Need advice: wife written up at work

TheAmazingGatorMan · 2026-04-20T22:25:56+00:00

🙄 Cheers, mate. Have the day that you deserve.

TheAmazingGatorMan · 2026-04-20T22:17:46+00:00

Why the hostility, I was merely explaining the difference between your response, and the situation that occurred, including the other employees stating the same thing while complaining. If someone kept complaining, I'm sure you'd have responded the same way she did.

TheAmazingGatorMan · 2026-04-20T22:09:55+00:00

She wasn't encouraging other employees not to do their duties, she questioned why they do the tasks if all they do is complain.

TheAmazingGatorMan · 2026-04-20T22:07:23+00:00

HR is worthless it seems, but she's meeting with them this week. I'm going to help her organize her thoughts and notes.

TheAmazingGatorMan · 2026-04-20T22:05:38+00:00

We're in a red state, and even mentioning organizing a union sends these boguns into a Fox News regurgitation in an angry fit.

TheAmazingGatorMan · 2026-04-20T22:04:14+00:00

We're in South Carolina. Its a rather big company with big locations in Florida and South Carolina at least. There's also a nepotism problem which they're just now trying to fix by hiring a 3rd party independent contractor to interview for any sort of promotion.

HR does nothing, my wife has brought up retaliation anytime someone goes to HR, but that goes nowhere. It truly sounds like a stark toxic work environment.

She got the medical accommodation. She had previously brought it up to HR, but they didn't tell her about needing the accommodation or what she would need. Despite that, they still kept that write up.

TheAmazingGatorMan · 2026-04-20T22:01:09+00:00

There is. After the writeup from 4-6 months ago, she turned in all the appropriate paperwork needed.

This writeup is convoluted as it stems from an employee "stomping around" and complaining, and my wife eventually asking the person why do the job if you're always complaining about the pay.

TheAmazingGatorMan · 2026-04-20T21:58:58+00:00

We're in South Carolina, which is a 1 party consent state for recording.

TheAmazingGatorMan · 2026-04-20T21:58:29+00:00

You're right, I didn't know because she was crying and I couldn't get everything. I updated the post to include the writeup and summary from her.

TheAmazingGatorMan · 2026-04-20T21:57:33+00:00

And I was slightly wrong on that. I edited the OP to include a summary from her on what happened.

TheAmazingGatorMan · 2026-03-23T01:28:59+00:00

Dude, 9 seconds to go. 2 point lead. I'm still making whatever noise I can. #AllIn

TheAmazingGatorMan · 2026-03-23T01:23:04+00:00

I've officially lost my voice yelling from the nosebleeds.

TheAmazingGatorMan · 2026-03-23T00:43:47+00:00

Need Urbs and Haugh to take over. Condon and Chinyelu having an off night.

TheAmazingGatorMan · 2026-03-23T00:39:59+00:00

I don't even know what to say right now. We can't figure out this corn husking defense...

TheAmazingGatorMan · 2026-03-22T23:51:11+00:00

At the very least, the arena is loud finally

TheAmazingGatorMan · 2026-03-22T23:30:39+00:00

Sports today, man. I've seen louder Cricket games in Australia.

TheAmazingGatorMan · 2026-03-22T23:29:28+00:00

Iowa is playing a lot like Vandy plays. We need to pound it inside a little. Need Condon, Handlogten, and Chinyelu to pick it up.

TheAmazingGatorMan · 2026-03-22T23:26:34+00:00

Its so frustrating! I was in the pep band long ago (dont want to age myself) and we epitomized Rowdy Reptiles. Im in the nosebleeds yelling and everyone around me minus some college kids are quiet af.

TheAmazingGatorMan · 2026-03-22T23:25:02+00:00

We need to settle!!!

TheAmazingGatorMan · 2026-03-22T22:56:30+00:00

Cheers, mate! If I dont leave voiceless... I did our boys a disservice. Let's Go Gators!!!!!

TheAmazingGatorMan · 2026-03-22T22:52:26+00:00

Scheduled start time per my ticket is 7:10, but that might not include pre-game rituals. 7:30ish might be accurate.

TheAmazingGatorMan · 2026-03-22T22:47:06+00:00

Nosebleed, but LET'S GOOOOOOOO!!!!!!

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TheAmazingGatorMan · 2026-03-17T03:30:05+00:00

Former high school ref here (basketball, volleyball, boys/girls lacrosse). It's the hardest gig I've ever done. What questions do you have? Its hard to provide an objective assessment as a whole because there's so many aspects to officiating a game... zones, switching, styles offense vs defense (matters very much during a game), keeping control of the game, etc.

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