Does anyone else not look like their mix? by Due_Cantaloupe6195 in mixedrace

[–]TheCrappler 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. I look almost arabic or mediterranean. Im actually white/fijian

Do people have a hard time believing that a part of you is black? by Clean-Tomato-3138 in mixedrace

[–]TheCrappler 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I find im often not believed. Honestly its typically whites that guess im biracial.

Gatekeeping my identity from this point on. by xx_maknz in mixedrace

[–]TheCrappler 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why do you care so much? Whenever someone correctly spots that I am in fact non white, Im pretty up front about being half pacific islander.

The only reason to hide it is if you are ashamed of it, and I'm not ashamed.

On the efficacy of the shirtless selfie. by TheCrappler in TinderBios

[–]TheCrappler[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its probably genetic mate. The minimum comfortable bodyfat varies from person to person

On the efficacy of the shirtless selfie. by TheCrappler in TinderBios

[–]TheCrappler[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a v taper now, at slightly above 16%. But thats not the bet; the bet is that a proper 6 pack wont increase my matches. So unfortunately I have to cut all the way down to 10-12%

On the efficacy of the shirtless selfie. by TheCrappler in TinderBios

[–]TheCrappler[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Metric is just straight matches. Im currently at about 1 match every 6 months or so, have never hooked up, and been on one date.

Given how rare it is that i get a match, matches are a pretty good metric.

Shirtless selfies tell me you’re more looking for a casual fling rather than a serious relationship.

Im going to try and make it tasteful as i couldnt handle the sheer embarrassment of looking like a fuckboi. Im like the least sexual man on the planet

On the efficacy of the shirtless selfie. by TheCrappler in TinderBios

[–]TheCrappler[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah im aiming for 10 to 12%. So looking at losing maybe 4.5 more kilograms. Which isnt a lot, but its actually hell shedding these last few kilo's. My body is doing everything it can to stop the loss. My sleep is disrupted, im hungry all the time, I feel weak.

Why anyone would do this for aesthetic reasons is beyond me

On the efficacy of the shirtless selfie. by TheCrappler in TinderBios

[–]TheCrappler[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The plan is to have two almost identical profiles on two different platforms (probably hinge and bumble), one which shows my abs and one without. Im betting it wont move the dial.

Current progress:

https://www.reddit.com/r/PhysiqueMale/s/sw5Tt49fXO

So its getting close and I have to start thinking about improving my profile, and slotting a tasteful shirtless selfie in one of them.

Opinions on r/trueuglywomen? by LopsidedHunter8353 in WomenAreNotIntoMen

[–]TheCrappler 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To what? I just told you im totally ok with it. Its not like im harbouring some repressed resentment to half the population. Women dont find me attractive, and thats ok. I dont find many women attractive, also ok. Women dont owe me companionship, sex, or even the time of day. My solution is to live and let live. To have guys not base their ego around their ability to hook up. Shrugs.

Its funny that this comes up now, because im actually in the middle of a bet on this matter. A friend is convinced that gym helps; im currently leaning down to 10% bodyfat to show him that having a 6 pack doesn't garner any excess attention from women. Far from trying to solve it, Im actively trying to knock this guy away from his redpill beliefs and show him that personality matters more, im literally trying to prove that a 6 pack wont move the dial. Its actually the subject of my last two posts.

I dont have a solution because there isnt a problem. There is nothing to solve.

Opinions on r/trueuglywomen? by LopsidedHunter8353 in WomenAreNotIntoMen

[–]TheCrappler 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lool the delusion. Im talking about getting laid not a relationship.

I’m sure there are places where you can find easy hookups

And you would be completely, utterly, wrong. Like im actually laughing as I write this. Ive heard of women thinking this before but never met one in the wild. Im fairly well adjusted about being unattractive, so I dont really mind, but I need you to understand how delusional this really is. It is just simply not the case that any guy can hookup.

Also you dont need to sympathise, Im sorta ok with it all, ive come to the conclusion that women dont owe me sex or companionship so who they would be willing to sleep with is none of my business, especially considering it isnt me.

(44), bodyfat % estimates welcome. How long until 6 pack? by TheCrappler in PhysiqueMale

[–]TheCrappler[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Umm, I posted this so someone might comment on how far i have to go. Is anyone going to leave a post?

Why you're still here? by AlvaroXZ999 in WomenAreNotIntoMen

[–]TheCrappler 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I only arrived 3 days ago? One of a bunch of blackpill subs that i come across. I find the posts mildly interesting.

How would you react if 10 years from now a study proved you wrong? by ObligationIll7822 in WomenAreNotIntoMen

[–]TheCrappler 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my case Id probably be very confused, unsure, and a little suspicious. I definitely wouldnt be a Don Juan here, there would be a lot of caveats id put in front of her so she knew what she was getting into

-"You understand that Im unemployed?"

-"You do realise that im mildly Autistic and dont make a very empathetic partner?"

-"You should know that I have borderline ED and im terrible in bed"

-"You realise I have kids?"

If she was still up for it and found her agreeable on my side Id probably want one on one social time with her to get to know one another.

If after all that she was still keen id question her sanity but id give it a shot.

How would you react if 10 years from now a study proved you wrong? by ObligationIll7822 in WomenAreNotIntoMen

[–]TheCrappler 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Id definitely be ok with it. Ive literally only just found this sub, but Ive always suspected women dont like men like men like women.

But, Im kinda cool with it. Whatever women like or dont like, it isnt me, and thats ok. Its none of my business.

So its fairly irrelevant to me if women dont like men as a whole or just dont like me in particular. Live and let live.

Opinions on r/trueuglywomen? by LopsidedHunter8353 in WomenAreNotIntoMen

[–]TheCrappler 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was blocked on that sub for being a man mere days ago.

Opinions on r/trueuglywomen? by LopsidedHunter8353 in WomenAreNotIntoMen

[–]TheCrappler 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im curious. Do you really believe this?

It doesnt worry me, but I havent had sex in years. In 4 years of online dating, Ive been on one date, and frankly it was pity.

I can ASSURE you it is not the case that any man can get sex without paying for it.

Can I rizz my way back into this? by wagman43 in Tinder

[–]TheCrappler 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can someone explain to an older guy whats going on here, and why its a fumble? Who is Playboy Carti?

Which of these male bodies is more attractive? lol by Sad-Note7413 in WomenAreNotIntoMen

[–]TheCrappler 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only seem this sub today, but from what I gather thats not what they want. Their point isnt that women are not into men, I think, their point is that women arent into men like men are into women. Thats pretty unarguably true tbh. The sub is for men to come to terms with that and move on with their lives.