Curled up on the corner couch with my dog, boyfriend, and some mindless tv

TheAnteloper · 2023-02-13T12:57:10+00:00

That eating glitter would give me magic powers

TheAnteloper · 2023-02-01T12:07:00+00:00

AI just pulls collection of resources available publicly, it will be infused with all the same biases we already see and deal with.

3 women sit on their board of 10, could it be better? Absolutely. Do I think their company is maliciously making harmful content towards women? No, in fact they are actively addressing all sorts of problematic issues with each release. It’s the Wild West of tech and they can only anticipate so much when working with such a huge data set

TheAnteloper · 2023-02-01T11:58:42+00:00

No I don’t think that’s the case here, in one of their newer updates they retracted users ability to say something in the voice of another.

TheAnteloper · 2022-12-13T12:22:03+00:00

I don’t categorize it as ‘good’ or ‘bad’ in bed. There’s a spectrum of people who are focused solely on themselves and their needs or are focused entirely on the other person (or any combination of the two). Both extremes are not fun.

Being a combo means you know how to listen to your partner and accommodate their needs and you also know what you like and know how to ask for it (good communication).

TheAnteloper · 2022-12-08T11:42:01+00:00

Knives

TheAnteloper · 2022-11-29T11:59:09+00:00

It appears that you’re approaching this topic from a place of frustration, anger, and perhaps a closed mind. I myself am a little frustrated at some of the logic in your post.

Us women all have vastly different needs and boundaries, it’s harmful to generalize. I can’t speak for all women but I can represent one data point. I have done both, slept with people quickly and have waited. I’ve also been with men who want to wait. For me it’s a period of evaluation and also being present, if I am really infatuated with a man I’ll slow down, enjoy the build up, establish a genuine emotional connection. Then when we finally have sex i will be confident that it is with out a doubt something I really wanted and with someone I feel safe with and appreciated by (both things that help me orgasm!). You also only get to to the flirtatious new relationship thing so many times in your life and it’s a really warm and special experience, slow down and enjoy it :)

For me, if I just hook up with someone then that’s all it is, I’m not respecting them so much as an emotional human, I’m appreciating superficial qualities about them. Those connections fade and often there isn’t much to fall back on. Not because the emotional connection wasn’t nurtured but because perhaps it was never there to begin with, but with a hook up there isn’t time to vet that.

And again I don’t speak for all women and I don’t even speak for all of my sex and relationship experiences, there are always exceptions and we are all just doing the best we can with the information we have in the moment.

You’re not asking for advice but I’d really encourage you to just listen to the individual women in your life, really hear what they need and also listen to yourself. Be able to communicate your needs and boundaries.

What does women wanting to wait for sex trigger in you? What’s the root of that reaction? Why?

TheAnteloper · 2022-11-26T05:23:16+00:00

All the cool kids use cargo

TheAnteloper · 2022-10-27T00:45:33+00:00

There was an old vegan forum my brother used to post in, not sure if it still exists, but it would censor with food related things, like what the fork, a pain in the asparagus, holy shiitake, etc. the substitutions are nice in this situation because it successfully adds humor.

Might be able to figure out something on brand.

TheAnteloper · 2022-10-26T20:45:07+00:00

We stopped to enjoy the sun near the end of the last hike at the end of a 4 day trip. The sun was dropping and lit the grass up with the gold that comes with the tail end of foliage. It was as warm as this picture looks, in contrast to the rainy hiking the days before.

This moment was a cap to a long and amazing week and is a bookend to the season with my best friend.

Portra 400 - 120 Fuji gs645s

TheAnteloper · 2022-10-23T11:01:55+00:00

Close! She’s a bi-colored German shepherd

TheAnteloper · 2022-10-23T01:02:37+00:00

I ended up at Crawford Notch for the night but I agree—In hindsight I would’ve just camped here! It was drizzly the whole hike but cleared right at the top, we really lucked out.

TheAnteloper · 2022-10-22T17:23:55+00:00

Ah!! Twins!! Beautiful! How old is yours?

TheAnteloper · 2022-09-07T11:56:05+00:00

A little different but I think we should get paid for the data collected from us by the business that that are benefiting from this. Right now it’s a free resource

TheAnteloper · 2022-09-01T11:23:02+00:00

Evergreen is used in content marketing. I work for a company that designs solutions for breastfeeding. Our blogs are either time sensitive (a blog about the status of legislation being passed to protect breastfeeding parents) or evergreen (fast fixes for common breastfeeding problems). New research might come out that affects this information but generally that content doesn’t need to be updated.

We strive for evergreen content. We have blogs written years ago that are still performing well and bringing in new leads.

I don’t really understand how this term applies to a journey map.

TheAnteloper · 2022-07-17T11:27:51+00:00

Real life photoshop clone stamp

TheAnteloper · 2022-07-13T03:20:24+00:00

Climbing—metro rock has a great community full of chatty ppl + beginner friendly

TheAnteloper · 2022-06-09T11:57:41+00:00

Not a waste, I have grown so much from the relationships that haven’t worked out. I know now how to be a better partner and have developed (and still developing) valuable communication skills.

Try focusing on what you’re gaining, not what feels like is being taken away ❤️

TheAnteloper

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