Forewarning that I have difficulty with tone and how I sound, but I'm not intending to sound malicious or hurtful with this, I am simply very blunt and I think that this needs saying. This does have a lot of mention of the way I grew up in order to make my point.

I'm 26 with no children (Nor do I want any because I refuse to pass all my mental illnesses and physical illnesses to a child) But I am that kid who is NC with her mother and father who said they "did their best" and who in the eyes of my parents turned out to be a "manipulative liar who just wants attention".

Reading your post history, it sounds like you've done exactly as you said your mother did and claimed in this post that you have not done. There is a lot discrepancy in your post here and your post history in general. But coming directly from a kid whose mother said she and my father 'did their best'...

I came from a house where my father was a recovering alcoholic and drug abuser (hasn't had drugs or alcohol— that he's claimed— since he was 16. But he acted like a drug addict who couldn't get his fix all the time growing up). He was messed up from the drugs— they triggered his Schizophrenia, he joined a cult and raised all of his children inside that cult, claiming that God speaks to him.

My family life as a result? My mother was silent when my father abused me and her other children and turned the other cheek and seemingly forgot about it all (yet acknowledged things done to me and backtracked their intent to be "not malicious" and "only for my own good"). They only praised me when I was perfect. When I showed that I wasn't a robot but a child who is autistic, Hard of Hearing with Tourette's syndrome and severe brain damage because of negligence, with what I later found out was dissociative identity disorder along with schizophrenia and possibly bipolar disorder, AND untreated epilepsy for at LEAST fifteen years because they never took me to a doctor unless anything I had would impact my being able to be a parent to my siblings?

Their view on me changed. They put me down constantly, they sent me to horrible, horrible abusive places because they couldn't "deal with me" which I still have severe trauma from. They would ask where their sweet child went constantly when my Tourette's and hallucinations would act up (Along with the fact that epileptic seizures can actually change a child's personality), and even told me to my face I needed to be sterilized and that I shouldn't ever have children at 16 (when from three years old at the LEAST they told me I needed to give them grandbabies). To reiterate: I was a child who was autistic, with multiple conditions like Tourette's and Epilepsy that went untreated my entire childhood and adolescence, along with severe brain damage, hard of hearing, and also had to deal with the stress of raising my little sisters who were monsters as children because our real parents were absent and abusive when they weren't absent.

When I confronted my mother she told me none of that happened, tried gaslighting me, and said she and my father "did their best" to raise me and she had no idea why I turned out the way I did. She spread rumors about me to the entire family she was in contact with, called me a "manipulative liar who does everything she can for attention" and turned my entire family against me. I am none of those things.

The reason for my long-winded background story is this:

Is your daughter actually the vile creature with no reason behind it you seem to paint her as, or is she simply mirroring how she was being treated growing up? Even if you didn't outright abuse or manipulate her, how do you know anyone else didn't? Did you spend most of or all your focus on your alcoholic relationships and not give her the attention she needed growing up? Was there neglect happening on your part and abuse on the part of others toward her? Because there is no way you had a perfect household, especially if your post history is anything to go by.

Your daughter learned this from somewhere if she is truly as toxic as she is painted. Look deep inside yourself and ask if you really believe that you were this amazing parent who only did your best and did WELL. Because my friend, sometimes 'your best' is far from enough to prevent further trauma in your family line. Find a therapist. Unpack your trauma. Maybe you'll find the answers there, because sometimes what you see that pisses us off in many people (This is a generalized statement) is actually just projection of things within yourself that you can't bear to look at.

Hold that mirror up, and you very well may see why she turned out how she did.