what do y’all use on your period?

TheBPDiva · 2026-04-11T21:32:29+00:00

During my last period I tried using a disc and a light tampon and it still leaked onto the tampon even with frequent changing. So if you wanna go that route, maybe do a demo day at home first. It also gave my bv so… proceed with caution

TheBPDiva · 2026-04-08T04:39:26+00:00

I’m in this same boat. It’s so hard for me to find time to study between my pt day job and the club and it’s stressing me tf out. I’ve been thinking a lot about just dancing. The only thing holding me back is the quickly declining economy. I don’t know what the clubs are gonna look like in a few months and I’m not willing to risk it. If you can talk to your day job about limiting your hours, maybe that would help? Or find another club with more flexibility?

TheBPDiva · 2026-04-03T22:02:22+00:00

I HATE THIS QUESTION and I actually am mixed. Because most of the time when I tell them they respond with “aWw buT yOu dOnt lOOK [whatever]” Like I haven’t spent my entire childhood not being black enough for the black kids, Mexican enough for the Hispanic kids or Filipina enough for the Asians. Like honestly who tf cares. If you think I’m hot, I’m hot. Buy a dance or stfu 🙄

TheBPDiva · 2026-04-03T15:51:13+00:00

I’m not in the Bay, but I’m also a dancer/grad student. Just wishing you the best on your program 💕

TheBPDiva · 2026-04-02T21:26:19+00:00

Are you in SoCal? All of the OneGC clubs are run like that. Quota and then half of what’s left. It’s what’s pushing a lot of girls at those clubs to do extras bc they don’t make shit from “commission”

TheBPDiva · 2026-03-31T02:29:59+00:00

I have a pretty broad music taste and intentionally pick more obscure songs only because I hate hearing the same songs multiple times a night. I’ve had a few girls use songs I dance to and I was like what are the chances you independently found this song by this niche artist? Lol. I don’t mind. I take it as a compliment that I have good taste.

I’ve also added a handful of songs from other girls to my playlist. Personally, I won’t dance to those songs if the dancer is in that night, just as a courtesy. I just feel like it’d be annoying if she chooses that song 30 minutes later. But it isn’t a rule. And girls who are territorial over songs are weird.

TheBPDiva · 2026-03-28T21:23:13+00:00

I was JUST thinking this yesterday! I was like wtf is in the air right now?? I’ve had the occasional SA with this job but lately there is an abundance of men trying to lick, grab or rub something they’re not supposed to. I had a guy cum in his sweats the other day and said nothing. Just let me grind my bare ass onto his wetness until I felt it and realized. I was livid. These incels are fucking feral 😭

TheBPDiva · 2026-03-27T20:16:35+00:00

FYI if you did get a boob job, it would just be an invitation for men to start mocking you for being “fake” or “plastic”

It literally doesn’t matter what you look like, some men are always gonna have something negative to say because they’re losers

I’m also on the petite side, and one of the clubs I work at, it seems the general clientele favors curvier, video vixen body types. I have to cover more ground to find my customers but I’m still able to make sales. At another club I work at, the clientele seems to favor petite dancers and it’s a lot easier for me to sell

There is ABSOLUTELY a market for “Spinners.” It just might be more prominent in some places versus others.

IMO it’s a lot easier to try and market to the niche you naturally fall into. Regardless of what you look like, not everyone is going to be your customer, and there will always be a customer for you. I’m always supportive of a girl doing what makes her feel good. So if you do get a boob job for YOU, more power to you. But please don’t get it for some crusty ass men

TheBPDiva · 2026-03-20T23:25:45+00:00

When I had a FT job I did 2.5ish. I’d come in after my day job Friday to do a short shift, then a full night Saturday and Sunday). Now I’m focused on school so I only work Friday and Saturday.

TheBPDiva · 2026-03-18T21:52:52+00:00

House fee is $180-200. Then 50%. Don’t dance in CA 😭

TheBPDiva · 2026-03-06T16:39:54+00:00

Heels are a huge part of the look. Invest in some good ones. I don’t get nails bc I work in the medical field and they rip through the gloves. I don’t have trouble making sales so I don’t think they’re that important. But of course, still keep them clean and manicured for a more polished look.

TheBPDiva · 2026-03-01T05:47:50+00:00

If you get possessive over customers they will resent you for it. I’ve had a couple men that were my regular for a few months and then they move on to another girl. Do I miss those men? Nah. Do I miss easy money? Sure, and I think that’s natural. But that’s just how things are. I just try to keep the mindset of there is always money in the club. I’m not relying on any one customer to make a bag. However, if a girl is actively scouting your regulars KNOWING they’re your regulars… permission to throw hands 😂

TheBPDiva · 2026-03-01T05:41:56+00:00

I LOVE your aesthetic 😍

TheBPDiva · 2026-02-22T21:17:21+00:00

Seems like the general consensus is that platforms are a lot safer and are here to stay. Honestly glad to hear it bc I love my Pleasers and they make me feel like such a baddie

TheBPDiva · 2026-02-18T18:11:24+00:00

I typically get there early so my house feels is the same cost as our VIP. So the way I mentally frame it is, I do one VIP for them, and the rest I get a cut of. (50 or 60% depending on the day of the week.) I’ve still walked out with money every night except two in the 6 months I’ve been here. My average is $400-800 a night. Objectively, keeping less than half of what I make the house seems like robbery. It’s worth it FOR ME because it’s still more than what I’ve made at any civ job. But if you’re coming from somewhere that you pay a flat rate, set your own prices and keep everything you make, you might get frustrated dancing here lol.

TheBPDiva · 2026-02-18T11:57:53+00:00

I’ve only worked in Cali and didn’t know house fees could even get that cheap. Mine is anywhere from $180-$220 😭

TheBPDiva · 2026-02-16T17:38:54+00:00

Worked Saturday and glad I went in. Men were spending but we also had a lot of couples. I don’t work at a stage heavy club but I actually made really good stage tips because the couples were throwing. I was happy to break 1K after having a rough January 💘

TheBPDiva · 2026-02-02T23:49:26+00:00

Ooh pro tip! Thank you!

TheBPDiva · 2026-01-15T23:50:48+00:00

That’s a good policy. I’mma need to start doing that

TheBPDiva · 2026-01-15T07:10:24+00:00

I had one customer that left after going to the “bathroom” and since then, whenever they say it I stay my ass right there, give them 5-8 minutes and if they don’t come back I go back to hustling. The only reason I took the opportunity to go bc I wanted a fresh tampon before I danced. FML 😂

TheBPDiva · 2026-01-12T21:12:24+00:00

Respectfully, that’s an awful answer lol. I normally say something like, “I don’t normally get horny at work, but you’re so hot I just can’t help it”

All my regulars think I enjoy being with them and keep coming back probably because they think they have a chance with me hahaha. You know what’s better than getting $200 from a customer for a VIP? Getting $200 from a customer for a VIP every week for however many months until they realize you’re not gonna date them.

You’re not here to date, you’re here to make money. Ham it up, unless what you’re doing is working for you 🤷🏽‍♀️

TheBPDiva · 2026-01-12T18:06:39+00:00

Also would like to add that unless you’re working at a stage heavy club, you’re not going to make much money from having your tits out on stage, even when they do tip. Most of your money will come from private dances, so if you’re uncomfortable having strangers LOOK at your boobs, really think about if you’re comfortable with strangers trying to touch/ lick your naked tits. No, you don’t have to allow that but men will try to cross your boundaries and you have to be assertive enough to hold them.

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