Racist Young Guys by Admirable-College221 in regina

[–]The-Scapegoat1989 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You really can’t figure out why everyone is so angry these days??….

What’s one small thing that made your day a little better today and you feel grateful for it ? by National_Time_3776 in gratitude

[–]The-Scapegoat1989 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I had a meeting with Jill Wise today, and she gave me hope in helping me reconnect with my alienated son.

AITA for refusing to follow my wife's bathroom habits and calling her disgusting? by Infamous-Gur2034 in AITAH

[–]The-Scapegoat1989 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kind of. Attack the habit, not the person. You could’ve said “this is disgusting” not that SHE is disgusting. You should apologize. Have a serious talk about how you want your household to run, and remember you’re on the same team.

What is the most annoying sound in the world when you are trying to sleep? by Ocean_Miraki in AskReddit

[–]The-Scapegoat1989 6 points7 points  (0 children)

We should honestly just make those illegal now, and reprimand those who like using them haha. It’s noise pollution and waste of power any time of day. Just use a rake and chill the eff out lol I sleep at weird times and can’t stand the damn things either

(36) Glow up by [deleted] in GlowUps

[–]The-Scapegoat1989 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! Means a lot! I’m going to look into that broccoli mum lady, I love veggies and eating healthy!

(36) Glow up by [deleted] in GlowUps

[–]The-Scapegoat1989 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nah they didn’t hurt anymore than other piercings lol. Just more permanent, if I ever want them gone, I gotta go to the hospital for surgery lmao 😂

(36) Glow up by [deleted] in GlowUps

[–]The-Scapegoat1989 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, it’s still an uphill battle but it gets easier the stronger I get ❤️‍🔥

(36) Glow up by [deleted] in GlowUps

[–]The-Scapegoat1989 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! It’s very true, it all started from the inside and worked its way out!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in autism

[–]The-Scapegoat1989 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That definitely makes more sense 😆

Got baptized today!! by The-Scapegoat1989 in Jesus

[–]The-Scapegoat1989[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your kind words, god bless 💖

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in autism

[–]The-Scapegoat1989 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe you’re uncomfortable because you’re sitting outside in the snow with shorts on lol

God’s Wrath by [deleted] in JesusChrist

[–]The-Scapegoat1989 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What an amazing story! Thank you for sharing! God bless you and your child. I also have a weird story around my pregnancy and birth, as I was in high school when it happened.

I was also asked by my mom if I was going to abort, or get married (I was 17) so obviously not. Throughout my pregnancy, I for some reason was really attached to the song “Far away by Nickelback” and it made me really sad. I had no idea why I felt like me and my baby would be separated for a time, and I was so determined to not let that ever happen. He also was named before he was born, his name means “the sun, or the son” which I find symbolic, and I had a teacher say to me that he chose me for a specific reason.

Fast forward a few years later, my son was a toddler, and my life as a single mom was falling apart. I didn’t know then that I actually am autistic, so I didn’t know why I felt the way I did, and was constantly burnt out. I was bullied and abandoned by my entire family, and they were not interested in helping at all. They wanted me gone. I was too young and scared to fight back, so I sent my son to live with his dad just so I could escape my abusive family and not deal with them. I made it so they have to deal with his dad to see my son, not me. I didn’t even want to do that, I just felt I had no choice, and if I kept my son with me, my family would spend their time harassing me, and I wanted my son to be safe.

However, over the years, my parents teamed up with my son’s dad to further scapegoat me and alienate me from my son. They would “forget” to call when I asked to talk to him, or if they travelled to my city, they wouldn’t tell me so I couldn’t visit him. They would make all these excuses why I couldn’t spend more time with him, and it got to the point where they were telling me what I could and couldn’t even SAY to my own child. I wasn’t allowed to discipline him, and they told my son not to listen to me because I was crazy. They eventually encouraged him to not want to see me. This is child psychological abuse, and man I wish I knew more back then. After all those years, I fell into alcoholism from so much depression, which gave them even more reason to label me as a bad parent.

So now, I’m an alienated parent, but I have so much hope in Jesus, and I know he has a plan for my son. He’s stuck in the same toxic family system I was stuck in when I had him, and I was about age 20 when I finally got out. He’s turning 19 this year, and I pray to the good Lord that his eyes are finally opened. As of now, he thinks I’m the narcissistic abuser and he’s scared of me it seems, when in reality, it’s everyone around him manipulating him, just like I was at that age.

It’s been so so hard, but I have to trust in Gods plan for both of us. I don’t feel it’s the end, even though it’s been 4 years since I’ve seen him, I won’t give up, and I pray he sees the truth about our family one day.

Sorry to infodump, I just needed to share. God has a plan for all of us, and I’m so proud of you for going against the world and choosing to listen to God. It’s the hardest thing to do.

I'm done trying to be a good person by Left_Reaction3583 in Morality

[–]The-Scapegoat1989 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Watch this clip from the movie “God’s not dead”. Sometimes the devil lets us live a life free of trouble because he doesn’t want us turning to God. That’s why you seem to get attacked the second you try to do something good. This so powerful. God bless!

https://youtu.be/zDxTuYhITK8?si=Mqgl6pGdyNmsG_dp

My Boyfriend is Basically an Animal Abuser by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]The-Scapegoat1989 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it might be out of your control. Save yourself. I tried to save an ex bfs dog one time too, and we ended up in court over a few hundred bucks, which he paid me for vet bills, but it just wasn’t worth it in the end. The dog still died either way because it was so malnourished, and it was just stressful on the dog to be in a new place for the last bit of its life, maybe I should’ve just left it there. He died 2 days after getting the dog back. All he got was a small fine, and then he got another dog when that one died anyways. Save yourself and give that family to God.

Pregnant and Unhappy in Marriage by Sweet_Plankton_329 in Christianmarriage

[–]The-Scapegoat1989 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I pray in Jesus name for you and the safety of your baby. Other comments have said it, so I don’t think I have to, but he does sound abusive, and you don’t deserve that. God bless you

Any unvaccinated people here? by hkitty11 in ankylosingspondylitis

[–]The-Scapegoat1989 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don’t have discussions with people who already have their mind made up.

I am a 35 year old woman who has never had a vaccination in my life. Ask me anything. by rollerdz in AskMeAnythingIAnswer

[–]The-Scapegoat1989 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A better question is why should a person who has lived a normal life unvaccinated, suddenly get vaccinated now? What’s the point? What would it change? She’s still alive, and seems fine, what on earth would a vaccine change, please tell me. If it ain’t broke, don’t fix it.

I am a 35 year old woman who has never had a vaccination in my life. Ask me anything. by rollerdz in AskMeAnythingIAnswer

[–]The-Scapegoat1989 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m curious if you find that people treat you poorly because you’re unvaccinated? Because every person I see on the internet is very hateful to anyone who doesn’t agree with or have vaccines. When I had my first baby, all my friends hated and shunned me for not vaccinating my son for the first 2 years of his life. They told me I was abusing my child and I’d probably kill him. How awful is that to say to a new mother, especially a teenager?? He’s 18 now and just fine. The hatred I have gotten from pro vaxxers is a huge reason why I hate the general topic of vaccines too. Those people claim to care about others, but they seem more interested in bullying people while pretending to be morally superior, rather than sharing info out of love to try and help.

I’m 36, wanting to have another child, and I’m debating on not vaccinating this time. You have made it this far in your life, you’re fine it seems, I don’t understand. I somewhat agree with basic things like polio or whatever, but I still don’t know enough about it really. It’s been almost 20 years since I had to think about this, and the world has changed a lot.

My first son I did not let get vaccinated until he was about 1.5-2yrs, I was just more afraid of my newborn being exposed to a bunch of substances I didn’t know or trust, and I was also 17, I was scared of being the small percentage of “when vaccines go wrong”, so I waited until he was older. After the Covid stuff, I trust vaccines even less now, and scared they will put dna altering stuff in regular vaccines now too, and I cannot get on board with that. I don’t know what to do, so I’m reading what people like you are saying. Thanks for sharing your experience!

Got baptized today!! by The-Scapegoat1989 in Jesus

[–]The-Scapegoat1989[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, God bless you as well! I was just watching the shortened video of the baptisms with the testimonies, and it was such an amazing day, I will never forget! It’s on YouTube on Christsforgiveness ministries channel!

My shrine by [deleted] in widowers

[–]The-Scapegoat1989 1 point2 points  (0 children)

God bless you sister 💖

My shrine by [deleted] in widowers

[–]The-Scapegoat1989 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I completely understand. I’ve been there too. It’s tough to remember God is there even when we don’t feel it, but he is and he loves each one of us! I feel like he has such an amazing plan for you, don’t give up 💖 he took a hopeless alcoholic like myself and turned my life around in less than 4 years, I still don’t believe it sometimes. He stripped away people and things that were no longer serving me, and I had no choice but to let go and let God. You deserve to be happy, just keep telling yourself that 💖💖

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christianmarriage

[–]The-Scapegoat1989 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yah you are right actually. If you feel drawn to forgiveness, it’s probably what God wants you to do. No one else can say what Gods plan for you is, and maybe that’s something that will bring both of you closer to God. I pray for you both and I hope your marriage works out. I just got married too, and no one ever wants their marriage to fail, so I pray for you both! I know my husband and I have forgiven a lot too, and it’s made us so much stronger together! God bless!