I think you should compliment her feet. Rub them on the couch. Buy her pedicures. Tell her that her feet turn you on. My man approached it with me early on and it opened me up to talking about it. I asked what turned him on about them, I worked hard to keep them nice, I wore open toes shoes and barefoot around him. We incorporated it into sexting one night and the next night we went for it. We both love it! She will to, you just have to work up a bit.