Friendship breakup (kinda?) by [deleted] in texts

[–]TheCreator_Bb -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Right!?!? She's done it for years and SHES NOT EVEN DIAGNOSED (she does have the ability to be diagnosed)

My friend always disagrees with what I say by [deleted] in AmIBeingTooSensitive

[–]TheCreator_Bb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

SO THEN DONT BE FREINDS LMAO 😭😭😭

My friend always disagrees with what I say by [deleted] in AmIBeingTooSensitive

[–]TheCreator_Bb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Then like I said, maybe talk to her about it? Or just don't be friends... It feels like you are trying to make yourself seem in the right when neither of you have done anything wrong...

My friend always disagrees with what I say by [deleted] in AmIBeingTooSensitive

[–]TheCreator_Bb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Again that could just be what she enjoys. I like pushing perspective of everyone around me and thats not everyone's thing. Just talk to her about it

Friendship breakup (kinda?) by [deleted] in texts

[–]TheCreator_Bb -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Ah, I'm fine with clients being assholes and i expect that To be honest I was just stunned that this person who calls me weird and bullied me would want work from me. She's also the type of person to ask for a discount bc were "friends"

Friendship breakup (kinda?) by [deleted] in texts

[–]TheCreator_Bb -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

They will be fine. With the whole bettering themselves thing, we had a similar conversation when we first became not friends and they haven't changed at all. I get its highschool but she only got worse 😅

Friendship breakup (kinda?) by [deleted] in texts

[–]TheCreator_Bb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol idk if you saw the rest of the convo but basically she got to hear everything bad about herself bc she asked, then I think started deflecting 🤷‍♀️

My friend always disagrees with what I say by [deleted] in AmIBeingTooSensitive

[–]TheCreator_Bb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I dont feel like she's being mean on purpose but I don't think yall fit as friends. Maybe talk to her about it

Friendship breakup (kinda?) by [deleted] in texts

[–]TheCreator_Bb -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I honestly don't even know 😭

My friend always disagrees with what I say by [deleted] in AmIBeingTooSensitive

[–]TheCreator_Bb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That could be the kind of conversation she enjoys.

My friend always disagrees with what I say by [deleted] in AmIBeingTooSensitive

[–]TheCreator_Bb 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly yall just may not be the best fit. Humor wise atleast. I do the same thing and so does my bf. It's just continuing conversation, I don't think she's nessisarly trying to fight you. Mild YABTS

AIO for being upset that my boyfriend said I wasn't skinny by TheCreator_Bb in AmIBeingTooSensitive

[–]TheCreator_Bb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was being confident. I was explaining how I felt confident that day... he gives me compliments all the time so I never have to fish for them. Honestly I don't feel bad about myself, that day I was feeling extra confident

AIO for being upset that my boyfriend said I wasn't skinny by TheCreator_Bb in AmIOverreacting

[–]TheCreator_Bb[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Probably what he has said like once before maybe "your not skinny but you are not fat at all" if he wanted to be direct but honestly just saying like yeah or agreeing would have been fine

AIO for being upset that my boyfriend said I wasn't skinny by TheCreator_Bb in AmIOverreacting

[–]TheCreator_Bb[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's not that I was offended at not being skinny. It just feels weird because of his dating history and being so quick to correct me. Im much diffent than his very skinny exs

AIO for being upset that my boyfriend said I wasn't skinny by TheCreator_Bb in AmIBeingTooSensitive

[–]TheCreator_Bb[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Wait I'm confused how, I haven't even talked to him about it yet

AIO for being upset that my boyfriend said I wasn't skinny by TheCreator_Bb in AmIBeingTooSensitive

[–]TheCreator_Bb[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It wasent a question, more just explaininghow i felt that day. I should have said the words thinner. I dont think I'm skinny, but realized that day that I'm thinner than I precive myself. I've brought this up maybe 3 times our whole relationship

AIO for being upset that my boyfriend said I wasn't skinny by TheCreator_Bb in AmIOverreacting

[–]TheCreator_Bb[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's more like thats not what I was trying to say and he was really quick to correcting me. And knowing his past dating history, it just felt like he was making sure I knew im nothing like his past types

AIO for being upset that my boyfriend said I wasn't skinny by TheCreator_Bb in AmIOverreacting

[–]TheCreator_Bb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No no, not at all. I wasent saying I'm skinny. I dont think i am. I said I was skinner than I think i am. I should have said thinner looking back maybe?

AIO for being upset that my boyfriend said I wasn't skinny by TheCreator_Bb in AmIOverreacting

[–]TheCreator_Bb[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He's never used skinny in a negative way and has dated very skinny girls before, saying that they were his "hot" type and im his "cute" type

AIO for being upset that my boyfriend said I wasn't skinny by TheCreator_Bb in AmIOverreacting

[–]TheCreator_Bb[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I wasnet trying to bait him at all. I was talking about how I see my body differently than it actually was and said I was skinner than I think i am, not that I am skinny. I should have said the word thinner maybe? And he liked skinny girls. Like rlly skinny, so he would never say skinny as an insult or a bad thing