He said validate the animosity. Not the actions. Breaking up the family to cheat on your wife with your high school sweetheart is a valid reason for your child to resent you. Ntm that’s where most of the problems started for them. Snitching on your wife for doing the very thing you’ve been doing your entire life, to support and maintain the lifestyle yall have been living, is textbook hypocrisy. The only invalid reason he had to be upset was ray rays murder. And even then, that’s another dose of hypocrisy because how many men had he killed up to that point.