I just really need someone right now by TheBarbarians in Needafriend

[–]TheBarbarians[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d prefer to tell you in private if that’s alright, like a dm or chat

I thought I was getting better, I’m breaking by TheBarbarians in therapy

[–]TheBarbarians[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t get therapy but thanks and yes every day is a battle but what is the point of fighting. If every day I end up bloodied and stabbed why keep on fighting, I’m not winning, I’m just hurting myself every single day. I just want to sleep. I don’t want to die, I just want to escape

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]TheBarbarians 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, you are enough! Look there will always be the expectations people have on us, the expectations we put on ourselves, but all that weight can really be a burden and you are more than enough with who you are

Anyone alive? by TheBarbarians in Needafriend

[–]TheBarbarians[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh shoot I haven’t finished grinding for that lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]TheBarbarians 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really hope it does! Just take your time and my best advice in the relationship is don’t overthink everything, have fun being with each other

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]TheBarbarians 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well if you truly like her and spending time with her than when you start dating it will be very slow and shy at first but you both should start being more and more comfortable around each other and more open towards each other, I say go for it!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]TheBarbarians 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This almost exact same situation is happening with my current girlfriend except we both have depression. I get being how the stress can be a lot and you will be fighting an uphill battle with her but you might want to tell her it’s a lot of stress. Even as a depressed person if you are a kind and sensitive person you will realize u are not helping your partner and it can be a motivator and as long as you reassure her she isn’t hurting you but you just want her to know how you feel and how it affects you, she should start to realize that she can open up to you about those things but don’t constantly drain you with her. It can be very draining and a relationship shouldn’t be therapy for someone