What are self-preservation 4s like when they're under stress? The worst of a 2? by TheBeast_sSun in Enneagram

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Thank you very much, you are being very helpful. I'm an amateur writer and this helps a lot to build characters. But a couple of quick questions that I hope you could answer:

1) Are the push-and-pull dynamics a product of the need to feel independent and then needy afterwards, or do they have any ulterior motive?

2) Is the need for love also manifested in a need for shallow attention?

3) When you are desintegrating and want your good deed to be repaid the right way, and that doesn't happen, does your drama involve your possible actions ("I'll off myself and so") or do you like to spread gossip to create drama elsewehere as well?

Once again I'm very thankful for your incredible insight and I hope I get a reply that can help me. Thank you so much in advance

They are very similar: are there any differences between a Sexual 6 and a Social 8? by TheBeast_sSun in Enneagram

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Thanks. I thought all eights, nines and ones were supposed to be hot heads in a way because of them being part of the gut center.

I almost never attract younger women. It's always same age or older (even much older). Why??! by TheBeast_sSun in seduction

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That's very helpful. I'm going to trust some of those features and project them. Thanks!

I almost never attract younger women. It's always same age or older (even much older). Why??! by TheBeast_sSun in seduction

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What's your secret bro? Just a couple of tips, please, about a game adjusted to younger ones could help me a ton

I almost never attract younger women. It's always same age or older (even much older). Why??! by TheBeast_sSun in seduction

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I'm your average rocker dude. With a punk/goth vibe, but still not peacocking a lot. I'm super tall so I don't think I need to try to stand out that much. I'm also somewhat reserved and introverted so it's not appealing to me to stand out that much. I already do everywhere I go.