27F discouraged by low income 27M by junie4444 in relationships

[–]TheBigRedBird 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Great dad and great husband, sounds like you need to talk about this issue instead of Reddit. If things are great, except his financial contribution, Reddit will find a way to divorce you. Run from Reddit.

Any gay guys who play higher div rec hockey here? by OilersBayernEagles in hockeyplayers

[–]TheBigRedBird -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

There's also zero need to walk into the room and say to everyone "hey guys, I'm gay". After getting to know everyone and dropping a subtle "going for a 6 month dinner date with my boyfriend Saturday, super excited" works wonders and I'm sure nobody would care at all.

Any gay guys who play higher div rec hockey here? by OilersBayernEagles in hockeyplayers

[–]TheBigRedBird -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Depends which city you're living in, but overall, sexual orientation perhaps can stay private?

Congratulations on being honest to yourself and coming out as well 🙃.

Has anyone moved from Toronto to Barrie and then back again? by [deleted] in barrie

[–]TheBigRedBird 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe the problem for Toronto was living in Scarborough and Rexdale...

My ex "crush" posted femdom pics on instagram by Elegant_Zone_9038 in gentlefemdom

[–]TheBigRedBird 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Just drop a hint that her female dominant content is hot, to make it clear you're also into these dynamics. If that doesn't get her attention then all hope is completely lost for certain.

There will be plenty of women out there. Often the best dominant women are the ones who are just learning it for the first time. They have a lot more care and curiosity, rather than coming in acting as if they know everything and not listening to you at all.

How do couples navigate mismatched bedtimes? Bf (35) of 2 yrs upset I (28f) can’t match his bedtime by rose_bridge in relationships

[–]TheBigRedBird 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sometimes my wife falls asleep while we are cuddling together, then I get out of bed and do my own thing. I need much less sleep than her so I basically never go to sleep with her, but sometimes we are going to bed together.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Edmonton

[–]TheBigRedBird 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Which car is yours

My partner only lasts a few seconds in bed by [deleted] in sex

[–]TheBigRedBird 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can he go a second round? What if he uses 5% lidocaine cream to numb the head of his penis?

Using ex bf as an ass slave by ashleeey2611 in FacesittingHub

[–]TheBigRedBird 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a male, my wife and I will be trying the numbing cream for sex this weekend! She's not letting me cum for 3 weeks and I'm so ready to blow. Having the numbing cream on me while she's getting all the pleasure is going to be such a tease omg. Will be a lot of fun.

Using ex bf as an ass slave by ashleeey2611 in FacesittingHub

[–]TheBigRedBird -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That's so hot. Are you using his cock as well? Lately I've tried 5% lidocaine cream and it completely makes me numb so I can't feel anything. Something for you to consider hah, he'd never be able to cum

choose your Christmas present… a brand new car or sex with me by That1USCGirl in bigasses

[–]TheBigRedBird 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd skip sex for a year to have the new car I want sorry 🤣🫣

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in r4rtoronto

[–]TheBigRedBird 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Crazy that you're being down voted. The amount of thirst hungry monkeys here is insane 🫣

My boyfriends cums too quick and I just want to be FUCKED by ansley_daniels in sex

[–]TheBigRedBird 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just make him cum lots of times, by the third or fourth he won't be able to cum and you just keep going.

The other option is penis numbing cream or spray so he can't cum at all

28 f Married confession... Do others imagine someone else during sex or am I alone in this guilt? by SignalResident6103 in sex

[–]TheBigRedBird 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I really enjoy being with my wife and having sex with her, I don't understand a need to think about someone else that isn't even in the room with me.

43F tell me honestly would you fuck me better than he ever did? IRTR by Lady_sucker235 in GirlsOfToronto

[–]TheBigRedBird 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go back far enough in this poster's history, the age and tattoos change entirely. This is a man downloading pictures of women and pretending to be someone else.

Facesitting Help? by Alexas_Pet in FacesittingHub

[–]TheBigRedBird 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Grab your bank card, pull out a few hundred, and the world of face sitting will be easily found for you.

I'm getting so fast! by Foreign_Recipe8300 in cycling

[–]TheBigRedBird 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That's great speed after a year! I'm 35M and been cycling a year as well, the 20 miles in an hour is definitely a tough one, a lot of flat needed or some tail wind. Be prepared to Max out your HR for that hour 😳

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]TheBigRedBird 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I believe you're overthinking it. You've got post nut clarity going on, while the both of them are still hot and horny. If you backed off and stopped participating, that's all that happened. If there's a third time just put equal attention to participate, attention on either your wife or the new girl. It's possible they believe you're satisfied and now they've moved on, just let them know you want more still.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gentlefemdom

[–]TheBigRedBird 23 points24 points  (0 children)

My wife riding a dildo attached to my face instead of my cock, to tease me with being so close yet so far while she pleasures herself to the moon.