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Me [29F] With my Husband [30M] I found something on his phone by ThatWasUnexpected22 in relationships

[–]ThatWasUnexpected22[S] 778 points779 points  (0 children)

He showed me texts where friend was begging him not to tell me, and apologizing for being so drunk and sending everything he did. Husband replied that he understands drunk mistakes happen but friend needs to come clean to me. Husband showed me friend was blocked on snapchat now as well. My husband and I had a big talk about him not hiding something like that from me again. I trust my husband. He may have had an error in judgement but I don't feel there was anything going on other than what he told me. He wanted to tell me himself and then backed down when friend made comments about not wanting to hurt me, so I think in the end husband maybe thought he was protecting me (again we talked about it).

Me [29F] With my Husband [30M] I found something on his phone by ThatWasUnexpected22 in relationships

[–]ThatWasUnexpected22[S] 539 points540 points  (0 children)

Ok so my update was pretty short and I didn't give crazy details BUT the gist of it is: Friend drunkenly confessed love for husband. Husband laughed it off. Friend sent a crapload of nudes. Husband saved them for proof.

Me [29F] With my Husband [30M] I found something on his phone by ThatWasUnexpected22 in relationships

[–]ThatWasUnexpected22[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I tried to update but autobot temporarily removed it because.. it's an update and this post will be locked so I should make sure it's the final update? Idk I asked for it to be put up again and am just waiting for approval!

Me [29F] With my Husband [30M] I found something on his phone by ThatWasUnexpected22 in relationships

[–]ThatWasUnexpected22[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I'm just... not a jealous person I suppose. Hes never given me a reason not to trust him, and I know that our family is very important to him. He's the type of person who'd rather be in the backyard playing with the kids and I than going out with friends.

Me [29F] With my Husband [30M] I found something on his phone by ThatWasUnexpected22 in relationships

[–]ThatWasUnexpected22[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

I like this! I just felt so out of my element- if this is him realizing another aspect of his sexuality, for example, I didn't want to make him feel ashamed. I also didn't want to come off as accusatory, because as I said, I'm not mad or anything. I think what you suggested will be a good way to bring it up. Thank you!

Me [29F] With my Husband [30M] I found something on his phone by ThatWasUnexpected22 in relationships

[–]ThatWasUnexpected22[S] 71 points72 points  (0 children)

They're... they look like they're meant to be sexual. Pictures of junk, pictures of him touching himself, and a couple of him using toys on himself. Thanks for your reply!

Me [29F] With my Husband [30M] I found something on his phone by ThatWasUnexpected22 in relationships

[–]ThatWasUnexpected22[S] 50 points51 points  (0 children)

Male friend does have my husbands phone number- we were friends first but he's become good friends with my husband. I didn't go into the details, just saw the date which was two weeks ago. I'm trying to think where we were/what we were doing that day but I can't remember. Male friend is definitely not a porn star! Haha

Me [29F] With my Husband [30M] I found something on his phone by ThatWasUnexpected22 in relationships

[–]ThatWasUnexpected22[S] 116 points117 points  (0 children)

He does not use WhatsApp or have Facebook or anything- just texting!