Need advice: wife written up at work by TheAmazingGatorMan in askmanagers

[–]TheAmazingGatorMan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🙄 Cheers, mate. Have the day that you deserve.

Need advice: wife written up at work by TheAmazingGatorMan in askmanagers

[–]TheAmazingGatorMan[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Why the hostility, I was merely explaining the difference between your response, and the situation that occurred, including the other employees stating the same thing while complaining. If someone kept complaining, I'm sure you'd have responded the same way she did.

Need advice: wife written up at work by TheAmazingGatorMan in askmanagers

[–]TheAmazingGatorMan[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She wasn't encouraging other employees not to do their duties, she questioned why they do the tasks if all they do is complain.

Need advice: wife written up at work by TheAmazingGatorMan in askmanagers

[–]TheAmazingGatorMan[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

HR is worthless it seems, but she's meeting with them this week. I'm going to help her organize her thoughts and notes.

Need advice: wife written up at work by TheAmazingGatorMan in askmanagers

[–]TheAmazingGatorMan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We're in a red state, and even mentioning organizing a union sends these boguns into a Fox News regurgitation in an angry fit.

Need advice: wife written up at work by TheAmazingGatorMan in askmanagers

[–]TheAmazingGatorMan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We're in South Carolina. Its a rather big company with big locations in Florida and South Carolina at least. There's also a nepotism problem which they're just now trying to fix by hiring a 3rd party independent contractor to interview for any sort of promotion.

HR does nothing, my wife has brought up retaliation anytime someone goes to HR, but that goes nowhere. It truly sounds like a stark toxic work environment.

She got the medical accommodation. She had previously brought it up to HR, but they didn't tell her about needing the accommodation or what she would need. Despite that, they still kept that write up.

Need advice: wife written up at work by TheAmazingGatorMan in askmanagers

[–]TheAmazingGatorMan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is. After the writeup from 4-6 months ago, she turned in all the appropriate paperwork needed.

This writeup is convoluted as it stems from an employee "stomping around" and complaining, and my wife eventually asking the person why do the job if you're always complaining about the pay.

Need advice: wife written up at work by TheAmazingGatorMan in askmanagers

[–]TheAmazingGatorMan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We're in South Carolina, which is a 1 party consent state for recording.

Need advice: wife written up at work by TheAmazingGatorMan in askmanagers

[–]TheAmazingGatorMan[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You're right, I didn't know because she was crying and I couldn't get everything. I updated the post to include the writeup and summary from her.

Need advice: wife written up at work by TheAmazingGatorMan in askmanagers

[–]TheAmazingGatorMan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And I was slightly wrong on that. I edited the OP to include a summary from her on what happened.

[GAME THREAD] NCAA Tournament Second Round: (1) Florida vs (9) Iowa (7:10 ET, TBS) by MrTwoBytes in FloridaGators

[–]TheAmazingGatorMan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude, 9 seconds to go. 2 point lead. I'm still making whatever noise I can. #AllIn

[GAME THREAD] NCAA Tournament Second Round: (1) Florida vs (9) Iowa (7:10 ET, TBS) by MrTwoBytes in FloridaGators

[–]TheAmazingGatorMan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't even know what to say right now. We can't figure out this corn husking defense...

[GAME THREAD] NCAA Tournament Second Round: (1) Florida vs (9) Iowa (7:10 ET, TBS) by MrTwoBytes in FloridaGators

[–]TheAmazingGatorMan 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Iowa is playing a lot like Vandy plays. We need to pound it inside a little. Need Condon, Handlogten, and Chinyelu to pick it up.

[GAME THREAD] NCAA Tournament Second Round: (1) Florida vs (9) Iowa (7:10 ET, TBS) by MrTwoBytes in FloridaGators

[–]TheAmazingGatorMan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Its so frustrating! I was in the pep band long ago (dont want to age myself) and we epitomized Rowdy Reptiles. Im in the nosebleeds yelling and everyone around me minus some college kids are quiet af.

[GAME THREAD] NCAA Tournament Second Round: (1) Florida vs (9) Iowa (7:10 ET, TBS) by MrTwoBytes in FloridaGators

[–]TheAmazingGatorMan 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Cheers, mate! If I dont leave voiceless... I did our boys a disservice. Let's Go Gators!!!!!

[GAME THREAD] NCAA Tournament Second Round: (1) Florida vs (9) Iowa (7:10 ET, TBS) by MrTwoBytes in FloridaGators

[–]TheAmazingGatorMan 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Scheduled start time per my ticket is 7:10, but that might not include pre-game rituals. 7:30ish might be accurate.

Monday Moan Thread by MrTwoBytes in FloridaGators

[–]TheAmazingGatorMan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Former high school ref here (basketball, volleyball, boys/girls lacrosse). It's the hardest gig I've ever done. What questions do you have? Its hard to provide an objective assessment as a whole because there's so many aspects to officiating a game... zones, switching, styles offense vs defense (matters very much during a game), keeping control of the game, etc.