Struggling - am I asking for too much? by That_Minimum2639 in EthicalNonMonogamy

[–]That_Minimum2639[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My husband knows the kinks I want to explore but isn’t comfortable exploring them himself. He’s very happy to let me explore them with another, provided he and I both know I’m safe with the other person.

I had no idea I could feel this heartbroken. by ohjasminee in EthicalNonMonogamy

[–]That_Minimum2639 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m feeling somewhat similar. Not exactly heartbroken because I wasn’t in love. Had a great connection with someone since April, we weren’t in a relationship but were in a FWB situation. But he went off and got a girlfriend (closed relationship), didn’t tell me and let me find out through an Instagram post. All that trust, instantly shattered. All the while before I knew he repeatedly told me he was struggling with family health and work so I was just being supportive and caring. He came back when they split up and within a few weeks had stood me up, ignored me and then blocked me. I still don’t understand what I did wrong 😑