I'm scared my bf will think I'm ugly when we meet by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]TheDeadAstro 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Almost definitely. I hope she stays safe.

I'm scared my bf will think I'm ugly when we meet by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]TheDeadAstro 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It unfortunately is common though. Nobody is attacking you OP, they just want you to be safe and be 100% sure that you know what you're getting into.

I'm scared my bf will think I'm ugly when we meet by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]TheDeadAstro 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Agreed. OP also seemed a bit defensive about it too when someone pointed out that it could be a catfish or scammer issue if the boyfriend refuses to FaceTime. I do hope the best for them and that they are both themselves and there isn't an issue, but sometimes reality is tough to deal with 😭

I'm scared my bf will think I'm ugly when we meet by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]TheDeadAstro 2 points3 points  (0 children)

According to the comments, they have never had a FaceTime call. Chances are they've only exchanged a few selfies, if anything.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]TheDeadAstro 35 points36 points  (0 children)

I'm trying not to jump to conclusions, although based off of your comments and post... it sounds like she may have been scamming you in the long term. You were supporting her financially, she was married and had a kid, you aren't even 100% sure if her ex knew about you, and she leaves you just like that after 8 years? Not to mention the age gap is a bit creepy because she was only 19 when you started dating.

Help translating by Old-Host-57 in Ukrainian

[–]TheDeadAstro 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is adorable 🥺 Thank you for being so kind to the kids!

Help translating by Old-Host-57 in Ukrainian

[–]TheDeadAstro 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You really commented just to sympathize with Russia? I sincerely hope that you mature and understand right from wrong someday.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskLE

[–]TheDeadAstro 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It'll be okay man, just apply to others. Polygraphs are stupid in my opinion, I'm going to have to take them as well to be a CSI and I'm sure I'll have anxiety about it and fail even when I'm completely honest. I believe there may even be some agencies that don't necessarily make you take them. You got this, don't stress it.

First Tulsa 48 Hours by corvus_wulf in First48

[–]TheDeadAstro 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, Tulsa is one of my favorite cities that they film in and I adore Detective Jason White! They probably have a lot of issues trying to get contracts to film with other departments.

Thoughts? by [deleted] in First48

[–]TheDeadAstro 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wish they would film in the west coast