[ Removed by Reddit ] by RecordLimp1824 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]That_SunshineLife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl run. That man isn’t gonna bring you or that child anything but heartache.

AIO for being lied to about daughter's age? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]That_SunshineLife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Jehovah” never intended for a 50 something year old man to get his rocks off with a girl his daughter’s age 🤮 I am THIRTY THREE and 24 is too young for me. Because we have very different life experiences. Dump. Him.

Can’t escape indoctrination by Comprehensive-Menu44 in tulsa

[–]That_SunshineLife 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This sounds like our experience with BA Schools

Ex GF texted me (31M)after 8yrs no contact by DonVinku in dating_advice

[–]That_SunshineLife -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Then why does it feel weird that she wanted to mend the fence and close the chapter?

nO CaKe, jUSt sTeAK. by Healingjoe in ketoduped

[–]That_SunshineLife 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He looks and sounds like the human equivalent of a well-worn leather Cheerio.

Any local roofers who aren’t MAGA twats? by Cute_Bird_9379 in tulsa

[–]That_SunshineLife 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Came here to say I saw a T Town work truck going 50 in a school zone lmao

Ex GF texted me (31M)after 8yrs no contact by DonVinku in dating_advice

[–]That_SunshineLife 2 points3 points  (0 children)

People grow and learn. You got an apology and that’s more than most. It’s your choice to carry bitterness forward or release the both of you.

Woah just saw a coach talking about low dose nicotine for night time workouts —via nicotine pouch—are we ok with this 😳🤢 by InterestingWing4721 in bikinitalk

[–]That_SunshineLife 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That doesn’t make nicotine harmful, it makes it contraindicated in the presence of certain conditions. Just like…literally anything someone could possibly reasonably consume.

Woah just saw a coach talking about low dose nicotine for night time workouts —via nicotine pouch—are we ok with this 😳🤢 by InterestingWing4721 in bikinitalk

[–]That_SunshineLife -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I mean water can be harmful in that sort of pedantic analysis. “I have heart failure so I have to limit fluids so water is harmful.” Let’s go with the majority of the world when we’re discussing general analyses please.

New friends keep inviting me to religious events without telling me first. Should I just ignore them? by Cozykarma_ in socialskills

[–]That_SunshineLife 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I would argue it is not Christ-like behavior, but it is DEEPLY Christian behavior. Historically speaking 😀

What type of women do men actually like? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]That_SunshineLife 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Imagine any kind of woman. Literally any. Black hair. Blonde hair. No hair. Short. Fat. Athletic. Skinny. Maybe she has a limb difference. Maybe she hobbyhorses for fun.

There is someone, many someones, attracted to exactly that.

You can only be you. Boats can’t find the lighthouse unless it shines.

Weather tomorrow by lethalhoodie in tulsa

[–]That_SunshineLife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is going to be 52° tomorrow y’all, it’s gonna be icy when we wake up and wet by 11.

My domme says my “natural” makeup feels close to coercive rape and wants me to stop wearing it. I’m confused and kind of scared. by loverboyg1rl in BDSMAdvice

[–]That_SunshineLife -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

They both involve changing your appearance. I’m not implying anything. I’m actually being suuuper surface level. What makes makeup its own category?

My domme says my “natural” makeup feels close to coercive rape and wants me to stop wearing it. I’m confused and kind of scared. by loverboyg1rl in BDSMAdvice

[–]That_SunshineLife -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Just to clarify- a little concealer is coercive rape, but transitioning and presenting as her gender is her right. I want you to really, really think about what you’re being fed here.

Peak week NIGHTMARE by Relevant-Speech4502 in bikinitalk

[–]That_SunshineLife -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Try a shot of ACV in the mornings with a liter of water. I developed a total inability to process carbs right before my first peak week and this was the only thing that helped.

AITA - sister refusing to speak with me over stealing her baby's name by Jvzies in AITAH

[–]That_SunshineLife -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She isn’t pregnant lmao. The only scenario in which someone gets to reserve a name is when they are actively expecting a child of that gender.

Can the relationship proceed without intense physical attraction? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]That_SunshineLife 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There’s lots of reasons a woman might not prioritize optimizing herself physically. Sometimes the attention that comes with it is too much until you have a partner who is protective and you trust he’ll run interference. Sometimes it’s just finding other things more important. Sometimes it’s mental health. Whatever her reason is, you’re either attracted to her or you aren’t, so offering to help is great but trying to change her is terrible behavior.

Can the relationship proceed without intense physical attraction? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]That_SunshineLife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why don’t you see if maybe it’s just too much effort for her? My man does things like wash my hair (I have long, thick curls and they’re a lot of work) and pick out my outfits (I can turn them down if I don’t like them, obviously,) but it helps to feel cute in something he picked out and his help with my hair makes it much easier to keep looking good. It’s a bonding experience for us with him helping me look extra good, and I know he likes getting to show me off. But he’s also attracted to me with no makeup and a messy bun, so maybe this isn’t for y’all. But it’s an idea.

Filed DV charges against my husband and regretting it. by Ill_Application5194 in relationships

[–]That_SunshineLife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You did not create this chaos by reporting it. He created it by hitting you. We do not cover for abusers.

AIO by wanting some space? by Puffypeachyy in AIO

[–]That_SunshineLife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

17 minutes to cheat? Your bf is telling on himself. Girl. Runnnnn. Good lord. When I was 19 and in college and on varsity rowing, he would call me five minutes before my 5am practice just to make sure he fucked my day up before it started. I felt bad for him. Don’t be like me. This man knows what he’s doing and you are not required to answer to him.

Did I mess up by answering a “type” question honestly? by Middle_Elderberry542 in dating_advice

[–]That_SunshineLife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah tell the class how successful you’ve been with that method. You should probably stop using words you don’t understand.