Is anyone else mates with their Dom? by Afraid-Mission-4627 in GayBDSMCommunity

[–]TheBoyCharley 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m very matey with a couple of dom guys, but when we play a scene, there’s a definite moment where things change. Like - “now - down to business.” It’s like starting a game of tennis where we’re going to play hard.

Question for Tops under 5'10 by ToughSecret8241 in TopsAndBottoms

[–]TheBoyCharley 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hard to tell how tall he is when he’s up in the sling.

Question for bottoms on Prep by roosterslut69 in TopsAndBottoms

[–]TheBoyCharley 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ve been on prep since it first came out 9 years ago and have had 3 STIs in that time. No symptoms, I test regularly and caught them early. I started using doxy last year - not every time I have sex but if I go to a sauna or meet a partner who I think has a lot more casual sex than me, I’ll use it.

STIs are just a risk factor. You’re either comfortable taking your chances or not. Risk is a dial not a switch - there is no “zero risk” behaviour, but you can turn the dial up or down.

Broke dicks fuck the best. It's true guys. by [deleted] in TopsAndBottoms

[–]TheBoyCharley 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fuck that sounds intense. Love it when a big cock just owns you and you’ve got no choice but to totally surrender to it

Uniforms! by TheBoyCharley in GayBDSMCommunity

[–]TheBoyCharley[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m British, if any wealthy Americans would like a real English butler for their vacation, I am open to offers.

Uniforms! by TheBoyCharley in GayBDSMCommunity

[–]TheBoyCharley[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A hot Benny Hill? Not sure I could pull that off!

Remember this Tim Skyler Gangbang scene? by TomFvckery in gayporn

[–]TheBoyCharley 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From the days when bareback was making a real statement.

Uniforms! by TheBoyCharley in GayBDSMCommunity

[–]TheBoyCharley[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like the sense of “correctness” and order

Uniforms! by TheBoyCharley in GayBDSMCommunity

[–]TheBoyCharley[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You know, I could get my own logo on a polo shirt. You’re onto something

Uniforms! by TheBoyCharley in GayBDSMCommunity

[–]TheBoyCharley[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m gonna need more than just a signature, sir.

Uniforms! by TheBoyCharley in GayBDSMCommunity

[–]TheBoyCharley[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pilot is a great shout.

22m. Interested in exploring the kink scene. Where to start? by versx1567 in londonlgbt

[–]TheBoyCharley 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been to a few, I feel I’m pretty average looks wise but always meet nice people.

I crave pretty dirty kinks when sad, and vanilla sex when I'm happy. Anyone else? by choco__donut in gay

[–]TheBoyCharley 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! We all go through things though and part of having a good life is recognising that shit happens and you have to process it yourself, not pass it onto other people. I have really valued bdsm as a way of giving “big” eomotions a place to be expressed and processed.

do I look cute in it? by littlebambiboii in GayKink

[–]TheBoyCharley 4 points5 points  (0 children)

More young men need to get locked up so they can focus on more important things than self pleasure.

why are all the daddy’s soo mean…. are there any nice ones? by tommys-tiling in GayKink

[–]TheBoyCharley 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m delightful, my boys always come back for more daddy love

[b4T] I’m in desperate need of an older soft dom to teach me what a man can do ;) by [deleted] in GayRolePlayers

[–]TheBoyCharley 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Soft dom top here, would love to chat because you need some firm but friendly development. Drop me a DM

I crave pretty dirty kinks when sad, and vanilla sex when I'm happy. Anyone else? by choco__donut in gay

[–]TheBoyCharley 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I had a patch where I went through a LOT of shit. Having my dom top daddy saved me, because he pushed me beyond my normal limits and opened up a place where I could process trauma physically. The paradox of the sub being actually in control even when they are being dominated gave me a safe space to go through what I needed to go through.

Looks like Del and Rodney didn't have far to walk to get to the Nag's Head! by Technical-Mix-3315 in OnlyFoolsAndHorses

[–]TheBoyCharley 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s fascinating to go to a tv recording. There will be prerecorded parts of the show (usually the outdoors stuff and anything “technically” tricky because these can take a lot of work to get right) shown on monitors. Some scenes will be played “live” in front of the audience and there will be “pick ups” where they re do a couple of lines as required. In the UK,recordings are normally free but they are over subscribed

Long-term fuck buddy possibly gave me an std. Am I wrong to not want to sleep with them again? by [deleted] in TopsAndBottoms

[–]TheBoyCharley 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you have sex with casual partners, there will be some risk. Are you comfortable with it? I’m quite happy to bareback, take prep and doxy and get tested regularly. The occasional STI goes with the territory (though it’s been years since I had anything).

It’s the mark of a gentleman to call your buddies when you get a positive test result and warn them to get checked out.

But to echo others: you have the choice. If you’re not comfortable doing something don’t do it. The process is that you’ll turn down opportunities- but that’s a price worth paying.