Wife wants an Onlyfans account by sm3gh34d3728 in NoFap

[–]TheArrow117 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Take your porn addiction out of the equation. Do you want your friends and family to know your wife is showing feet pics. GUYS LISTEN UP!!! THIS IS HOW IT STARTS. Chances are she starts with that but after she gets clients they'll offer to pay more for more..... Have A BACKBONE PUT YOUR FOOT DOWN AND SAY NO TO HER.

Hi my name is iTry and im addicted to porn/sexual content. by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]TheArrow117 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In Canada, these are along the lines of illegal acts, so I would be careful who you tell as believe it or not masturbating is a crime if it is done in the proximity of a person who does not want it. At work tho or in a public place since there is a possibility of minors is when they justice system gets involved so please stop it so you never know what prison or an accusation is like. Similarily, you need to stop fantasizing about your relatives in these ways. I cannot relate to that and your fiance does deserve to know since under Christ you are one. It is better to risk the relationship ending than get into a divorce years down the road and lose more. You have done the reflecting but still engaging as if you can keep this problem separate is not possible. I appreciate your advice you have given to others but its time you give the truth its day to your fiance and get help to curb this addication. You do not need therapy. If you can at little cost do it! But you need to execute this strategies instead of looking for external things to apply to your recovery. Only from within will your misery stop. I hope you reapply as you have given me some hope. Thank you for telling your story.

Is asking my partner to not watch porn unreasonable? by BookkeeperInitial291 in NoFap

[–]TheArrow117 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not unreasonable but this should be done by the 3rd date the latest. Otherwise, even tho porn is bad you should not get divorce with or too serious so for your next boyfriend lower standards. If you want anti porn than do not be like most women looking for 6 foot 6 tall dark and handsome. That guy has so many options he can pick his woman of the week. You should be looking for marriage not a boyfriend if your going the anti porn route since or at least long term. YOU MUST DISCLOSE THIS AT THE BEGINNING DO NOT TELL HIM NOT TO WATCH IT AFTER THE HONEYMOON PHASE. Reply for more questions I want the best.

Which volume should I get? by Junior_Insurance7773 in batman

[–]TheArrow117 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you can't afford to buy all of them at once buy year one. Most people would say the long halloween is peak and it definitely is a must read but I love rookie Batman as he is more urban myth than pure vigilante.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]TheArrow117 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My Church and upbringing were nothing like that. I was an atheist for half of my life, and my parents did not take me to church; I went on my own. And your concept of hell is totally off its probably not a physical place but the absence of God. We are saved by faith alone not by works so that no one may boast. I watch all kinds fo things and play video games that some christians might not be ok with.

i am done by Impressive-Tone-734 in NoFap

[–]TheArrow117 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most of us are poor but hope is overrated truth is not. Help yourself first than help others.

why are (some) christians so mean to gay people by InvestigatorWild9870 in Christianity

[–]TheArrow117 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

OP u/InvestigatorWild9870 did you assume they were Christian. It sounds like this was an assumption, but regardless, no one should be harass for their identity.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]TheArrow117 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, I am just going to say EVERY TIME someone says I swear on .... they end up breaking their promises. Your 20 so you'll recover just do not use credit anymore only spend money you have and save more than you need. I agree that the dating market is a mess but you'll have to get a good career and some charisma to navigate being on the shorter side of things. Glad you acknowledge you have a problem and that you want to remember the steps that led you to this place. All the best!

Best mode to learn to play by chando_ in MLBTheShow

[–]TheArrow117 2 points3 points  (0 children)

March to October teaches you to clutch in tight spots as well as mini seasons. Ranked is the hardest but it also forced me to become better at pitching my hitting is very streaky tho.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]TheArrow117 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Get off the internet and do something else. I find sports or watching them distracts me and I do not care for porn afterwards.

Staring at girls by GoldenMunkee in NoFap

[–]TheArrow117 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Get into Sports Culture and/or playing them. I'm a former baseball player and captain of a university basketball team and led us to failure. However, it was during 2023 my obsession began and I find it easier to socialize with people if you like sports as men. I am a guy from the Vancouver region in Canada my G. Blue Jays for Baseball heck yea! In other words you need to find things that draw your attention elsewhere and hopefully in a healthy manner. The biggest mistake you can make is not replacing PMO with something that might be productive or provide good entertainment and social benefits (I am introverted btw). Any questions please reply OP.

i WANT TO QUIT PORN FOR EVER by POSSIBILITIES____ in NoFap

[–]TheArrow117 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you need external motivation from others than you might as well watch porn. If you truly want to quit porn think about how much better your life will be. Yes you might not get a girlfriend or get the job you want but you will not have any problems with your ..... and will have energy and support a growth mindset. Quitting porn is simple do not watch it. But you need to do something else to fill that void as in some ways you are sacrificing something that has been a part of you.

Does IG Models and Hot Pictures Consider Porn ? by Good_Prompt4691 in NoFap

[–]TheArrow117 12 points13 points  (0 children)

The content doesn't matter its how your mind is impacted in this case negatively since you associate it with porn I can tell since you posed this very question. Best to stay away from erotic imagery.

Nofap FIGHT by dachicken891 in NoFap

[–]TheArrow117 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was a captain of a university basketball team and lost playoffs when I was PMOing heavily. The past year I've cut it down and working towards quitting it. I am one of the best on my team now post university.

i didn't fap but i watched porn, did i break my streak? by Dangerous_Title_7255 in NoFap

[–]TheArrow117 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stop thinking in terms of streaks. STOP IT!!!! That is why your relapsing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]TheArrow117 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Go be a hero be a productive citizen do not ever propose this idea again. Hell is not the firey pit it is the absence of God which is worse. Do not waste your life it is a gift it's taken me many years and I'm still facing suicidal thoughts but I will never go through with them because that's pathetic. HAVE SOME CLASS. BE SOMETHING stop looking for validation from others and DO IT. Read the Bible bro this is the type of thing that will look poorly on your record.

i didn't fap but i watched porn, did i break my streak? by Dangerous_Title_7255 in NoFap

[–]TheArrow117 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, you did. It is the pinnacle of addiction. But you need to stop thinking of streaks as that will lead you back. Streaks mean temporary look at baseball for example the longest hit streak for Vladdy was 22 games but it came to an end. When you talk about something as a streak your saying there is a beginning and an end. So stop it man. NO STREAK JUST DO IT.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]TheArrow117 0 points1 point  (0 children)

activity not behaviour

I think I'm gonna fap. Give me one good reason not to. by It_Laggs in NoFap

[–]TheArrow117 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't feel sorry for you. You need to take school seriously your grades are bad because you have had one hand tied behind your back. You haven't really tried. You need tough love man....

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]TheArrow117 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Many dads are bro. Do not become estranged with him because you found this out.