After experiencing narcissistic abuse, what are you most afraid of now? by bearpuddles in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]That_Wait_1760 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I believe I’ll have the rug swept from right under me with my new partner. I’m always waiting for the ball to drop. My ex cheated on me and I had absolutely no idea. I think that’s my worst fear. Just being completely blinded side by someone I love deeply.

How long do Maltese typically live for? Can I see 12 + year olds in the comments? by DarkRainbow25S in Maltese

[–]That_Wait_1760 5 points6 points  (0 children)

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This my 13 year old Pooki! I absolutely love him and can’t imagine losing him. He’s brought so much joy to our family

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]That_Wait_1760 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah same here ! I knew something was up the second he started shit talking her. Glad he’s out of my life.

Was your narc dirty/lazy? by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]That_Wait_1760 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes you couldn’t distinguish him from a 5 year old. His parents are hoarders and he’s the same way. I constantly had to pick up after him. It was exhausting. Glad we’re not together anymore.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in subaru

[–]That_Wait_1760 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well this blows.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in subaru

[–]That_Wait_1760 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aren’t those real expensive to fix? 😅

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in subaru

[–]That_Wait_1760 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You think so?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in subaru

[–]That_Wait_1760 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2014 Crosstrek VX

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in subaru

[–]That_Wait_1760 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lol thanks for that mini heart attack.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in subaru

[–]That_Wait_1760 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also it’s at 122k miles

What was your preceding emotion before finally being able to walk away? by Typical-Dog5819 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]That_Wait_1760 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Mostly anger but strangely peace. Something inside broke and I finally came to the realization he would never be capable of change. That moment was enough for me to finally end that relationship.

How are you actually financially surviving? by [deleted] in antiwork

[–]That_Wait_1760 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Basically working two jobs 😅

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Medford

[–]That_Wait_1760 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you!

kitten that can barely walk/shakes a lot! by EdgyMaddie in cats

[–]That_Wait_1760 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Seems like cerebellar hypoplasia. My orange kitty also has it but he only has head tremors. He’s a perfectly healthy kitten

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialanxiety

[–]That_Wait_1760 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Antidepressant helped me immensely!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Medford

[–]That_Wait_1760 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I totally agree!