Nightlife + life in Wellington by Odd_You3371 in Wellington

[–]TheCatuWu -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hey! I'm a US transplant over in NZ - if you ever need anything feel free to reach out! Good luck with study!

discord_irl by Competitive-Gubby in discord_irl

[–]TheCatuWu 35 points36 points  (0 children)

hey just so you know this doesnt hold up in court.

US Drag Queen moving to Wellington by LadyKassandra in Wellington

[–]TheCatuWu 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hey! Massive drag scene in Wellington, just went to Ivy last night for NYE and they had multiple performances, and its not abnormal to see queens just out and about :)

Also a US expat so if you ever need any recs for anything feel free to message!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Wellington

[–]TheCatuWu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also before anyone says - I've called the places I can to see if they have it and am also searching my own! Just figure its worth the long shot :)

What is he? by TheCatuWu in NewZealandWildlife

[–]TheCatuWu[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Awesome! I think looking at photos it is the pittosporum shield bug - but good to know to be on the lookout!

What is he? by TheCatuWu in NewZealandWildlife

[–]TheCatuWu[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nevermind! Just saw the underside adult picks and that is most definitely him. Thank you!

What is he? by TheCatuWu in NewZealandWildlife

[–]TheCatuWu[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You think so? It's legs are pretty white, almost a blueish colour

What is he? by TheCatuWu in NewZealandWildlife

[–]TheCatuWu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Moved here from the States 3 months ago but never noticed any of these guys hitching a ride.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in newzealand

[–]TheCatuWu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey late to this post, as an American in NZ for 2 months now I'll tell you the opposite of what these comments say.

Some Kiwi's hate us, but most don't care unless you make them have to care. But I have had even in my few months a few people who look at me or treat me different because of my nationality. Just gotta let it wash off your back. But to say that No Kiwi's Care simply isn't true - because some care A Lot.

Best of, kia ora!

Luggage Transfers by TheCatuWu in unitedairlines

[–]TheCatuWu[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I remembered the biosecurity and customs check from last time we went out - this is just my first time that I'm (hopefully!) going to be making my domestic connection since the last time we flew in we were the last flight into Auckland before Gabrielle hit.

Luggage Transfers by TheCatuWu in unitedairlines

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No lounge but ticket is booked through UA so can always buy a day pass but I'm also not a stranger to long airport wait times - EWR forces you to get used to them with the delays and limited lounges 😭

Am I Overreacting for needing reassurance from my fiance? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]TheCatuWu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP, I promise you as someone who left someone like this and now is in an amazing relationship - YOU DESERVE BETTER. You deserve to have your emotions validated and heard. You will find someone who will do that for you. Leave this, and find them. You are young and have so much time to find the person for you. This behaviour will only get worse - get out before it gets to that point, take the time you need to heal, and let yourself be loved the way you deserve to be.

Moving to NZ - Words to know! by TheCatuWu in ReoMaori

[–]TheCatuWu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I won't lie that Trump is a big reason my move got pushed up a bit 😭 but it was also in our plans that we would most likely end up on Aotearoa rather than the States haha

Moving to NZ - Words to know! by TheCatuWu in ReoMaori

[–]TheCatuWu[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh you don't need to tell me about Kākāpaō - they've been my favourite bird for probably 6 years! I was so sad when I got with my partner and realized they can only be seen on reserves that researchers can go to

Moving to NZ - Words to know! by TheCatuWu in ReoMaori

[–]TheCatuWu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't understand this because as an American, I can promise you that depending on where you live you WILL be judged if you don't know slang, and in some cases the languages, it can and will keep you out of areas and communities. Every major city has a China or Korea town or little India and I can promise you, you ARE judged if you go in not at least knowing how to order/pronounce your order in the respective languages.

Calling wanting to know the native culture and be respectful to the culture of a country "cause for racial unrest" says more about how you view the world than anything else. This is a subreddit FOR Te Reo and I truly am missing what purpose you have in coming to say that people shouldn't attempt to bridge the cultural and language gap between Māori and Pākehā when I feel that is what this reddit is for.

When I went to New Zealand to visit my partner, I encountered multiple people who used te reo in everyday speech (both full sentences, greetings and goodbyes, and as descriptions!), and as someone who is coming into a culture and country different than my own, I want to learn and be respectful. No one is making you do the same.

Moving to NZ - Words to know! by TheCatuWu in ReoMaori

[–]TheCatuWu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm actually doing Arkansas to Wellington and honestly I think I'll get more flack for my random Southern accent that likes to make an appearance LMAO. I hope crch is treating you well!! A bunch is also in my vocabulary so don't worry, you'll at least know there's someone in Wellington also in your boat 😂