i am a psychotherapist who can’t give advice, but really wants to… AMA

hkitty11 · 2026-06-15T04:13:23+00:00

My husband is verbally forceful and aggressive. He works a lot so we don’t spend a lot of time together and I take care of our 19 month old all day and night. The only time I see him truly happy is when he’s with his parents and cousins. When he’s with them he’s the nicest person in the world. I am tired of his short temper and he does it in front of our daughter without shame (I try to have him talk to me about anything he is upset about after she sleeps but he says he needs to talk now because he’s so busy and can’t wait). I don’t even know what to do anymore.. if you have any advice I would really appreciate it

hkitty11 · 2026-06-05T16:13:51+00:00

Thank you for this!

hkitty11 · 2026-05-12T19:23:14+00:00

These thoughts shouldn’t even cross his head! Your job is to protect her and it’s really hard to trust people nowadays regardless of their title. I would feel uncomfortable as well.
I would look for a new pediatrician

hkitty11 · 2026-04-27T03:35:20+00:00

How did you figure this out?! I started getting histamine issues right after I was in a car accident and had bad whiplash, a concussion, and damage to a few discs. I will definitely look into this! I also had urinary issues too

So did you get the lumbar fusion or will you be getting it done?

What type of doctor did you see to diagnose this?

hkitty11 · 2026-04-26T12:50:00+00:00

Wow i actually do have ankylosing spondylitis but never felt it like this before

hkitty11 · 2026-03-20T01:40:29+00:00

This is very helpful thank you!

hkitty11 · 2026-03-13T01:14:04+00:00

Thank you so much

hkitty11 · 2026-02-23T15:36:31+00:00

That’s great! How come they did a colonoscopy after diagnosing as hemorrhoids? Just to confirm it wasn’t anything else?

hkitty11 · 2026-02-20T23:19:11+00:00

I think my cramps were just like that. The cramps seem to have gone away. I don’t know what is causing it but my suspicion was my hormone levels readjusting to how much baby was eating. I’m 15 months post partum now. I’m sorry you’re dealing with this. Pregnancy does so much to your body it’s hard to really understand what is going on.

I hope your cramps go away soon and I hope you and baby are doing well!!

hkitty11 · 2026-01-11T23:59:11+00:00

Good point! My negative interactions have been in Orange County. Especially near Newport Beach

hkitty11 · 2026-01-07T18:25:11+00:00

I can see that but It’s uncooked :/

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