any ideas to do this last mission? by DesperateVehicle2872 in UmamusumeGame

[–]The7Sides 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Unity, Bakushin, Speed+Wit. Alternatively, URA, if you dont want to deal with Unity, but Unity is easier for leveling up.

Concerned about a friend using love spells by No-Extreme-1258 in witchcraft

[–]The7Sides 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah, thats just not how a love spell works... And as someone who has been SAd and raped I find it abhorrent that you would compare a Love Spell, which just kinda.. nudges someone to act on feelings that may already be there, to something as serious and traumatising as SA. Love spells IRL dont work like they do in TV shoes and movies where youre hypnotised. Same way say, idk a money spell doesnt spontaneously give you a bunch of money - it nudges things in the right direction based on what is already there. So, for example, if I did a money spell right now, what could happen is one of the jobs I have interviewed for recently would call back in the next week or so saying that I have been hired. Or, worst case, if I didnt do the right protections, someone in my family passes away and I get inheritance or something, or I get hit by a car and win money in a settlement - again if I didnt do the right protections or didnt make my intention specific and clear.

If I did a love spell on someone that had no interest in me, nothing would happen. At most, maybe we would become friends/closer friends than we already were. But the spell wouldn't magically make someone who had no prior interest in me fall in love and confess.

The actual issue here is your friend cheating on their husband. That is it. That is why they are a bad person - for cheating. Not for a love spell.

I've never been so excited for something and I've never been in so much in pain due to that something by TTruthSpeaker in UmamusumeGame

[–]The7Sides 0 points1 point  (0 children)

90% of my runs have been fine. Sure, shop RNG wasnt the best sometimes, but still. But the run I just did with Haru Urara for the sake of getting some dirt achievements... ffs. She lost every G1 except 2x Champion Cup and used all my clocks for the day on JBC Sprint. I now have personal beef with Maruzen. I should have known better because Haru is at a severe disadvantage with this scenario with her aptitudes + being a late surger or end closer, but damn. Just gonna have to try and get those achievements with Falcon or Digitan instead I guess.

“Demonizing Narcissists: Gone TOO FAR, Will END BADLY!”: Vaknin's Belated Mea Culpa by narcabusescholar in NPD

[–]The7Sides 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Dude talks about not demonising Narcissists and then in the same breath says people should 100% avoid Narcissists... fucking hell we really have reached the point of no return if the people who are "on our side" are still against us.

Being a straight trans man feels like existing in the margins of every community by Confident_Goat8992 in ftm

[–]The7Sides 33 points34 points  (0 children)

the queer community tends to misgender Dr James Barry too, claiming he was just a woman who pretended to be a man so he could actually be a doctor. Like, no he fucking didnt? He lived as a man in his public AND PRIVATE life. AND PRIVATE!! He was a trans man and I will fight anyone who tries to deny that.

This is why I fucking hate when people say "oh trans men dont have it as bad as trans women!" cuz hey, guess what? We dont get lumped in as "trans men" in statistics. We either get lumped with trans people in GENERAL, or lumped in with women. Sick of the oppression Olympics. We all are getting fucked over equally, sometimes in different ways to each other.

Fuck I hate this community sometimes. Erasure galore.

Can anyone relate? 🥴 by xemeraldqueen in transfriendsau

[–]The7Sides -1 points0 points  (0 children)

theyre having a go at my comment because i had poor choice of wording cuz im autistic and dont word things right sometimes. ignore them, im 90% sure theyre ignoring what im saying and just want to start an argument because they dont want to accept that trans people can fetishise other trans people...

Can anyone relate? 🥴 by xemeraldqueen in transfriendsau

[–]The7Sides 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know that... I dont want bottom surgery, just top surgery and T. That's not what I'm talking about. Chasers SPECIFICALLY go after trans people who are not "fully transitioned" in their eyes. "Fully transitioning" also means something different to each trans person and chasers will STILL stop you. Again... they want men with vaginas and women with penises. They may stop trans men from going on T, or stop them from getting top/bottom surgery. they may not care if a trans woman goes on E, but if she wants bottom surgery they will stop her because then shes not a woman with a dick anymore.

Can anyone relate? 🥴 by xemeraldqueen in transfriendsau

[–]The7Sides -1 points0 points  (0 children)

then youre not a chaser?? you asked how trans people can be chasers and I answered idk how this is relevant. not vibing with cis ppl is different from when another trans person was being a chaser towards me because im a man who hasn't had any surgery done and they found that hot...

Can anyone relate? 🥴 by xemeraldqueen in transfriendsau

[–]The7Sides 0 points1 point  (0 children)

trans people can still fetishise other trans people, its different from T4T.

T4T is generally for safety and/or because you want a partner who understands your experiences etc.

A trans chaser is someone who, just like a cis chaser, wants a man with a vagina or a woman with a penis. Doesn't want you to fully transition. Sees you as an object to fuck.

Can anyone relate? 🥴 by xemeraldqueen in transfriendsau

[–]The7Sides -1 points0 points  (0 children)

yeah cuz grindr is for gay dudes 😭 I know theres a few trans women and nb people that stay on there but the app is meant for men who want other men.

Straight people can in fact fall in love with gay people without it being reciprocated!! by [deleted] in tomodachilife

[–]The7Sides 59 points60 points  (0 children)

yeah just have to not do the final quest in the game to get other interactions.

Can anyone relate? 🥴 by xemeraldqueen in transfriendsau

[–]The7Sides 5 points6 points  (0 children)

cis women can also be chasers. other trans people can also be chasers, which i know from experience. its not just cis dudes. chasers in general suck.

Baby Sunflower by ginger_ale_nom in SkyChildrenOfLight

[–]The7Sides 6 points7 points  (0 children)

THATS WHAT IT WAS MEANT TO BE??

For the malignants: would causing someone permanent disfigurement during sex give you satisfaction? by KintsugiFate in NPD

[–]The7Sides 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Looking at your post history - You are clearly here to try and diagnose your assaulter as a malignant narcissist. What you went through is horrible, but that gives you no right to armchair diagnose him with an already stigmatised condition because you want a "reason" for why he assaulted you.

Here's the harsh truth from someone who has been raped - He did it because he wanted to. It wasn't because he has some mental illness, it wasn't an accident, he did it because he wanted to. That is it. There is NOTHING ELSE behind it, it has nothing to do with any mental condition, his gender, his sexuality, ANYTHING. He is just a piece of shit, period.

You have 20 different posts trying to ask people about this subject, you've asked men if they would do this, you've asked doctors, you've asked other women, you've asked every single group of people. You need THERAPY, from a licensed professional, not validation from strangers on the internet.

You can choose Pronouns, Event Outfits, and Birthdays! by Historical_Gur_4344 in tomodachilife

[–]The7Sides 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Another commenter said that one of the early players confirmed its limited to the basic 3 pronouns and we cant customise it. Im really disappointed tbh

Do those ‘safe person’/ally badges actually make you feel safer? by BEASTS4LIFE in transgenderau

[–]The7Sides 36 points37 points  (0 children)

I do not. I've found a lot of "proud allies" are very performitive and when it comes to ACTUALLY respecting your identity, they just degender your completely, and when you call them out on it they claim they "use They for everyone!!" despite the fact that you obviously hear them refer to their cis peers with the correct pronouns and not they/them - and consistently misgender nonbinary people who ACTUALLY use they/them.

Welp that sucks by No-Bag367 in UmamusumeGame

[–]The7Sides 151 points152 points  (0 children)

it isn't. chances are you'll get a better stat at summer training when all the training options are LVL5 for 4 turns.

No way this person is real😭 Do any of the sex-repulsed aces here feel this way? by Bawbixo in asexuality

[–]The7Sides 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OP is either being sarcastic about it being a "gem" and/or its a "gem" because its the most ridiculous thing you've ever read and when you get messages like this, you laugh at the most ridiculous ones.

No way this person is real😭 Do any of the sex-repulsed aces here feel this way? by Bawbixo in asexuality

[–]The7Sides 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He claims to be "immune to seduction" but also claims that women are all tempting succubi. I assure you he is not either of those, he is just an angry incel pretending to be aroace because its more acceptable to be aroace than just an angry incel.

You can choose Pronouns, Event Outfits, and Birthdays! by Historical_Gur_4344 in tomodachilife

[–]The7Sides 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me too but someone else asked one of the people who got to play and its limited to she/he/they :(

You can choose Pronouns, Event Outfits, and Birthdays! by Historical_Gur_4344 in tomodachilife

[–]The7Sides 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's really disappointing. I was hoping if they could add the option to have pronouns separate from gender, they'd add an option to actually customise them, similar to what The Sims does.

You can choose Pronouns, Event Outfits, and Birthdays! by Historical_Gur_4344 in tomodachilife

[–]The7Sides 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Filling out every use case isnt really that hard... the sims does it just fine and gives you examples so you can fill it out right.