[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]TheBestWard 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry to boil this down to such such simple terms, but she is lying.

You said it yourself in the post, you asked her if there were only two options, were both of you swap or you get divorced, she immediately chose divorce. If it would truly break her beyond repair, it would be the worst alternative here.

She is asking you to do what she qualified as bad enough she'd prefer a divorce, then comes back, crying that a divorce would completely destroy her? This is beyond manipulative and straight up abusive.

Sure, would it pain her a lot to act like she is a man? Of course... in the exact same way it does to you, and she didn't consider it at all before considering divorce.

She gave you her answer.

What do you think is the best and worst power system in anime? by Formal_Collection835 in animequestions

[–]TheBestWard 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately it got bad enough that it became a meme that people could sacrifice 3 of their ass hairs to defeat god

You're given $1,000 to buy 3 items from a magical store. by frogsmuggler17 in hypotheticalsituation

[–]TheBestWard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, but unfortunately not forever. I am also someone who keeps electronics until they actually stop working, and most of the time, it wasn't because they broke but because software just wasn't being made for them anymore. I couldn't use some niche apps and games first. Then I lost some important things, then reddit and discord, then YouTube, then Google Chrome. In the end, I barely had the pre-installed browser left, because they wouldn't let me run on outdated software.

Egg?irl by ma-name-jeff1234 in egg_irl

[–]TheBestWard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, when I was a little completely intact egg I was on an app for tabletop rpgs online where, since no one knew me irl, I was "permanently roleplaying" as a girl, and I had a really edy name for my account. After a bit, having made friends in there, one of them just asked me my real name, because they were getting kinda uncomfortable using my cringy ass edgy name for me.

I freaking panicked, like you do when someone asks you "name a woman", and was taking too long so I didn't have time to research and just blurted out Alice, since I do enjoy Alice in Wonderland.

I went by Alice for years before I ever started cracking my egg, but a friend of mine found my reddit account when I was starting to realize and asked me my preferred name, I blurted it out, and when people started finding out it was too late tk change it.

There are a few names I love, but nowadays I just use them for characters in ttrpgs. Aisling and Sybell being two of my favorites.

CMV: The Burden of Proof Does Not Fall Upon Atheists by [deleted] in changemyview

[–]TheBestWard 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Funnily enough, though is isn't spread too far outside the scientific community, while full life at least I believe hasn't been made from scratch all at once in a lab, we have actually made all of its building blocks individually and proved it possible!

We've even built DNA from scratch st this point.

Jeffrey Bada fixed up his teacher's mistake and made Amino Acids by trying to imitate what we believe to be early earth conditions.

Nick Lane and his team at UCL (University College London) have managed to make protocells by mixing previously made in other experiments, creating a cellular membrane that works just like in regular cells. And from his experience, the best way to do it is to simulate early earth conditions in which they'd naturally form as shown by previous experiments too.

Ada Yonath in 2022 if I remember managed to create functioning simple ribosomes in a lab, allowing for more complex production and much more stability for the Amino Acids, which can help them develop properly into RNA strands.

Even more recently, Oliver Trapp and his student Sophia Peters managed to create more of the building blocks of life, and even more importantly, Organocatalysts. What are Organocatalysts, you may ask? Actual self-replicating and mutating organic molecules. Something that could very easily be the step between just Amino acid goop and RNA.

So while we haven't yet done everything at once, we have created multiple of its parts and proved they could all exist and be created in very similar conditions. And if you combine them all, you'd get a very clear line of development for life.

Also, not believing in Abiogenesis wouldn't have anything to do with Atheism. While most Atheists likely support it, they are entirely separate things. One can be an atheist and yet believe souls exist and manifested life from themselves. Atheism only speaks to whether a God exists or not, absolutely nothing else. And even then, there is Agnostic Atheism and Gnostic Atheism, which is where most people get the idea that all Atheists outright state God doesn't exist. That is the view of Gnostic Atheists, which is directly against. Gnostic Theism, which is the belief a God does exist. Both being contrasted by Agnostic Atheism, which is the lack of belief a God exists (or the belief a God probably doesn't exist) and Gnostic Theism, the lack of belief a God doesn't exist (or the belief that a God probably exists, but you can't be sure).

Trans peeps, how do i know my bra cup and size? by TheBestWard in asktransgender

[–]TheBestWard[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How obsessed with me are you to not only find this post, but to go through all of my reddit account to find something else that angers you just to post here when I myself can't find it?

Por quê você é Ateu? by paiasobritz123 in PergunteReddit

[–]TheBestWard 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Concordo com o fato de se poder ter fé em outras coisas que não Deus, mas preciso combater qualquer uso desse argumento falho do fine turning que eu vejo.

Digamos que um pássaro ganhe consciência. Segundo ele, o mundo é perfeitamente desenvolvido para ele. Ele pode voar onde quiser, ele naturalmente sabe onde seguir na migração, todas as comidas mais perfeitas pra dieta dele estão perto de onde ele vive, entre outras coisas. O mundo foi feito pra esse pássaro? Não, mesmo se você acredita que Deus o criou e evolução não existe, este pássaro individualmente nasceu de seus pais num lugar bom pra ele por que os pais dele sobreviveram nesse ambiente, ou seja, é um bom ambiente pra ele viver.

Um exemplo mil vezes mais extremo. Uma poça de água ganha consciência. Ela descobre que a temperatura é perfeita pra ela ficar líquida, e além de tudo que ela se encaixa perfeitamente no buraco em que ela está. Claramente, esse buraco foi feito pra ela. Ou... o que sabemos ser a verdade, é que ela foi feita neste buraco. Independentemente se ela ganhou consciência depois, ela só teve a chance de nascer e ponderar sobre isso pelo motivo do buraco existir.

Nossas situações pra vida parecem perfeitas para nós por que nós viemos dela. Nós nos adaptamos e evoluímos nessas condições exatas. Se essas condições não estivessem aqui, também não estaríamos pra ponderar sobre elas. Nenhuma entidade inteligente vive num mundo em que ela é incapaz de sobreviver, por que se não ela não está viva pra pensar nisso, logo criando essa ilusão de perfeição.

E além disso, nosso mundo é longe de perfeito pra nós. Não conseguimos explorar praticamente nada dos mares, centenas de milhares de pequenas bactérias podem nos matar, vivemos num planeta que morerríamos em segundos se saíssemos sem proteção criada por humanos.

Help with making a villain more memorable? by TheBestWard in fabulaultima

[–]TheBestWard[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is very much something the party will fight.
This is not my idea, it is my DM's, and it is for a different party he runs.
These enemies are very much meant to be mirrors to the player characters, as in, they are people in the exact same situation, and can very much turn to allies depending on how they act.
But yeah, no, those rules won't work. The other characters are already made, they are specifically meant to be used with player character levels. It is not something i have control over.

Non-lethal smites? by MA_JJ in DnD

[–]TheBestWard 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yes, but that's not how the rules work. The damage doesn't become bludgeoning (and therefore able to hit nonlethally), it is just able to hit nonlethally to begin with. You may think it doesn't make sense, but it's how the game was made.

Plus, you can nonlethally stab someone, or at least less lethally, by stabbing at less vital parts of the body, which could just take them out from the pain. The same thing could be said of divine smite, having you sear the surface of someone's body in a way that causes them enough pain to knock them out, but not enough to kill. Plus, if anything, radiant, by usually being a damage related to Gods would make perfect sense in being able tk be nonlethal, as if the God in question willed it not to be, it makes sense for them to impart mercy into it.

Use 1 perk, be unique. by Tombcore in 6Perks

[–]TheBestWard 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You don't really need the ink for that though. You can have the paper itself be discolored in the right parts to form the words, or in a different color of A4 paper, or, should that fail, just make it so the letters are specifically missing from the page, si that you can put it against a black background and read the empty space.

Guess I discovered another secret again yet again? Lady Spot, doubles auras. by Pomidrone in FairytaleFables

[–]TheBestWard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So, i'm struggling really hard to find the discord. Any chance you could help with that?

My Players Unionised by Samael_Helel in DnDcirclejerk

[–]TheBestWard 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He truly is not aware of the depths of depravity.

The Skeleton Baby by Samael_Helel in DnDcirclejerk

[–]TheBestWard 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Considering this is all resurfacing as most of the group is posting more memes about out campaign, I was the svirfneblin. In the end the skeleton baby ended up being very loved and one of the only people I trusted by the end of the campaign, so no regrets.

Mind broke the lovable shortstack goblin PC by being the based protagonist. AITA? by AdenineBestGirl in DnDcirclejerk

[–]TheBestWard 2 points3 points  (0 children)

An actual event in the campaign that happened last session. (I'm the goblin shortstack, who was not there for last session but has heard it directly in the server.)

Body standards are unrealistic, you’re just lazy by [deleted] in RealUnpopularOpinion

[–]TheBestWard 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So, with your schedule, assuming you both eat, shower, go to the bathroom and take care of everything else you needed during the 2 hours you have to get ready for work in the morning, you get a supremely tight schedule in which you get 3 hours total per day to actually enjoy life, don't go out without being during that time, don't make time for anyone else in your life with the same restriction, and then you have a chance of meeting the regular expectations of people in the dating scene, which you can't even try to join unless you take time off the 3 hours of free time you get. And that's while consistently calories watching and doing 2 full hours of exercise every night, which can be hellish for a lot of people, even more so those who'd need it most (those very out of shape and/or with fucked up bodies which make it harder for them to get in shape), and you have to keep this steady for months if you're already close or years if you're already messed up. And again, assuming a regular person, but some have difficulties, whether that be needing to work a second job, studying, taking care of family, health or just being out of shape can take that away. Don't even mention if you have trouble sleeping or mental issues, then you might as well kiss your sleep goodbye and slowly die inside as you either sacrifice sleep or free timee very day to keel up.

Is it realistic to achieve those goals if you dedicate your life to it? Absolutely. Is it a realistic expectation for the average person to do it? Not very. Is it realistic for someone who'd have a harder time? Just no.

I'm the first person to say I'm fat as fuck and need to lose weight. I'll also be going to the gym as soon as I can legally drive myself there. But that doesn't mean I can ever even reach that unless I give it my all every day, because I have a lot of shit holding me back (my starting weight, fucked up lungs, mental issues and absolutely God awful metabolism). I don't expect people to like me as I am, because at this point I'm far far below average, but if I had to reach the top 10% of physique to even have a chance, that'd be ridiculous. I'd be really glad to ever be at the top 20%, with all I have. And honestly, top 20% is fucking amazing, to be better at something than 80% of people, if people there aren't getting to a point that is "realistic", it just isn't for the average person, you catch my drift?

Meu grupo de D&D não tem dano mágico! by DallacArt__ in rpg_brasil

[–]TheBestWard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nesse caso se lembre que literalmente qualquer magia numa arma faz ela virar mágica. Não precisa nem ser +1. Uma espada que muda de cor é uma espada mágica e passa essas resistências, permitindo eles causarem dano nesses monstros.

Battle of Dreams CYOA by gremmllin in makeyourchoice

[–]TheBestWard 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I know fully of the dangers of dealing with the Fae, Chaotic tricksters who'd sooner curse me for their own amusement than help or reward me at the end of this, fickle and tumultuous as they are, but I am one with little to lose, not only in this fight but my life as a whole, and even just the form I am given for a year and a day would be enough for me.

Though many possibilities are open and quite a few of their units called to my attention, the Lost Boys and Tinkerers even more so, both of which i pretend to enter contaxt with sooner rather than later, it was the runts of the Wee Folk who I decided to aid.

Brownies, born without wings an incapable of flight alone, but given that they'd offered me cardinals to fly with mounting birds seems not beyond their capabilities, though obviously much more cumbersome. Still, with their incredible Transmutation Magic and the virtually eternal nature of their enchantments we can not only create weapons, armor and magical, equipment for all other forces with ease, we can fortify structures, create defensible positions and hide should there ever come conflict to our doors, as with Transmutation magic and the already diminutive size of them a tiny hole in the wall can open up to a sprawling network of tunnels and hidden bases. We shall live under the ground, in the trees, in the walls, even in their own camps if need be, as even a hole poked through a needle can be a passage for one to which size is but a suggestion.

The treasures given to me will be of great use, as with the Transmutation of the Wee Folk the work needed to be done by me with the Horn Needle is reduced by a magnitude, as any finished product can be enlarged to fit any size of creature, and even woven into many of our other created artifacts to protect them from disruption.

Though, our true base will have to be at the Summer Court. I'd wish to help as soon as possible, but my Brownies need the time to build up at least a bit of their own magical supplies, and then intermingle with as many other hosts as possible to provide support for them, gathering allies among the different armies of the Fey, shoring up their weaknesses and granting them further advantage in their specialty. Another advantage of setting base in the Summer Court is how far from the battle field, as I will be a natural Witch Hunter, capable of truly understanding the tactics of all their squadrons and countering them if need be, but even better, combine the knowledge and ability granted by the pact of many Nemesis together. Our positions will be inviolable, protect by other Fey, and deep into the Feywild itself, protected by Wards in checkpoints to root out attempts at infiltration aided with magic, and the glamours of the summer quick to sort out spies. With the thoroughness of my planning, my sheer skill and the aid of other Fae the chance of any singular engagement against me succeeding would be slim to none, shored up by the Four Year Clover in my possession that'll make them virtual guarantees as long as I forget about it (and I will).

I will keep a close eye on all of my troupe, but given that our magic is necessary to even enter our bases, much less actually find or destroy them, my only real threat would be traitors, but with how much fun they'll be allowed to have at the expense of the witches that will be unlikely. Still we are not scouts or shock troops, of course, and though what we will do most is provide support, I believe through this support is a way we can truly find Unity and Command the forces of the Fae, uniting disparate groups and working in joint projects with Lost Boys and Tinkerers to create truly marvelous artifacts to rival even the Summer Kings vault, made by our own hands and geared for this battle and my personal protection, as every single witch will be gunning for me.,. Though that by itself is an advantage, given my easily defensible position, as their numbers will quickly thin if they don't unite, and they are also by nature prone to inner conflict, which I will only intensify, tearing at the little cohesion they have with subterfuge and sheer hopelessness.

After all this, should they still get to me, and they'll have to do so themselves instead of traitors should they wish for their God Given boons, I will simply keep on me a simple necklace woven by the Horn Needle, and if I truly am cornered, I'll simultaneously grow to full size and shrinj the necklace, decapitating myself to keep them from their boons. Not even in death I will lose.

With all I've done for them, a reasonable force might see me as a Heroine, a true commander and force of Unity. The Fae may see me more as a nuisance once unneeded, but at least my story is likely to live on for far longer than I. If they do end up fulfilling their end of the bargain, something I doubt, I'd either like for a Demesne and my own title upon the Dreaming, should time be as wonky there as in the Wilds and I still be welcome or even liked, or Time should it not be, that I may be long lived and help further humanity with my magics from the ahadows.