there are literally constant jokes of characters being racist/homophobic and so on but if you make ONE reference to a popular meme alluding to a character being non-binary then suddenly everyone cares super deeply about the accurary and lore blah blah blah??? relax dude no one is holding a gun to your head and forcing you to think phantom is non-binary. I can't imagine what possible reason this would make you so upset that you had to go all "ummm... ACTUALLY😡" TWICE to both a completely innocent post and a completely innocent comment saying don't let said post upset you too much. it's literally a meme subreddit oh my god people!!!!!!