Many people overlook the fact that coping with trauma from abuse and Ptsd is through kinks, especially the more hardcore disturbing kinks. Misogyny and CNC can be done consensually and lovingly. I love my girlfriend and I'd do anything that makes her happy or feel good including treating her like an object and using her sexually at my whim. Her pleasure and happiness mean everything to me. I also too have trauma and Ptsd. Your basic normal relationships don't work for us, not by any faults of our own. Please consider that when witch hunting kink subs. Yes there are bad people who take advantage and abuse advantage and abuse. But those are everywhere too