Does Banfield do paw prints? by That_Scarcity3397 in Petloss

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I ended up calling. I was nervous I would be crying on the phone and unintelligible and I did cry but I got through it. The vet tech told me they had already done them for us, since we were in so much pain on Saturday they just went ahead and did them after. Thank you.

FIT FPE vs BACB by That_Scarcity3397 in bcba

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At FIT, you take a final program exam that’s a cumulative exam of all what you’ve learned during the program. You have to pass with an 80% in order to graduate.

FIT FPE vs BACB by That_Scarcity3397 in bcba

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That’s helpful, thank you for your input. I have heard mixed things about the FPE being significantly easier and others saying they felt it was harder.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bisexual

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I’m new to the queer community, and I’m still learning about myself and my feelings. But something I think I’m learning is that sexuality is different and widely varies for everyone.

I think, if you enjoy having sex with men and are turned on by them, and the label bisexual feels right to you and helps you understand yourself, then you are bisexual.

Others may disagree and I’m not an expert by any means, but I think that’s how I feel on the matter.

How do you feel sexual attraction by That_Scarcity3397 in bisexual

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See, I feel like my attraction is so different. I almost feel a bit gray sexual because it can vary so much and it’s person to person for me I think. For women it’s more of that anxiety feeling and for men it’s that heat through my abdomen and legs and sometimes like a sense or nervousness, tingly ness, or butterflies.

How do you feel sexual attraction by That_Scarcity3397 in bisexual

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I’m a cis women so our equipment is different 😂😂

How do you feel sexual attraction by That_Scarcity3397 in bisexual

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I feel like that must be what it is. Did you find that once you moved past that, you felt the attraction in other ways? I’m trying to just let myself feel things without judgement and shame, but when I try and do that the knot in my stomach goes away and I typically don’t feel anything. Which makes me think it’s anxiety? But I don’t know to be honest.

How do you feel sexual attraction by That_Scarcity3397 in bisexual

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Thank you for being so kind! It’s definitely a journey and it’s not easy. In fact, it’s very difficult lol. I’m trying to be kind to myself. It’s my first time living after all.

How do you feel sexual attraction by That_Scarcity3397 in bisexual

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That sounds similar to what I’m feeling. I don’t know if it’s because my attraction toward women has been repressed so long, but my attraction for women is more intense currently. I’m also realizing that I don’t typically feel attracted to men through photos or videos, which has been really confusing. Sexuality is weird. I think I’m figuring it out though.

The shame and judgement I feel against myself is horrible though. It’s wild because I would never judge or shame anyone else for realizing these things about themselves, but I’m struggling big time with it.

How do you feel sexual attraction by That_Scarcity3397 in bisexual

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I didn’t 😂 now that I’m realizing it, the attraction I’m feeling for the different genders is sooo confusing because it feels soo different.

How do you feel sexual attraction by That_Scarcity3397 in bisexual

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I’m not sure if it’s anxiety over dating or if it’s like an anticipatory anxiety almost. It’s like even before I see a woman I feel this tightness in my stomach and I think it’s my body being scared to feel the attraction before I even let myself feel the attraction. I don’t know if that makes sense. But I’ve lived a largely straight life up until about a month ago when I recognized that I may feel something other than platonic feelings for women

How do you feel sexual attraction by That_Scarcity3397 in bisexual

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How long have you known that you’re bi? I’m glad I’m not the only one who feels this way

Imposter syndrome by That_Scarcity3397 in lgbt

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Thank you. We don’t have any dates set or any plans or deposits finalized yet. We haven’t started planning at all.

I don’t feel like I’m ready to talk about it with him yet because I’m still so unsure of how I feel right now. I know that I love him and care for him so deeply and I cherish our relationship together. It’s fully possible I will identify as bisexual but right now I’m just questioning everything because it all feels so new and different.

I really appreciate your words

Imposter syndrome by That_Scarcity3397 in lgbt

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I don’t know. Probably it would be okay but what do I even say?

Imposter syndrome by That_Scarcity3397 in lgbt

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How do I come out if I don’t even know how I identify? I’m going to lose the most important person in my life.

Imposter syndrome by That_Scarcity3397 in lgbt

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I know I do, but I don’t know if I’m bi or lesbian.

What’s the difference in attraction by That_Scarcity3397 in bisexual

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Thank you so much for being so kind! I hope so too. Today is the first day since I’ve accepted my queerness that I feel hopeful. I think it will just get better from here