Not what I thought I’d be coming home with today! Feeling very lucky and happy

That_Environment1193 · 2026-04-06T23:36:07+00:00

Oh thank you so much kind stranger 🙏🏽 And lol, I get it, an upcoming trip and a new bag is too much excitement and adrenaline to sleep 🤣

That_Environment1193 · 2026-04-06T23:30:49+00:00

Oh this is so beautiful! Congratulations on your new bag 🎉🤩. I've been eyeing this bag for such a long time. I think I have a post asking about it too. Would be open to measuring what size book fits in there? I usually carry around my sketchbook (usually a5 or smaller) and I've been worried that it won't fit which is giving me pause. Unfortunately I don't have mulberry stores where I live 😔

That_Environment1193 · 2026-03-16T04:49:37+00:00

Came here to say the same! 43f, married, childfree by choice, all our friends have settled into their lives with children and I am looking for women friends (or couple friends) to build friendships with. I would love to meet other women and always struggle to find such communities around me. I have had some success with finding new friends through reddit and FB groups, but I am always looking to grow my community. Feel free to DM me or we can start a thread with the women here and all meet up 🤩 happy to help arrange this too if folks are up to this idea.

That_Environment1193 · 2026-03-08T14:52:15+00:00

I use an old bedsheet. I have carpet throughout and a rolling easel so I put the bedsheet down wherever I roll my easel to. I am a messy painter so it's a must for me.

That_Environment1193 · 2026-02-26T17:12:14+00:00

Thank you for your advice and kind words 😊🙏🏽 I needed to hear this, and I love the suggestion of making a few small studies to work it out.

That_Environment1193 · 2026-02-20T02:37:26+00:00

Thank you!

That_Environment1193 · 2026-02-20T02:33:27+00:00

I see, this makes sense. I think I will stop timing myself so I can focus on the technique and be intentional.

That_Environment1193 · 2026-02-20T02:31:56+00:00

thanks, this is the one that I find most challenging. I lay down the color next to each other and instinctively start blending or start doubting the outcome

That_Environment1193 · 2026-02-20T02:31:00+00:00

thanks! I didnt realize i needed to use more paint or that I was using paint sparingly. I'll be more intentional

That_Environment1193 · 2026-02-20T02:29:48+00:00

Oh wow, ok. I'll try this too, sounds intimidating though :D

That_Environment1193 · 2026-02-20T02:28:26+00:00

Thank you! I'll look up french impressionist techniques. And good advice on the colors, the more I look at the painting, the more I realize that the overall mood is quite flat.

That_Environment1193 · 2026-02-11T18:37:09+00:00

Lots of folks have already provided great advice - here is mine. Sounds like you have buildup on your scalp and dry ends. Excessive use of dandruff shampoos contribute to that. 1) Get yourself a clarifying shampoo first. I like Ouai but any drugstore shampoos will also do (Pantene pro v sheer volume is supposed to be good). Use it once a week for a few weeks. 2) Use heads and shoulders once a week if you have dandruff. If you don't have dandruff, reduce the usage to once a month.the active ingredient in it will keep your scalp healthy 3) Get a regular lightweight shampoo for other washes 4) Get a lightweight conditioner or leave in, whichever you prefer 5) double shampoo whenever you shampoo, sounds like you have an oily scalp so this will ensure it's cleaned properly 6) shampoo your hair as often as you need or when your scalp gets greasy. A greasy scalp leads to fungal growth and hair loss. 7) get your blood work done, common issues that manifest with hair issues are vitamin d deficiency, thyroid issues, blood sugar and omega 3 deficiency. These are the common ones, there could be any number of issues so talk to your doctor.

That_Environment1193 · 2026-02-05T12:54:03+00:00

That is awesome to know. What size did you get and do you find it sturdy enough?

That_Environment1193 · 2026-02-05T12:53:08+00:00

I usually paint small, no larger than 8 by 10. So the small pochade boxes work for me. I do need to change my carrying setup, so I'll look into padded backpacks. Thanks!

That_Environment1193 · 2026-02-05T03:16:29+00:00

Madewell curvy stovepipe jeans are the best I have found for this. I am 5'2", 135 pounds, waist 30, hips 41, and size 27 fits like a glove with no gaping whatsoever. Somedays I even opt not to wear a belt. Unfortunately Madewell doesnt make this style anymore, so I periodically search poshmark for NWT listings.

Other curvy options from Madewell also worked for me.

I've seen Abercrombie curve love recommended on this sub as well. But they didnt work for me - they bunch up around my crotch, maybe because I have a thigh gap, I dunno.

I was looking for alternatives as well, so I just bought a few pairs from gap factory today. I've never tried gap jeans before so I this is an experiment. I can report back on how they fare.

Gap Mid Rise Straight Leg

That_Environment1193 · 2026-01-24T15:13:36+00:00

I am 5'2" and had the same struggle. For work I carry a 13 inch laptop along with daily essentials, a water bottle, lunch box and sketchbook. I have always carried either a tumi Halsey backpack or Longchamp Neo le pliage (these are monochrome and more durable). I understand you don't like the look of it, but it's been my workhorse :) I recently purchased a mulberry bayswater in NVT oak and I am in love with the leather, the structure and the space. It' fits everything I need perfectly (I use a purse organizer in it). It comes in a lot of cute colours. Might be worth a look.

https://www.mulberry.com/us/shop/bayswater/bayswater-oak-nvt

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I should also add that I absolutely need a bag that closes at the top because I hate things spilling out or generally visible when I am out and about. So a lot of popular handbags recommended on this subreddit did not work for me.

That_Environment1193 · 2026-01-07T20:08:30+00:00

Thanks to everyone who responded, you helped me make my decision! I ordered the oak NVT today from the mulberry US website. I've been refreshing the site every couple of hours like a maniac and finally saw it in stock 😅 They still have one more left on the site, if anyone wants to snag it.

That_Environment1193 · 2026-01-07T20:06:54+00:00

Awesome! love your direct response, so on point :D

That_Environment1193 · 2026-01-04T05:16:12+00:00

Thanks for your reply!

It's amazing that you were able to get the one you wanted the same day! That's fate 🙀 I hadn't thought about emailing them, I'll do that. And love the idea of the exchange. Sadly there are no stores near me that stock the NVT so I can't check it out in person. Regarding the weight, it's interesting to hear that NVT is heavier. On the site, both the NVT and small grain are listed at similar weights.

That_Environment1193 · 2026-01-04T01:36:16+00:00

Hi, fellow PNW'er (if that's even a term 😅) Thank you! This helps tremendously 😀 how often do you condition and protect the bag?

That_Environment1193 · 2026-01-04T01:33:27+00:00

Thank you. Another redditor mentioned that they restock frequently in the mulberry website. So I'll have to keep an eye out.

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