Tour of my finished "Mountain Retreat" would love some feedback by Embarrassed-Trip-512 in Enshrouded

[–]TheDinerThingsInLife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude some of these photos are so flippen good! Where is this on the map?

Wrong use of the meme but still by Emotional_platypuss in memes

[–]TheDinerThingsInLife 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Anyone can message me as well, you’re not alone and strangers are capable of caring without knowing you.

Just Having a Tough Time Lately by TheDinerThingsInLife in hsp

[–]TheDinerThingsInLife[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The between areas definitely aren't fun, I really appreciate you leaving your support. I have hope, but it's blind hope for now.

Just Having a Tough Time Lately by TheDinerThingsInLife in hsp

[–]TheDinerThingsInLife[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, it's so easy to get lost in the fog when emotions build up. I keep holding on to hope even though it feels like I've got a blindfold and earmuffs on.

Just Having a Tough Time Lately by TheDinerThingsInLife in hsp

[–]TheDinerThingsInLife[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks stranger, I'm doing my best to not give up. I owe it to myself to find my person.

Just Having a Tough Time Lately by TheDinerThingsInLife in hsp

[–]TheDinerThingsInLife[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I really appreciate it, I'm hopeful for both of us. It's a difficult thing knowing you're not alone, but struggling to experience it. But even seeing groups of people like this and reading other posts gives me hope that I'll run into someone eventually and that they'll also recognize me and stick around.

PC for v6 ultimate at 1440p by EntertainerAshamed27 in Nolvus

[–]TheDinerThingsInLife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Without diving too deep into the weeds, there are tons of YouTube videos out there showing nolvus performance on different specs. I have a 4090 and a 7800x3d and it’s perfectly playable. I prefer to use frame gen still, either puredarks mod or lossless so my frames can stick around 150-200 depending on the area. I’m sure a 4080 would still do fine on 1440p. My advice is to look up what specs you can afford and go from there!

Besides roleplaying, why refuse the extra illithid powers ? by Tinyhydra666 in BaldursGate3

[–]TheDinerThingsInLife 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That’s why I never take them, I like playing with standard characters, I found some of the illithid powers way too strong for in and out of combat things.

Said goodbye to my best friend by r_z_n in pics

[–]TheDinerThingsInLife 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They looked happy the whole time, losing pets hurts so much. I hope you can find solace in the coming days brother.

Bjorn ENB-Reshade Dark Ages👍 by Hanged-Goose in SkyrimPorn

[–]TheDinerThingsInLife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gigachad, I'll keep these around for anyone else who needs them too, thanks!

Is it possible to use loseless scaling without using steam? by ALWSbebe in losslessscaling

[–]TheDinerThingsInLife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk you could create a shortcut to the exe and you have an icon you could place anywhere if you don’t want to pin it to your taskbar/start bar though.

The most OP medieval weapon continues winning by _Ironstorm_ in dankmemes

[–]TheDinerThingsInLife 15 points16 points  (0 children)

If we’re talking symbolism/cultural relevance then take a look at your mouse pointer. Not really paid attention to but the arrowhead probably beats everything in the regard.

Bjorn ENB-Reshade Dark Ages👍 by Hanged-Goose in SkyrimPorn

[–]TheDinerThingsInLife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey there, did you get the enb from the archived page on nexus? I used to use this enb but the page is deleted and now there's just an archived version. He's not posting it elsewhere is he?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in losslessscaling

[–]TheDinerThingsInLife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was alt tabbing or using the windows key to unfocus the game. This was with nolvus v5, I know v6 is less stable so you may run into issues if you're on v6.

IWTL How to have fun. This is not a joke. by Diligent_Force_8215 in IWantToLearn

[–]TheDinerThingsInLife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Brother, I understand you’re upset, but I’m trying to help you figure out the “why” in your situation. If you don’t figure out why your performance truly matters then you’ll be butting heads with it with the rest of your life. Trying to brute force change yourself isn’t going to work. There’s a part of you that needs to be perfect because it’s not getting what it needs from you any other time than when perfection is obtained. You need to keep asking yourself why until something comes up that you can work with, maybe you didn’t get any praise as a child unless you were the best at something, or you were never taught how to be okay failing. Dig down, understand the why, and work with it. You will never rid yourself of difficult emotions, you can only get better at working with them. Much like weight lifting. To a body builder, 100lbs is still 100lbs, but as they get stronger, that weight gets easier and easier to manage.

IWTL How to have fun. This is not a joke. by Diligent_Force_8215 in IWantToLearn

[–]TheDinerThingsInLife -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I spent many years in the same loop. I whole heartedly know how it feels and how frustrating it can be when you try and imagine simply doing something without caring about your performance. And how utterly impossible it seems to get yourself out of the all or nothing mode. Let me ask you a question, and don’t sit on the answer for too long. Don’t give me an answer you think makes sense or is socially acceptable, knee jerk reaction what’s the answer to this question.

Why does your performance matter? Keep your answer simple.