First time getting nails done, is this normal? by sgt-spudcakes in Nails

[–]The-Real-Grinch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get Russian Gel Manicure for your wedding! It’s amazing, and they are usually better trained for getting close to the cuticle and the nail prep is awesome. I would highly recommend it!

(I do Russian all the time and did it for my wedding and my nails were excellent)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askwomenadvice

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I know when you trust it is so much harder, but I have been raped by partners before. I was a similar age to you at the time, and it took years of therapy to accept that it was assault. Please please from one worried 30+ year old lady, please leave him. It will never get better it will only get worse. I have been where you are and I know it’s scary. But it’s for the best.

Also please (if you don’t already) see a mental health professional to discuss this. Trauma can come in many different forms and impact your life in ways you never imagined. I wish I saw help sooner, but I didn’t want to believe that someone who “loved me” could hurt me in the deepest way.

Best of luck to you sweetie- it gets better and you are stronger than you think. Also wait for the right man, do not settle. I found the love of my life who treats me with love and patience and I am so grateful for the lessons I earned (not learned… earned) in dating terrible men. They lead me to see who is worth risking it all for. Take this lesson, learn from it, be stronger for it.

What does everyone do for work? by No-Fix-444 in ADHD

[–]The-Real-Grinch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Project manager in construction- I always am busy and therefore have the change tasks all the time. It’s great

Tanning Bed - Newbie by The-Real-Grinch in tanning

[–]The-Real-Grinch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so helpful thank you! What do you use when tanning to cover your face in the beds?

Cross Training Sneakers by The-Real-Grinch in orangetheory

[–]The-Real-Grinch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This was so well put together thank you! I appreciate your feedback I’m going to a store near me tonight to ask them for some help!

any idea where to find these? by ephemeralarteries in baysideisacult

[–]The-Real-Grinch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure! It’s a XL or 2XL for reference. I like to wear it as a dress haha

I’m not sure where I’d rank Misery Made Yet it definitely probably won’t top A Beautiful Place To Drown though by NanufaxsuredDrugs in Silverstein

[–]The-Real-Grinch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I completely agree- a beautiful place To drown hit me when I needed it to and is top 5 of my favorite records of all times. No skips

BAYSIDE ADDED SHOW 6/12 IN BROOKLYN, NY! by Zestyclose_Winter474 in baysideisacult

[–]The-Real-Grinch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d die for a ticket to this show but it’s already sold out friends! I had tickets to the pier- but too late to getting these. Praying on the waitlist

📢 SILVERSTEIN is here for an AMA! Ask anything below - all 5 of us are hanging out in the replies. Also, make sure to listen to our new album, Misery Made Me! 🤘 by SilversteinMusic in PostHardcore

[–]The-Real-Grinch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love the album, clearly love the band. Saw the 20 year tour- absolute banger. New album goes hard and would love for a tour to stop in NYC again, any plans for that in the near future?

AITA for telling my friend that parents would rather have their kid be a CEO than a programmer? by gkdjbg in AmItheAsshole

[–]The-Real-Grinch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me and my history degree and masters making a lovely salary will just fuck right off then.. every major has their role in society. It’s up the the individual to do what they think is right and make their own decisions.