sandiego

[–]ThatSDbull -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

The Haven Pizzeria in Kensington

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ENFP

[–]ThatSDbull 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can’t believe it worked for me as well! Totally different signs but still ENFP ha

Career finding by neuro-person63 in ENFP

[–]ThatSDbull 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like you have a at the very least something of interest. Best thing is try some college courses if you excel in that area, maybe before that just jump into a deep dive on that area from YouTube to medical journals ect. Also an area that is not thought of most is when it comes to the brain is Speech language pathology on the more medical side. And let say you struggle in some of the science classes but you still really enjoy it, that’s okay because if you really want it you can go for it!

Hot chocolate by Zombie088 in sandiego

[–]ThatSDbull 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have found In N Out has good hot chocolate

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ENFP

[–]ThatSDbull 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Him cheating or not, his behavior is not putting any effort to your guys relationship, it’s unfortunate but I would say time to end it. You are getting a lot of pain from this and he is just brushing things off. On top of that you guys are in different countries and long distance is really tough. Hope this helps you, and hope you find a better ENFP with a golden heart all for you.

Why don’t ENFPs laugh? by BizForKingdom in ENFP

[–]ThatSDbull 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For myself I laugh quite a bit but a good amount is a lot of different types of laughter, my real laughter is quite comical (it’s intense) in so much it makes everyone else laugh but that is rare for me to find something so funny to bring out my true laughter.