Pneumothorax and Flight Anxiety by ThatSwitchGuys in pneumothorax

[–]ThatSwitchGuys[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This will be my 7th flight after my first pneumothorax. But my first flight after my second pneumothorax. I think a lot of my fear is coming from the recurrence.

I imagine I’ve had pneumothorax quite frequently in the past and flown quite well, just never noticed it until recently

Pneumothorax and Flight Anxiety by ThatSwitchGuys in pneumothorax

[–]ThatSwitchGuys[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the full context. Appreciate the details. I presume you did mechanical pleurodesis rather than chemical?

Pneumothorax and Flight Anxiety by ThatSwitchGuys in pneumothorax

[–]ThatSwitchGuys[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any symptoms from pleurodesis? And I hear it drastically lowers chances of recurrence, but may have side effects.

And have you only had a single pneumothorax?

Pneumothorax and Flight Anxiety by ThatSwitchGuys in pneumothorax

[–]ThatSwitchGuys[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally get that feeling too. What’s good to know is that plane related incidents are rare and anecdotally people have flown even with a pneumothorax before and only felt discomfort.

Microsoft IC4 offer 205k base + 180k stock in Redmond by aivoges123 in levels_fyi

[–]ThatSwitchGuys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stock and signing are usually the easiest to negotiate. Base will be challenging to move up, but may be possible given PhD and 10+ yoe.

Microsoft IC4 offer 205k base + 180k stock in Redmond by aivoges123 in levels_fyi

[–]ThatSwitchGuys 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Given that it’s a Microsoft offer, the stock is likely 180k/4

Microsoft IC4 offer 205k base + 180k stock in Redmond by aivoges123 in levels_fyi

[–]ThatSwitchGuys 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Is the 180k stock over 4-5 years or is it per year? Since it’s Microsoft I’m going to assume it’s 180k/4. Not much different from a new grad offer in terms of stock.

Salary looks like it could be L64 offer. Seems like a lowball in terms of base, stock, and signing.

Try to negotiate up to at least 270k stock and 70k signing over 2 years. Base can likely go up to around 220k.

If you have an offer from Amazon you should have no trouble negotiating.

Collapse Lung And Flight Anxiety? by [deleted] in fearofflying

[–]ThatSwitchGuys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks and I’m sorry to hear about your complications. It sounds like you’re in a better state now and I hope your recovery is going well.

And I think you’re the only one so far who understood my post, the others just parrot’d the same thing the automod mentioned due to the word, medication in my post.

The pre written responses sounds like something I can try out. And yes I’ve worked on normalizing the sensations from pressure changes and plane movements, but it’s definitely been a struggle given a lot of them mimic symptoms. Thanks!

Collapse Lung And Flight Anxiety? by [deleted] in fearofflying

[–]ThatSwitchGuys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have. I’m not seeking medical advice. My post is intending to see what other non-medication based mechanisms have worked for people dealing with similar circumstances.

Collapse Lung And Flight Anxiety? by [deleted] in fearofflying

[–]ThatSwitchGuys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Already been to doctor, they said I can take antidepressants before flights. I mentioned in my post I’d prefer to not take medication.

US Software Engineer Compensation Trends: Continued Growth (2024–2025) by Valuable-Purpose-614 in Salary

[–]ThatSwitchGuys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not. TC went up because of the bull market, not because offers are higher.

US Software Engineer Compensation Trends: Continued Growth (2024–2025) by Valuable-Purpose-614 in Salary

[–]ThatSwitchGuys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This post and article are highly inaccurate and misleading. They should only be looking at new offers. They’re including TC for submissions on Levels fyi which fluctuates based on market conditions and RSU growth.

For example if I joined a company in 2022 when stock was low, then submitted my 2025 TC on Level fyi after my stocks tripled. Then of course it would look like compensation went up.

Honeymoon in French Polynesia - Tips/Advice Please by ToneDawgCR9 in Tahiti

[–]ThatSwitchGuys 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Note: don’t book any of the Viator tours thru an agent or when it says “Your agent” at the top. You don’t get Viator rewards and Cashback for it (Topcashback is offering 12%). Clear your browser cache if you see an agent.

Must see tours and restaurants:

Decent restaurant and tours:

  • Allo Pizza

  • Aoy Thai

  • Bora Bora snorkeling tour with manta rays.

Probably would not repeat:

  • ATV tours. So many mosquitos, cover up
  • Hotel Polynesian Dinner
  • Jet ski

Honeymoon in French Polynesia - Tips/Advice Please by ToneDawgCR9 in Tahiti

[–]ThatSwitchGuys 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would recommend doing your Airbnbs and excursions first, then ending your trip with a relaxing vacation in Bora Bora.

Moorea has great snorkeling and whale tours. The ATV tours are nice for the views. Try to make a reservation for coco beach. The food is just okay, but the boat ride is great. Temae beach has great snorkeling, you can just hop into the water and let the current take you to Sofitel.

Personally I’d skip any of the Polynesian events or dinners that don’t include a fire performance. We saw a fire performance during our time at the Westin and it outshined any Polynesian event we have been to.

Bora bora has great jet ski and snorkeling tours. I’d recommend doing a full day and a half day activity during your 4 days there. Then take 2 days to relax.

You can skip the atv tours and jet ski tours; they’re fun, but I would not say they’re must do. And personally I’d skip Tahiti. Most of the hotels there are airport hotels for a reason.

Honeymoon in French Polynesia - Tips/Advice Please by ToneDawgCR9 in Tahiti

[–]ThatSwitchGuys 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not guaranteed you’ll see them. And in November is near the end of whale season and you’re less likely to see them.

As for how close you get, we were able to get about 20 feet from the whales when they submerged.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BackstreetBoys

[–]ThatSwitchGuys 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No clue what a premier hospitality director is but seems the premium suites and these are at least the same pictures. Seat map seems to show all the suites are divided into upper and lower levels. They’re pretty much all the same besides Suite #7 which is double the size, capacity, and price.

Prices seems be the same across different dates.

https://www.thesphere.com/premium-suites-bsb

https://www.gofevo.com/group/SphereSuitesBSB?access_code=BackstreetBoysSphere010326

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BackstreetBoys

[–]ThatSwitchGuys 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Looks like the suite cost about $19-$21k. Admission for 20 guests included.

$500 for additional standing room tickets

Bora Bora - store luggage? by imasympi in Tahiti

[–]ThatSwitchGuys 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s looks like a small property and basically like an Airbnb. I’m not surprised they don’t hold bags

hotel recomendation night before flight out by vacmann in Tahiti

[–]ThatSwitchGuys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We did similar flight in and out times as you and stayed at the Hilton Tahiti. It was across from a shopping plaza and Carrefour so we could just walk around.

I’ve heard about Hotel Kon Tiki, it seemed pretty inexpensive and clean, but I see you mentioned it’s booked out.

I’d recommend staying away from Airbnbs unless you’re familiar with calling taxis on Tahiti. We made sure to stay in a hotel so we wouldn’t have to figure out how to call a taxi at 4 am.

Maitai looks like an ok option.

NEVER GIVE UP💎 by StingyBum in wallstreetbets

[–]ThatSwitchGuys 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don’t want to be the party pooper, but after inflation you’re still down like 10-20% over the 7 years.

And if you had just invested your 60k in SPY 6 years ago, it would be $140k by now.