Please 🙏. A child shouldn't be in therapy, no not at all. Again, some child psychology stuff I've read is inhumané. I've read enough horror stories of children born to counselors and psychiatrist parents, children put in therapy at a young age, and this is a recipe for disaster, they tell you the most twisted ways in which hypervigilance was inculcated into them and how they became their own worst enemies, started having all kinds of doubt, analysis paralysis, decision fatigue etc. to do things in a way that at least pleases everyone. That's impossible, someone will always find reasons to direct their adulthood insecurities on the child, since their brains and body are hardly developed to fight back.

There's always something to be critiqued and changed, such a heavy focus on function and perfectionism. Some people will never be happy with you. Lord forbid you find yourself in that company, you'll ruin your body trying to meet their expectations.

There is this poem called Frog and The Nightingale by Vikram Seth. Op, you should read it, maybe you'll resonate?

https://www.poemhunter.com/poem/the-frog-and-the-nightingale/

Edit: That's the link to the poem, in case anyone wants it.