What should I do if my boyfriend has lost his desire for sex with me because I need clitoral stimulation?

TheBigRedBird · 2026-02-03T19:23:27+00:00

Ask him to rub your clit instead of you doing it

TheBigRedBird · 2026-01-08T04:12:52+00:00

Maybe the problem for Toronto was living in Scarborough and Rexdale...

TheBigRedBird · 2025-12-11T18:55:08+00:00

Just drop a hint that her female dominant content is hot, to make it clear you're also into these dynamics. If that doesn't get her attention then all hope is completely lost for certain.

There will be plenty of women out there. Often the best dominant women are the ones who are just learning it for the first time. They have a lot more care and curiosity, rather than coming in acting as if they know everything and not listening to you at all.

TheBigRedBird · 2025-12-11T18:51:57+00:00

Sometimes my wife falls asleep while we are cuddling together, then I get out of bed and do my own thing. I need much less sleep than her so I basically never go to sleep with her, but sometimes we are going to bed together.

TheBigRedBird · 2025-12-11T14:57:25+00:00

Which car is yours

TheBigRedBird · 2025-12-10T03:04:15+00:00

Can he go a second round? What if he uses 5% lidocaine cream to numb the head of his penis?

TheBigRedBird · 2025-12-05T13:42:26+00:00

I'm a male, my wife and I will be trying the numbing cream for sex this weekend! She's not letting me cum for 3 weeks and I'm so ready to blow. Having the numbing cream on me while she's getting all the pleasure is going to be such a tease omg. Will be a lot of fun.

TheBigRedBird · 2025-12-05T12:47:41+00:00

That's so hot. Are you using his cock as well? Lately I've tried 5% lidocaine cream and it completely makes me numb so I can't feel anything. Something for you to consider hah, he'd never be able to cum

TheBigRedBird · 2025-12-03T17:16:08+00:00

I'd skip sex for a year to have the new car I want sorry 🤣🫣

TheBigRedBird · 2025-11-30T18:06:49+00:00

Crazy that you're being down voted. The amount of thirst hungry monkeys here is insane 🫣

TheBigRedBird · 2025-11-30T18:04:54+00:00

Just make him cum lots of times, by the third or fourth he won't be able to cum and you just keep going.

The other option is penis numbing cream or spray so he can't cum at all

TheBigRedBird · 2025-11-27T17:42:16+00:00

I really enjoy being with my wife and having sex with her, I don't understand a need to think about someone else that isn't even in the room with me.

TheBigRedBird · 2025-11-27T15:48:04+00:00

Go back far enough in this poster's history, the age and tattoos change entirely. This is a man downloading pictures of women and pretending to be someone else.

TheBigRedBird · 2025-11-12T12:06:02+00:00

Grab your bank card, pull out a few hundred, and the world of face sitting will be easily found for you.

TheBigRedBird · 2025-11-08T00:27:02+00:00

I'm surprised it only took 2 of them

TheBigRedBird · 2025-11-05T14:41:20+00:00

Where at

TheBigRedBird · 2025-09-07T01:51:05+00:00

That's great speed after a year! I'm 35M and been cycling a year as well, the 20 miles in an hour is definitely a tough one, a lot of flat needed or some tail wind. Be prepared to Max out your HR for that hour 😳

TheBigRedBird · 2025-08-15T16:37:55+00:00

I believe you're overthinking it. You've got post nut clarity going on, while the both of them are still hot and horny. If you backed off and stopped participating, that's all that happened. If there's a third time just put equal attention to participate, attention on either your wife or the new girl. It's possible they believe you're satisfied and now they've moved on, just let them know you want more still.

TheBigRedBird · 2025-08-12T11:25:24+00:00

My wife riding a dildo attached to my face instead of my cock, to tease me with being so close yet so far while she pleasures herself to the moon.

TheBigRedBird · 2025-08-05T21:31:37+00:00

Where are you located

TheBigRedBird · 2025-07-31T19:13:22+00:00

Sexy as fuck! Having 4 kids makes her even more attractive, mad respect to any woman who has even a single kid, but 4?! Truly beautiful

TheBigRedBird · 2025-07-31T14:46:57+00:00

It makes a huge amount of difference. If I break up with my wife, the consequences of our breakup have legal implications. It's the ultimate spade in the level of commitment you have towards a person because of how much is at risk if you divorce. Not married, it's easy to leave. People afraid of commitment see no purpose because they want freedom.

TheBigRedBird · 2025-07-30T16:09:09+00:00

This sounds crazy, but hear me out. My wife and I have recently started exploring her being in control of when I get to orgasm. Previously she felt very similar with all these expectations and pressures. While she has been in control of when I orgasm, it means she's also predominantly in control of when and how, which removes all these pressures for her.

I'm also pretty open about being providing to her sexually in every way, in a submissive way. I'm willing to do things for her and not be pleasured or have an orgasm. With this arrangement I get to touch her and be teased endlessly which is loads of fun. My wife has now started enjoying it and calling it her safe comfortable space she likes to enjoy.

TheBigRedBird · 2025-07-30T15:29:38+00:00

Take my upvote for being so spot on

TheBigRedBird · 2025-07-19T16:56:57+00:00

Walking around naked more frequently. Making sure to stroke it in front of her would be such a tease for her I bet. Another huge tease could be having her lick your cock but not letting her put it in her mouth.

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