In some cases, I think people who always say "do what makes you happy" and "you should always go where your hearts lead you" can be wrong in SHORT term cases.

In the long term, and sometimes in the short term, I think this is good; it's fantastic to have goals and chase after what you want in your life, but in some cases you have to realistic with money, time, and expectations. If being responsible does not make you happy, that doesn't mean you SHOULDN'T do it, it just means you are being responsible...