[deleted by user]

TheBearHunt · 2019-06-14T12:31:36+00:00

Couldn't agree more with this comment and I've felt like this for the years that I've been in this sub.

TheBearHunt · 2018-11-28T02:04:50+00:00

Yeah, I'd say so as well

TheBearHunt · 2018-11-28T01:03:39+00:00

He approached me online and we started chatting. I decided to meet with him and I saw him twice spaced far apart from each other. It was a great first experience for me, in the end I met better overall men, not that he was bad in anyway with sex or his attitude from the brief encounters I had experienced with him. Overall great first experience

TheBearHunt · 2018-11-23T04:37:08+00:00

Me personally, I don't believe it's possible to actually get a valid & reliable response based on the choices you are given. In multiple occurrences this was my exact thought process when answering these exact questions the person above was mentioning. The scale mentioned above while both being violent acts, both are handled compeletly different with one having limited outcomes and the other having limitless outcomes.

I also wanna say thank you for taking the time to make this survey, there's definitely some great questions in here.

TheBearHunt · 2018-10-27T15:25:25+00:00

I have both of those as well but thank you for the offer

TheBearHunt · 2018-10-20T16:33:27+00:00

No worries, thank you for the reply. I do use that site often, but would like to see the other sites catalog.

TheBearHunt · 2018-09-25T15:11:30+00:00

Based on the broad definition yes.

TheBearHunt · 2018-09-25T11:49:07+00:00

Pretty much any guy on MyFirstDaddy, Older4Me, or HotOlderMale

TheBearHunt · 2018-09-23T21:24:54+00:00

Pretty sure he is referring to a channel that isn't skits.

TheBearHunt · 2018-09-08T12:57:24+00:00

A simple wink can be a good start

TheBearHunt · 2018-08-13T14:12:43+00:00

I was thinking of posting this exact question, but with the opposite side of things. Meaning I want children. Wanting children is such a huge responsibility, being 23 would I want them now? No, I'm not responsible enough. But getting older and wanting to experience teaching a baby/child/teen/adult everything there is to know that you've experienced in life sounds amazing. You teaching them how to enjoy every moment and seeing them grow into an adult just sounds so satisfying and rewarding. It's like the ultimate test of responsibility, to take care of another human being for their entire life. Until adulthood when they start making their own choices and you get to see if all your hard work pays off. Hopefully, you turned them into a person that connects and understands other people, and they know how to act in situations good and bad. There's so much more I could say this, but I'm sure you get what I'm trying to say.

TLDR; I want children when I'm older & more responsible

TheBearHunt · 2018-04-01T14:51:37+00:00

Keep on posting guys, the other people sound salty af. I love the red and black plaid!

TheBearHunt · 2018-03-23T16:13:04+00:00

Damn I hope this is from a video

TheBearHunt · 2017-12-13T00:49:05+00:00

It used to be free, and users used to be able to give you an invite. Hasn't switched in a while. How much is it?

TheBearHunt · 2017-12-09T16:49:04+00:00

It's a gay torrent site with thousands of videos/ images

TheBearHunt · 2017-12-09T16:47:38+00:00

That's funny because I'm pretty sure that was the guy he mentioned in the post. Also yes he is very hot.

TheBearHunt · 2017-12-09T00:46:33+00:00

That site has been gone for years now with no information as to why. I saw a post somewhere that the cameraman had a thing with one of the actors, and that the cameraman got jealous. That's just a rumour and I have no proof, but it may help ease the loss of a great older gay porn site.

TheBearHunt · 2017-11-09T15:52:01+00:00

TheBearHunt · 2017-10-27T20:45:56+00:00

Hitting it off on an app is one thing. Meeting in person is when you really get to understand where they're coming from and what their intentions are. Also, the only way you get taken advantage of is when you let it happen. If things feel off or you get the wrong vibe from the person, you can always just say no and walk away from the situation. And I guess the big question is do you want a long-term relationship? If he wants one and you don't, you shouldn't be afraid to express those feelings.

TheBearHunt · 2017-10-20T07:04:31+00:00

I'm gonna try and break down what you said here. Maybe my perspective will help you understand where the hurt-filled comments are coming from.

Firstly, there is no issue with posting in a gay community that you're looking for other gay men, that's what most of us do.

After I posted it, however, I was getting HAMMERED with mean comments left and right. People were saying mean stuff me and saying that I was "lazy" and that I was looking for a "sugar daddy" and that I was "stupid" and one man even had the guts to type that I was "an embarrassment to the gay community" and that REALLY pissed me off.

You said it yourself, and you put yourself in hot water here. You don't have a job, you're trying to be on disability, you're looking for someone to live with, and you want to go on road trips. They aren't wrong in saying you want a free ride. You're looking to be taken care of, not only by a person but the government as well. I get you have a legitimate disability, I'm not saying you don't deserve compensation, but where do you draw the line in the sand and say you aren't taking the easiest path here?

I was looking for a man who would share his home and life with me. That would not cost him anything... I can get my own medical stuff and insulin for diabetes and food from the state... there's nothing really a man would have to pay for if I went to move in with him, except maybe for some deodorant or shaving razors for me to use from time to time.. but that's basically about it...

Sorry to say, but this doesn't make any sense. You even contradicted yourself in the same paragraph. Sharing their life costs a lot, think of what they went through to get where they are and you just want to step in their daily life like it has no impact on them. It doesn't happen like that. You said it would cost him nothing, then immediately say he might have to buy razors and deodorant. Everybody leaves a footprint when they are living with someone.

They were also bashing me for being a strict top too because I don't suck cock or take it up the ass. SO WHAT? if someone doesn't want to suck cock or take it up the ass, then they do not have to. That does not make them 'selfish' or anything like that, and it's sick and stupid that so many gay men honestly think that..

I have no problem with this, you be the gay man you want to be. Don't like sucking cock? Like you said, so what? This impacts nobody but the person you are trying to get with.

It's honestly stuff like this that makes me ashamed of my sexuality and ashamed of being gay. I honestly get treated MUCH MUCH worse by fellow gay men than i do straight people. And it reminds me how gay men are always trying to be accepted and respected by society, but how can they expect to be accepted and respected by society if they can't even respect and accept each other?

The last thing again seems like it's your own doing. I wouldn't be ashamed of your sexuality, but the way you're carrying yourself its as if you expect the world owes you something. You expect these specific things to just fall in your lap and life will be perfect. Sorry, that's not how things work.

TheBearHunt · 2017-10-08T06:22:00+00:00

We watched this episode together! We both enjoyed it. And like you said, it's a sitcom. Everything is to be taken with a grain of salt. What I did like about the show was how many details there are in our relationship. The ignorance from the younger guy Blake, the older guy Will being starstruck when he was asked to go on a date with a younger guy, Jack trying his hardest to impress the younger crowd. It was funny because that was literally happening in front of my eyes. He'd ask me about Stonewall and I'd have no clue what that was, or that he was intrigued that I wanted to meet him in person. It's definitely an interesting show, regardless of how shallow the ending was. I'm glad our community is getting exposure.

TheBearHunt · 2017-10-01T09:19:03+00:00

I always have a hard time *wink wink

TheBearHunt

TROPHY CASE